Gratitude is the Best Attitude!!

Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this time. Time? Did you say something on that? Don’t worry, whether you have or not. Time never waits for anyone, right? Yes absolutely, so don’t give up so early on situation, this time shall too passed, all you need is to have passion and courage to face it and go through it. Time isn’t in control of mine nor any of you, so let it be flow in it’s own way, we can work on to change the time, but we can’t change the time, that’s for sure. What we can do is only to have time and lose it in either good or bad way. What’s your path though?

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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day about human nature i.e. Gratitude. What you mean by that? Easy right? In general terms, To have affirmation towards all the well wishers and all the persons who have paid attention to our work and appreciate us in different-different ways, right? Absolutely it is. It’s how we the people runs, the nation runs, and the world runs. So now let’s deep dive into the topic and know it thoroughly.

We, the people are mixture of emotions, feelings, expressions and ethics, right? So, does how they shape their respective life. Each feelings – emotions, expressions and ethics played pivotal role here in growth and development of humankind. The thing which is learn/see by us (we people) since childhood will have a long-lasting impact on ourselves. Though it sometimes rely on memory of ones too. Sometimes circumstances also played their respective role in development of a person into human, Devil/Evil. Not necessary always that the one who did wrong in past will do the wrong in future too, in majority cases the inverse scenario also found here. Means the one did wrong in childhood becomes mature enough to know and tackle the situation and the one who did good acts in past, comes out of the course, and became the rebel/villain.   

Human Behaviour and Human Nature, these both the terms sounds similar but if you closely looks at it, you’ll find the meaning of it. Human behaviour can be change time after time, but the nature of human often remains the same. Behavioural changes are those which were adopted from someone/somewhere while nature of person isn’t ease to change. If one habitual to cry, they’ll always be, if one habitual to get aggressive, they’ll always be, if one habitual to give up, they’ll always be. Nature is rigid in nature while Behaviour is flexible one, it shaped by us, whether by fake or real. It’s the nature of people which recognised by the people, by the world.

Do You know, how Hitler recognised by, by his cruel mindset, right? How Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi recognised by, by simplicity of his life, right? How Abraham Lincoln recognised by, by his never give up spirit, right? So, what’s that? That’s the nature, the Simplicity, the cruelty, and the spirit all reckons by nature. So, the next question rises is that what’s the Behaviour then? In simple terms, To act according to different kind of situation, people, and place, predefined or instant. Like someone is good to some people but then he is at his worst with another, later on changed their mood accordingly. Mood swings, Up-down of life, are the main causes of behavioural changes.

Amongst all the feelings, emotions and expressions, Attitude matters the most, of the people. There’s very narrow difference one can find from Attitude and Arrogance. Attitude isn’t that what you show, attitude is what others notice from you. If you failed to differentiate between Attitude and Arrogance, hard path is awaiting for you. In simple terms, Attitude means, To let allow others to show what you did confidently, with your guts and your never dying spirit. The moment where you think that you are something, you became nothing by that very first moment. Attitude won’t teaches you to feel others low, it teaches you to generate positive energy so that whomsoever seeing you, observe you – follow you, to fill that void of their heart.

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Gratitude, what you mean by that? To appreciate others in good way or the feeling of to be grateful to others, right? Obviously, one can’t be fool enough to ignore the love they received from the others. Gratitude is the feeling where you feel from the heart and proposed your kindness to them. But is it that much easy as one thinks? Not at all. Very first you have to be kind to have it, offensive mode of yours works often but, the way you replied others says it all.

If you are able to bifurcate Gratitude, what it seems like? It’s the combination of two words. Great and Attitude, right? The way you shaped your Attitude says all about you. Gratitude is the whole process of to be appreciate by others to appreciate all them who appreciate you. If you can’t proposed your well words towards audience then later or sooner, they all will gonna leave you there, with your missing act of Gratitude. If people is Great then there’s a possibility that maybe their attitude is also good to take off the high notes but not always necessary that whomsoever carrying off Attitude will always be a good man.

When you proposed your warm words towards your audience, it works like magic. On one hand they are overwhelming by your work and on another hand, you done your job of Gratitude. It feels by both, the recipient as well as proposer. Isn’t that good? Isn’t that sound good to carry Gratitude? Aren’t you feel happy by doing so? Gratitude is the best Attitude one can ever carry with them.

The idea to penned down this topic is based on notable milestone on this platform. We are now 2K D_VYANG_TALKERS and also surpassing the very First Century of Blog post two weeks ago. So, you are reading 101^st post of mine today, isn’t it interesting? This all becomes possible, just because of you all. As I said earlier post in too that this platform is the second family of mine, glad to have you all in this journey. The journey of learning, The journey of Ups and Down, The journey of Clashing of thoughts, The journey of a Companion. A big Thank you to all of you. Before one year ago, I don’t assumed I can ever get this kind of attention from you, but it happens. Life isn’t that much bad though!!

In this whole Chaos of life we forget to be grateful and make regret preferable one, right? Following are some normal tips to be grateful to others, to yourself, to the whole Universe.

• Be grateful for the What you have;
• Be grateful for the Who you are;
• Be grateful for the People you have;
• Be grateful for the Things you have;
• Be grateful to the God;
• Be grateful to Yourself;
• Be grateful to your Acts;
• Be grateful to your Result;
• Be grateful for what you Possess;
• Be grateful for the Life you have.

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So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like it. What is Gratitude for you, don’t forget to share that with us in comment section will replied you soon over there, See you all next Sunday one more interesting topic till then Tatta, Bbyye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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