Tips, Tricks and Trims of Life!!


Hello guys, What’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this pandemic in your respective lives. Life is really challenging now a days, the one who advice others to be better, had lose control on themselves often. Disconnecting from the rest of the world, Workload and ongoing issues makes life harder to live it peacefully. There is difference between Mentally and physically disabled person. The one who is disabled physically still has chance to outshine his/her weakness with help of strong will power but the one who is disabled by mentally, not gets a single clue to edge past his/her weakness.

Giving up on the life isn’t be the option never ever, but still when people lose mentally, finds it best amongst all. Not discouraging you, but sharing you the facts of life that how it will going to consume you slowly. You became victim of yours and no one gonna survive you from there. Life isn’t that what you expect to be happen, it’s all about uncertainty and maybe that’s the beauty of it.


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So let’s quick start our session today. Yes, there’s happening so many things right now in the world, in the life that its very difficult to stay high always. The idea of today’s post is based on that. So here are some of the tips, tricks and trims of life which going to helpful you all;

Tips: Tips, it’s easy to motivate others, but when one tried to get in someone’s shoes, the real transparency of life revealed by that very first moment, which previously not seen, feel or understandable. So following are some quick tips of life which might be assist you all in your hard time.

  • Want to see a smile, then observe the innocent chuckle of toddler.
  • Want to do something, implement without much hesitant.
  • Want to see a beauty, then observe the beauty of Nature.
  • Want to see an unconditional love, then find a mother
  • Want to see an Inspiration, wake up and find the mirror.
  • Want to see improvements, start with yourself.
  • Want to Motivate, first be that.
  • Want to learn something, it’s never too late.
  • Want to give up, give up that idea first.
  • Want to live, don’t look for happiness, first start to believe to be live.
  • Want to Die, don’t find reason, be like season, just think to change that Decision.

Tricks: Likewise Tips, Tricks often works there where tips aren’t allowed to follow. Some tricks are handy enough to adopt and amend the decision whenever and wherever it seems like to be. When one is low, lost and betrayal they put more weight on trick than to Tips. So following are some of the handy tricks to follow and to recommend as well.

  • Don’t understand word, understand people.
  • Don’t be hard to yourself, at last you survive yourself from sinking.
  • Don’t count the numbers, mind the numbers.
  • Don’t ashamed to cry, it’s better than fake laugh, even in public.
  • Don’t give up too early, maybe decision you took proves early.
  • Don’t be right every time, try to be southpaw too.
  • Don’t judge people, know people.
  • Don’t look for peace, it’s within you. If you can’t find in yourself then it’s rare to find anywhere.
  • Don’t find comfort, find the place, and make it comfortable.
  • Don’t solve puzzle, solve the issues you face/you gone through.
  • Don’t copy, make others to do.
  • Don’t boost Confidence, uplift yourself than previous day.
  • Do silly, if you want to famous and known.

Trims: Trims, in general trims means to remove unnecessary stuff from there where it seems like to be needed, for cleanliness, for betterment/improvement or for satisfaction of themselves. So following are some trims which one should implement soon in their respective lives.

  • Trim toxic people.
  • Trim toxic relationship as well.
  • Detox unnecessary social media accounts.
  • Trim negative vibes and grew positive mindsets.
  • Trim unwanted monthly shopping expenditures.
  • Try to Trim screen time.
  • Trim and update Music list as and when feel needed.
  • Trim fear while to do new.
  • Trim unwanted thoughts of brain.
  • Trim evil within you.
  • Trim your feelings, emotions, World isn’t that much kind to handle it.
  • Trim expectations, Grew acceptations.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you all find something from it, and help your respective selves. Share your thoughts, opinions and suggestion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. Share your experience as well, if you implement/adopted something recently, curious to know about it. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic of the day till then Tataa, Bbyye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda hafiz. Stay safe, take care!!

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Loyalty is Royalty!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are safe and well wherever you are. I am really glad to know your thoughts in my previous post about Apology. For me it slowly becomes an addiction to stick to this site, but yeah, I like this type of addiction though. After all who gonna deny this kind of love, getting from its audience cum family?! It’s less than a year, but not got even a single link when this site became an essential thing in the life!! Every Sunday I eagerly wait to publish my post, and the way you responded is just… I even couldn’t find the words to express my gratitude towards you!! I enjoying reading yours as well. Keep Writing – Keep Shining.

Corona, I don’t think it gonna be stop its fear at least for this year. We’ve to be habitual to live with it otherwise either we gonna die to its fear or we gonna die through it. Intention isn’t to demotivate you, but as a Professional student, I can try to understand the economy. From the last 2 months, Indian economy solely bearing 40000 Crores loss in single day then you can think about the situation of rest of the countries of the world. Indian share market also lost its rank in top share market of the world, in which 2016 India stood 7th and beginning of 2019 it’s ranked 10th but now at the end of March 2020, India lose its rank. Definitely it’s the effect of Corona, the effect of uncertainty. So may be mask is new normal from now and Work from home is new tradition in the World. So, let’s ready to accept the new life adaptation.


Royalty isn’t that What you Earn, It’s that which Learn to Earn!!
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Anyways let’s move towards today’s topic. Seems like old fashioned on first glance, don’t you find through title of the post? Loyalty, good to hear but in practical, very rare to find. Right? Obviously in today’s fast-forwarding life, loyalty lost its credit ability. Honesty, the synonyms to Loyalty. But don’t find any functionality in today’s lifestyle, would you? Let’s start from beginning…


Honesty, In simple terms, To gain the trust of someone by doing best for them through us, right? Okay. It shows the faith people put it in the people but what if that trust broken by them? In today’s world you may find many person who are habitual to broke it irrespective of the gender/cast/age/religion of the person.

We are that much Treacher, that if we want to illustrate loyalty, we have to consider Dog in phrase/idioms. People trusted Dogs more rather than other people. Sounds outrageous, but that’s the hard reality of today’s human. As said, If you find honesty/loyalty then keep it, it’s rare. No argue to it, but have you find any reason that why people cheat others? Is there only Monetary benefits? Not at all. There are so many reasons of it.

The very first reason i.e. Revenge. Yeah people cheat others to get revenge of their hard time. If someone had done something wrong on sake of others, then the one who has done that, must have ready to face the circumstances of it. The one who used to be loyal becomes unwanted criminal because of their ignorance. The one who won’t appreciate good, often ends up in bare hands.

Revenge followed by Helplessness. Sometimes loyalty won’t works as thought. The one who is corrupt enforced others too. In that case loyal people either give up to the situation or they gonna give up on their life. Their loyalty ends up with the life of that man. Yes, it’s the reality. In that scenario, Either you have to be like them (Corrupt) or you may have to give up on your life ethics. Most prefer the first option, because at last everyone loves their life.

The next and final one is Greed. Maybe this is most reasonable cause of Dishonesty. Present almost everywhere and in everyone, don’t you think? Obviously, The main and upmost reason of dishonesty is Greed. As said Hunger of the Human can be Satisfied but Greed, go unsatisfied all the way. There’s no way to satisfied greed of Human. They always tries to achieve more n more. If not by Strength, then by Emotions; If not by Guts then by Buts. In between that they never know when they reached there, where it’s impossible to take U-Turn. There’s nothing wrong to say Greed, enough to destroy your Breed.

So, what’s Loyalty? To stuck to one thing irrespective of benefits/gain/loss whole life, fully dedicatedly without betraying someone for others. This concept is old but as said Old is Gold, This concept has its own pros and cons. There are so many people in the real life who still believe they should have to loyal to others. For them, their life ethics is more important than any other things. They won’t deal in exchange of their life ethics. If something is wrong for them then it’ll be wrong for always. Often, they lost their lives in doing so. They find death more comfortable rather than to live with myth.

We all are wrong in some way, but that’s the admirable who is less wrong. No one is perfect. In everyone’s life one moment comes definitely where they have to make call. Maybe it’ll go wrong in future or maybe they’ll succeed in their endeavour. Sometimes you doesn’t want to do that which is wrong but at the time you are helpless – hopeless. You know that’s wrong, but you can’t do anything.

Every people should at least try to loyal to their relative ones, Father/Mother to their family – Employee to his/her boss – Boss to their Management – Companies to its Customers – Consumers to their Ethics – Management to Government and Government to its resident. There should be transparency in each and every transaction if you want Growth and development. Men dies but it’s their name and their deeds which other reminds for long. As said, If you do something Good, you’ll find very less for Appreciation but if you do something wrong you gonna be criticize badly.

Our focus shouldn’t only to earn money, we should earn dignity along with earning. Earn Name, money will generate automatically. If you go behind Money, maybe you gonna loss everything. I know it sounds good in writing and hearing but in practical life it’s very tough. Efforts and Attempt is necessary not the result. Try to be loyal, Feel like Royal!!!

The lone difference between the two is Royalty can be earn time after time but Loyelty if once lost it’s hard to gain it again!!



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The Mysterious Trio : Heart, Mind and Soul


Hey folks, what’s up? Hope you all are doing well and good. I know this time the whole world is passing through transformation from one phase to another. Though this is the time to show what we human able to do. I know, It’s not so easy but still how can we easily give up on situation where we are the most updated version on this earth!! We ruled almost everywhere and tech-savvy. So, let’s pledge to do something to save ourselves from this outbreak. And Let’s Hope soon we’ll find the solution to overcome from this situation.


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Anyways let’s come back to today’s topic. Today I won’t publish/write anything about Corona. Instead of that, Today I’ll share something fresh with you which I come across when I wrote my book yesterday. Yes, I am still half in my book, as changes come, I modified it & that’s how I got the idea to write on this topic.

In our Body 3 Parts are more important than any other parts, right? i.e. Mind (Brain), Soul and Heart. As all these have significant effect on our body. Absence of any of the above mention 3 parts creates difficulties for One to survive or let me say without it One can’t live. Right? Yes, absolutely. Have you heard/seen any People/Man who has no Soul or heart? Not at all, right? We saw many people who has Brain, but he/she has no functionality of it. You may find many people in mental hospital, that’s because of Low brain power or say acentric/limited use of it. Sometimes one go mad as something unexpected happened with them in their respective life. In short without these 3 parts Humans won’t sound Human. They seems like Live body or let me say a bag of Bones.


If someone give you chance, then what you acquire from those 3? Many go with Mind; Many go with heart but very little will go with Soul. Not getting my words, let me understand you all.


Let’s first take Mind (Brain). You may see very intelligent people in the world in your entire life; or maybe not. It’s also depends on the person, vary from person to person. You know, to control one mind is very easy, you may heard many stories about it. We People are very sensitive, if someone talks with us sweetly, we’ll start put trusting on them soon. As we people won’t listen bad about ourselves so one can easily rule the brain of Ours.


Hypnotize, I don’t think any of you don’t aware from this word. This is the Technique through which one can easily play with mind of others. You may find one phrase in my post that Brain never goes old, but that doesn’t mean it won’t Tired. One can shape their mind to do so many things at a time but after some time, it won’t work at all. One’s stamina/immunity/power is limited whether they believe or not. So, my point is that don’t choose Brain.


Now come to the second point i.e. Heart. Have you seen Heart? No, I am also not much lucky in that too!! A 250G small piece looks like engine of One’s body. Without it no one can live, at least not Human. The people who is very close to us lives in our Heart and without them we feel like our heart missed to beat, right? Obviously, We human are emotional fool!! We take small matters in Big sense and there starts drama. The one whose Heart is bigger (not in size) looks happy all the time or say at least pretend to stay happy. They just avoid to cry before the World, but that doesn’t mean they don’t get hurts.


The one who has heart, hurts sooner or later. Heart Attack, I think you all are familiar to it, right? Okay but have any of you think why it calls heart attack? Simple man, when one can’t bear the shock, their heart isn’t in the condition to tolerate it. So, whenever some spontaneous things happen in one life, they either live happily or they going to Die soon. Many people are in habit to break the heart of others and Heart also broke easily. They break it not because of it is small/weak, they break it because we gave them authority to break it.


Now let’s back to 3rd part i.e. Soul. Where Mind can be control by someone, when your Heart is ruled by someone, but there it’s your Soul which never separates from you. Neither it can be broke, nor it can be control. It’s all yours till your Existence. Soul and your body is complimentary to each other. Without soul body is just bundle of bones and without body there’s no existence for Soul. You know Soul is immortal. After your death, your body may be either buried or may be found in graveyards. So Rather to find Life partner put weigh to find Soul partner.


Though my main point is come now to write on this Post. Whenever I do something I want to listen to my soul, but then Mind present its different Opinion and what I say about Heart? Heart always had its own view for it. They all are also right in their respective scenario. Mind is Working Properly. Heart is in Perfect Condition and Soul is also its own view. So, with whom should I have to go? If I asked you the same question whom should you Follow? Heart – Mind or Soul?


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send your suggestions in comment section, I’ll replied you over there soon. Please stay safe guys, it’s examination of God. We’ll overcome from the situation very soon. If there’s a hope. May be there’s a Success too. The whole world is running on ray of hope, the future is unsure but still we people hope tomorrow will come. Exactly that, this time shall pass soon!!! See you all next Sunday till then Tataaa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz..
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The Alphabet of Life


Hello Folks, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and healthy wherever you are. Corona Epidemic rolling its bulldozer all over the world that many strong Buildings i.e. Italy/US/France/UK/Germany also felt vibration through it. Since last 15 days I just heard the word/news of Corona virus more than anything else since I Born, really it gets more attention may be that’s its quality i.e. Attention Seeker. So today I won’t post anything related to it, instead i would like to introduce the unique Alphabet of Human Life. So Let’s Start….


“It’s not just the Alphabet, It’s the Description of LIFE.”

Active:- It doesn’t mean to stay on duty all the time, just mean to give efforts to stay fit-healthy-wealthy. Alertness and Activeness this duo quality is essential for every human being. The day you feel lazy is the starting of your fall-down. Rest is necessary but too much rest made human useless.

Bold:- Be Bold in your nature means prepare yourself to stand in all type of situation irrespective of good/bad situation on your own feet. Believe you are strong enough to face the problems because Others only left you when they find you Fighter!!!

Commitment:- Once you committed to do something than it’s important to make value of your Words because those are the words which affect others directly/indirectly. If you start doubting on yourself than believe me very soon you find yourself there where there’s no U-Turn no Diversion.

Dedication:- When you committed something with someone, you only gonna fulfill it if you dedicated yourself fully towards that task. As said Half Heatedly efforts often ended in result of Pessimism!! So whatever you wants to do, did it with support of inner soul.

Energetic:- Energetic doesn’t mean to stay high or say aggressive all the time. Don’t you find Enthusiasm similar one to Energetic? The only difference between these two is Energetic people are often Enthusiastic but Enthusiastic People are always Energetic as well. The People who is Energetic would also be Enthusiastic otherwise energy of the people wasted by many ways..

Fierce:- Be Fierce in your Decision Making but never take decision Fiercely.. People said Fierce one never be Passionate, In fact those are real who wants to do anything for Success. The heat when you feel the micro edge defeat is the moment, where you don’t need a kind heart – all you need is a Courage which is part of your Fierce Comeback…

Guts:- If You Fail what you do? You’ll give try for max. up to 3-4 times, right? Look the every failure taught you a lesson, if you can’t understood it then it’ll teach you again n again unless n until you know the real meaning of Failure not the Success. It’ll take the Examination of your Guts not your Knowledge because you may gather knowledge from anywhere but Guts are rare!!

Honest:- At least be Honest to Yourself. Because whatever you do your soul partners you in each n every Crime(Act) of yours. If you can’t be honest to yourself than you never be honest to anyone else in the world. Honesty isn’t Rare, Honest People are Rare!!

Intelligence:- Let me clear you all, Study not works at all everywhere. It’s your sense and humor which supports you anywhere. I don’t want to discourage Scholar, Study is important till Interview but in interview your response and intelligence put authority over your study.

Judge-mental:- This quality should be present in every Human Being. In fact it present in all of us but in wrong way. People Start to Judge others but that’s not the correct meaning of the word Judge. If you want to Judge anyone, Starts from yourself. If you find yourself perfect one then and only then Go ahead. If you’re not perfect then how can you expect Perfect-ism everywhere??

Knockout:- You know what is the beautiful moment of Life? The day you defeated your Fear, Knockout it that it’ll never try to Scare you… Though it’s not easy. Many tried but instead of Knock outing Fear they Knock out themselves from the World. It’s like Do or Die game. If you miss it’ll hit.

Labels:- Never give labels to others that what is good/bad. The one which is good for you, doesn’t necessary to good for others too. It’s just matter of opinion that what is good for them and what is not good for others. This is not an Ability nor a Quality. It’s totally viewpoint of People vary from person to person.

Money:- Money is the Most Powerful Inspiration and when you have that you don’t need any other Inspiration right? May be Yes, May be No..The People who run behind Money lost themselves often. Rather to run for Money, Make Money which works to regenerate more money. In past Greed of it, destroy many Human Breed. Be Greedy to make it, rather than to earn it As said Brain never goes old.

Necessary:- Do You really know what is necessary for you or not? If no then mention me the quote of Warren Buffet: If you Bought that what is not Necessary for you, Very soon you Sold out that Which is Really Necessary for you.. Done routine checkout to your requirements and plans accordingly.

Opportunities:- Opportunities are like Ball of Cricket Game. If you miss, you may got other balls to face, but the only condition is that not to hurt too early. Because barriers are part of your Success Journey. If One Opportunities gone find another one to be Succeed. As said You only Lost if you Give Up. Just hammer strong your will power and confidence in yourself.

Practice:- Practice makes Man Perfect, is this Idiom/Phrase Wrong? No? Then why to stop yourself? The more you Practice, The more expertise knowledge you gather in that particular matter. You only advise others if you well Developed. As said first Learn then remove L from it.

Quality:- What you prefer, Quality over Quantity or Quantity over Quality? Quality, right? For example iPhone. If you give quality to others they will be habitual of yours and never left you unless n until your better Competitor enters the market. People loves show off then why not to take benefit of that habit? Be Brand – Sold Brand – Sold Quality!!

Reason:- We people often find reason to leave someone/something. Don’t we? Definitely, we always love arguing so that argue sometimes itself becomes reason. Never Find A Reason rather than find a Visionary Mission of that reason which wants to lead you towards the mountain of Success!!

Success:- Success is not your cup of tea if you have egoistic or say arrogant belly. Your metabolism to digest the failure is everything that you need to be Succeed. If you want Success then Achieve it but never beg it. If you beg then it’s not Success, it’s only some shitty sympathy of others which you accepted as Success. Be a Failure, so and so you can only knew the meaning of what the Success is.

Tactics:- Yes as I said above your sense of humor and intelligence plays an important role in your life. Your will power and out of box thinking that how to tackle the particular situation when to Dribble and how to shuffle for the next move is all you need. Prefer on to Be Tactical More rather than to be Practical!! Because for appliance of Tactics you’ve to be Practical sooner or later..

Unique:- The efforts which are different from others will put you in that category which many often Dream about. Uniqueness and Incomparable, this both quality is enough to monopolize your Existence. People only choose/select you if they find you/your efforts more comfortable than their Previous Experience, otherwise why they strike an ax on their own leg?

Varieties:- Always try to Give variety to People. People have fond of accepting new changes whether it’s in Cloth/Gadgets/Books/Food or other items. You may find people hunger at most of the time, so it’s up to you how you satisfy their need and requirements. People Consume what they Digest easily so be humble to them as well..

Wallet:- We know Money couldn’t buy happiness but Money gives many reasons to be happy, Don’t you think? Absolutely, money satisfies most of the requirements so always think big. Rather than to weigh your Wallet, think to Rise up your bank balance. The more you earn, the more you try to live peacefully happy life!!!

Xenophobia:- If you come in this world then just forget that really you hate someone. That someone whatever do to harm you, just ignore them and be kind enough to draw your attention to productive work. Always Remember We are here to save not to harm, We are here to Produce not to vanish!! Never be too strict to yourself either…

Yield:- As a Human being we always go there where we make profit now, or in nearest Future. That’s the human tendency. There’s one rule in investment: Higher the Risk, Higher the Return. So prepared yourself to lose first, the same or more what you expect to earn. Because Without losing you never think to Win.

Zero:- Simply The value of zero always seems nullify. But in reality it’s the Zero which make worth of your Wealth. Don’t believe? Then try to remove last zero from your Earning. Still not saw any change? Do you know the special Quality of Zero, It is good enough to make you Zero from Hero. So who are you?


So that’s all for the day, hope you all like the new version of my Alphabet which is essential in human life cycle. Keep sharing your views, thoughts, opinion,suggestions in comment section – will replied you soon. See u soon on next Sunday till that Taata, Babbye, Rab Rakkha, Shukran, Khuda Hafiz!!

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Mind the ABC of Life…


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all had a great start of New year & if not then don’t be sad it’s just beginning. As said beginning should always be different then Climax. So keep up with pace towards your goal & be passionate at the same time. Today’s my post is based on that, hope you all will find it helpful. So let’s start but before that let me give quick update of the world from past week.

The People from all over the world celebrated the New year in very fascinated ways. Like Amazon rainforest wildfire, Australia also become victim of natural calamity, troops sends to tackle down fire,killed almost half a billion animals. Qasem Soleimani, the Iranian Commander was assassinated in US Airstrike in Baghdad on Thursday night, the US Defense Department Conformed. In Jakarta, Indonesia More than 50 people were dead in Flood. Russia develops a new weapon travels 27 times more faster than Sound. So that’s all the major events I consider in today’s post.


Anyways, let’s Coming back to today’s point/agenda. The new year comes & many people have resolute/planned to execute many things/stuffs in this year. So my blog topic is wholly reflect on that, that how people should concentrate and not to be arrogant driving towards goal. Though this subject relates to all and one can easily applied this one to their daily healthy and wealthy lifestyle. Each & Every people must have Kept in mind the follow ABC of Life for having beautiful & worthy life.

Attitude:- Ahh not in that mean, what you assume. Let me explain, Attitude means having a Own Grew Personality, not to measure people useless or brainless if one has better understanding than others. To let people know about you, your humbleness and simplicity is all your worth. We all know that Life is race, but You only win if you have power to Digest the Success.


“Develop your own Attitude from differ than Rest of all.”

And as said there’s Slight difference between Attitude and Arrogance. Never be arrogant to have upper hand in competition/stuffs. The people who were arrogant never digest success and ended up in giving up whole life treasure, even sometime he/she has to walk by washing up his/her respective life. Kindness/Helpfulness are the key of Happiness. One can say that he/she is happy but his/her inner soul never stand by his/her side.

Don’t be Blind in Your own Personality, let observe others too and then make your next move. Give equal importance to others as well. If your attitude is bury yourself then what it means? Does it make any sense? Having an Attitude is a good thing but always remain in Attitude is Worthless. Show Attitude there where it’s necessary, never there where it’s seems unusual/outrageous.

Behavior:- Ok let me say, what are you mean by Behavior/Behaviour? To act in different situation or to act towards different people according to situation, right? Well that’s the half meaning of the aforementioned word. Let me give brief explanation of word.

“Change in Your behavior is like Change in Yourself..”

Behavior means to Behave as per our condition, towards different kind of persons in versatile situation/consequences. Here I consider our condition, means changes occurs in ourselves not in others. The Change is made when we progress in life i.e. the stage of becoming Rich from Poor, the stage of becoming Matured from short tempered, the stage of becoming Human from a Ordinary Man. In all the cases we change by experience or say by Age. The person who remain Down to Earth in all the situation is truly knows as a MAN.

The day when that feeling coming in your mind/soul that I am Something your downfall started till What for me, Nothing.. So always be a man and remain helpful to others. Never Change your tone or show off your Money power, always be in nature and smile all the time. Your Vanity may be just for temporary Don’t make it permanently to vanish your Life.

Commitment:- In among all the three, Commitment is the almost necessary all the way. The commitment required whole life, in all situation & in all ife events. The above two are(i.e. Attitude & Behavior) also worthless if you are not committed to yourself because Commitment is predefined/preconditioned everywhere.

Attitude & Behavior don’t changes if you not committed to yourself. The one who is not committed will always finds him/herself uncommitted everywhere. If you wants to do something, then you must have to do that. Lack of commitment showing immaturity of a Man.

“Make a Promise not to break down Commitment.”

Someone has said very truly, The only thing is going to stop yourself, is only You. Be Passionate towards your Goal/Mission/Vision. Focus & Concentration is required when you going to commit something. If you committed but don’t fully concentrate then you’ll end up in pessimism.


So that’s all for the day. Hope you’ll never underestimate the aforementioned ABC of life. Keep the like, share & comment as well as your thoughts, opinions & suggestion regarding today’s post. Will Appreciate your thoughts, Thank you

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“What is in NAME?”


Hey Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing great. A few days ago, when I am passed time with myself, a lightning thought come in my mind that What is in Name? Is it necessary to have name of something / someone? And I found it very interesting that yes it’s the name which identifies you differ from others. So let’s start,

But before that let me give quick update of the world. Sister of late ISIS leader Bagdadi was held in Syria. Ice Egg were shown on beach of Finland which is not good as per Meteorologist. In NZ Court just heard the arguments of both the sides over the death of Grace Millane and delayed their decision. In Cricket Bangladesh was register their first ever win over India in T-20I. South Africa Won the Rugby WC for third time,most by any country by beating England in Final.


Anyways let’s comeback to our today’s topic. Had you ever thought the Mystrey/Meaning of your Name Or say have you thought why your name is this and not that. Yes I’ve & this post is result of that thought btw.

“NAME is not just a letter of differenciation from others but it’s that which later identify your True and Real Existence.”

“Build Your Name – Build Your Fame.”

People – Animals – Things/Stuffs – Commercial Buildings – Cities – States – Countries – Continents all have their different Identity and they all are Differenciate by thier Unique NAME. It’s the name which makes you separate/differ then rest of all. So by uppishly Name seems like genuine but it has deeper meaning than you know – than you understand.

It’s the name which separated two Twins, It’s the name which everyone wants to hear from World, It’s the Name which identify you as a Mankind or live Creature, It’s the Name which everyone wants to highlight in the World, It’s the Name which is not other’s property and your fully right on it, It’s the Name, people wants to earn from World, It’s the Name which remember easily rather than Face, It’s the Name which your loved one called you by, It’s the Name which Changes into Brands, It’s the Name which is Immortal, It’s the Name which reminds long than rest of all the things, It’s the Name which reflection makes your life horrible – famous. So there is so much in NAME. Don’t you think?

Some born with Bigger Name & Some come in this World with a aim of Bigger Name. Some Earn their Name & Some lost their Name by some Greedy Events. Some Tries to Value their respective Name & Some demolish their Name by themselves. So at last it’s a Name which Refer others to identify you.

“It’s just Game of Name that Everyone Wants to Play.”

“People Gone but Thier Name Remain Left in the World as Memory.”

Don’t you believe? Ok let’s see here. As soon as human born, he/she got the name from their family. And Everywhere that Name remains most important whether it’s for Admission process – Government Procedures or for documentations. But it’s wholly depends on the people whether to be Fame from it or Destroy it. People remind your name for Two Reason: If you’ve did Good to others and If you’ve did Wrong to others. So it’s Name which memorise others for your Existence.

We love/like when people called us by our name. Because it’s shows the bonding and relation between two or more people. Have anyone observe, That feeling when we don’t know someone’s name and we’ve no idea by which we have to called them by…. Aah what you called then by Excuse me / Miss / Mister?

But when we know the Name of person then that Confidence by calling them by their Name works amazing. Really don’t believe then try sometimes with someone. We should always prefer to call people by their Name, yes really there’s something in the Name.

Name has Perpectual Succession in case of Non-living Creature. Like Giant Tech – Commercial Buildings – MNCs – Designation etc. So we should try to give Name to all those which we love/like. Even though we give Name to Puppys – Cats – Parrots – Tortois – Horses because it’s shows the bonding between two.

So it’s in your hand whether you wants to shine your Name in the world or not.

It’s Said that,

Work Until Your Signature turns into Autograph.”

I just wants to change it by

“Work Until Your Name Becomes Fame itself.”

You know Who is the Real Winner? “A Person Who focuses to Earn Name along with Money.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you like it. Keep loving – liking – sharing – commenting it. And also share your views and meaning of your name in comment section. Wish you happy Sunday Evening.

So see you all Next Sunday till then Bbye – Shukran – Rab Rakhkha – Allah Hafiz.

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Expectations: It Hurts – It Cures!!!!


Hey Folks, What’s up? Hope you all doing well. The topic of today’s blog is recommended by one of my collegue. Though at first I won’t get any sense but after observing the Words I couldn’t stop myself to write on it, So let’s start

But before that, let me give quick updates of the World. Halloween fever was shown in many American – Europeon Countries/States. After Amazon forest Firegoal, there’s recorded one more incident of it in California, USA. In Cricket Australia had clean sweep Srilanka in T-20 Series. German Chancelor (Angela Morkel) was its official visit to India for 2 days. China launched 5G Covered Bus. Many news agencies confirmed death of ISIS leader Bagdadi.


Anyways let’s comeback to today’s topic. What will you mean by Expectations? Just Hope for Something from Someone, that’s all? Yet it’s not wrong at all, hence it has more deep meaning than it.

Expectation isn’t just a Word, It’s a Mixture of Hope – Feeling – Emotions & Tear of Joy.

“Expectations not always Work but Work as per your Expectations.”

Don’t you believe? Ok then let me explain you. In this World Everyone expect something from someone, though there’s nothing wrong from it. But still when those expectations can’t fulfilled, many people broke down or say they just lost hope from those to whom they expect.

A Child Expect to get everything and if his/her mule wasn’t satisfied, he/she tried to fulfilled it by Crying. A Mother Expect a bright future of her kid. Father expect to satisfy all his family’s requirement. A Lover Expect a pure love and trust from her/his beloved ones. Rich Expect more n more money & Poor Expect to be Rich soon. A Begger Expect a food for one time, A Pet Expect love from its Warden. Student Expects Good Mark in Exams & Player Expect Match Winning performance of himself. Giant Tech Expect More Margin and Entrepreneur Expect Success.

So there’s each n every People in this World Expect from others in return of Something. There’s no one who is UNEXPECTED, and if people not Expect from others then at last Expect from GOD. Because in this World none is fully/wholly satisfied, There seems a Flow of Greed in Vein of Human Boday instead of Flow of Blood.

“Perfection Should be Expected But Expectation Shouldn’t be Perfect.”

“Expectation is just Assumption of Reality.”

To have Expectation is good because it’s show Optimism of Mankind. But when those expectations couldn’t fulfilled then also be ready to Pamper Courage to Get up and Fight to achieve it. The Whole World walk on Expectation. Because people Hope Tomorrow Morning will bring something New for them. & As said If there’s a Hope may be there’s Success Too.

Expectation Hurts, When you expect More, than you able for it. Expectation Cures, When you expect Less, & Achieve More. So there’s only needed one mindset, Expect Less but give Try 110% , so that you won’t get Unsatisfied. Although more expectations from others will definitely Ruin your life, so its better to Expect from yourself.

When You start to Expect from Yourself, You Really Starts to Live the Life on Your Own. If you still expect from others then after sometime You’ll return by Bare hand – a Broken & as Pessimist.

Expectations are Good but Always Good Expecatation, Don’t you think it isn’t Good?

“Unexpected Expectations are like Human Without Sense.”

We People always Hope for Good because we can’t bear Failure or say we have no guts to accept the failure, but Sometimes Failure is More Important than Success. If We Can’t Fall Down then How can We Learn to Get Up? So it’s necessary to fell down, to get up, to give try until n unless Satisfactory Victory recorded.

Expectation Sounds like Synonym of Hope. Limited Expectation Prove you to be MAN, Unlimited Expectations Prove you to be PUNK.

Never be Upset if your expectations go unnoticed. Add one More Expectation to that list, Tomorrow will be Mine & I’ll be fuc*in satisfied. Be Hungry Enough to get it, Rather than to wait like a Kitten.

And last one quote,

“I Hope but Never Expect…”


So that’s all for the Day. Hope you Enjoy it. Keep Liking – Commenting and Sharing your views, will reply you soon. See you soon on next week until n unless than Bbbye – Shukran – Rab Rakhkha – Allah Hafiz…

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Words : That Really Matters!!!!


Hey Folks, What’s up? Hope you all doing well. I came up with new idea for you, So from now I am adding one more interesting thing in my blog i.e. Weekly Update of World.

So Let me give quick updates of World because There is so much happening in the world right now, i.e. British Royal Couple’s Official Visit to Pakistan, Violence in Catalonia for their different status from Spain, Amazon forest’s fire almost covered 10-12 Countries, In India Dengue fever covers most of the states and many dies because of it. UN cuts their spending because of Non-availability of necessary Funds from Member Countries. In short there’s so much that we mankind struggle now a days, by ourselves – by nature.


So now let’s turn back to our today’s topic, i.e. Words spoken by us i.e. We Human Beings. Have you ever give importance to your words or say have you ever think your words Pros and Cons before speaking? No, then really think about it because it’s not a lit-bit thing, it’s much bigger issue than you think. Though it doesn’t mean to overthinking, but make sure whatever you are going to tell is really reasonable to say or not.

Words, The people’s Real Inner Sound. Because what is inside of Human Body will come outside as Words. So make sure whever you speak, make worth it otherwise your value also be Nil & was that make any sense? Don’t think so.

“Some Make World from their Words , Some Just Make Words from this World.”

As said Pen is Mightier than Sword, I just wants to change it by Words are Strenghten than Sword. Because it’s the word which effect on one’s heart or say it’s the words which affects one directly or indirectly.

You know it’s look like quite easy and simple to reply somebody but behind that there’s need a proper mindset and understandment. Don’t believe? Ok let me explain.

While facing an Interview apart from your Dressing – Look and Resume, Your Confidence of Reply to questions turned the game by your side. Believe me Your words make a huge impact on opposed person. Your sense of humour is upmost necessary in doing all the stuff. In someone’s funeral you can’t make a statement- I am happy for his/her Death. Or say you can’t make a Statement in Someone’s Marriage that They will going to separate after Marriage. So it’s your Words which makes you a REAL MAN.

One will may Poor by Money but Sweetness of his/her Words will definitely Changed his/her Destiny.

“Change Words – Change World”

Don’t think to give more narration for above mentioned thought as it fully and wholly depends on you how would you react and reply to others.

While on the other hand, if you’re millionaire but no sense how to talk with others then believe me your piece of papers are just Scrap. If your words hurts someone then people afraid from you to talk. Other Peoples will just use you for their purpose and after fulfilling their purpose they’ll start to Ignore you. Because they know You are always burried mouth.

There are different kind of people : The Talkative One – The Silent One & The Rubbish One. Words of Talkative ones’ are Good to listen but there flow of words will ends up in Confusion. Then the words of Silent ones’ are most effective as per study. As they speaks oftenly people loves to listen it and understand it. They speak less but very Consciously.

And last one the words of Rubbish one, who don’t care what impact of their words are falling upon people. They speak without thinking which ends up with misery. People hurts from their words, (here it doesn’t mean to identify weak people).

“SPEAK LESS, SPEAK CONSCIENTIOULY”.

Some are also good in playing Word Games, they just shape themselves for handling different types of situations or say challenges.

P.S. Politicians are Exception in above case…😂😂 Please note


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it and as always keep liking share and Comment as well. See you all next Sunday (Diwali Special Post) till then Bbye – Shukran – Rab Rakhkha – Alaah Hafiz.

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Suicide: Not an Option Nor a Choice


Hey Folks, What’s Up? Hope you all doing well. You may got the assumption of my post, by title of the blog. So I don’t think I should’ve to give more narration about it, Right?

Exactly Right guess, in today’s post I told/explain you, why you shouldn’t commit SUICIDE. But have you any Idea Why people/person commit suicide? As one’s life became more n more stressful/painful – by giving up to situation person chose to Commit Suicide as a last option.

But Really it’s Right Option though? Not at all, Infact Suicide will never be the Right Option/Choice even Not Today – Not Yesterday and Never Ever. By commiting Suicide one may release from those situation which lead them to there, but they forget they lost the most precious thing of World, i.e. LIFE.

But do you know what Life mean by? The person who knew it will never commits Suicide and the person who doesn’t knew will always find Suicide as a Right choice or say right option. But their Right option will turned out to be Blow for their family, a huge blow, which never imagine by other.

“Don’t you think, By committing Suicide – You Just Disrespect the GOD?”

Suicide, the word itself shows its Cruelty. By Killing themselves how can One can said that he/she survived? Infact they don’t kill themselves only, They kills firstly their Confidence, which forced him/her to doing stuffs & face result whatsoever.

They kills their family, by giving them unexpected news of the death. They kills their respective life which is very rare. They just kills the aim of their life.

But really If you born as Human then just Thank to God, for giving you life as human and what do you did if you’ve no courage to face problems or issues of life? Just shorten your life, that’s all? Is it the right treatment to the God Gift?

Of Course, NO. Then what to do if you’ve thought in your mind to commit Suicide? Really, I know when people have no guts to face the world or say left no option to live the life they drove towards it. One should’ve to find the Reason to live the life, & that reason is very clear – Happiness of your Parents.

Just think about it, when you decided to commit Suicide – Remember Your Mother’s Face, Ocean of Million Dreams to see you as Most Successful person of the World & Your Father’s Face, who say less but there’s lot to learn from each n every word of him. Really don’t you think that reason is enough which forced you to think about your Decision regarding life?

“Just Remove Pessimism from You Brain.”

Look Problems, Obstacles, Issues, Defeats and Shame is part of your life cycle. It doesn’t mean you’ve to give up on situations or say you are useless. Let people blame you or whatever they want to do with you. Just stay with yourself.

It’s said that In Bad Time Even your Shadow won’t Stay with you. But I want to say Who need Shadow when you’ve your own Support. Never break down your Confidence. The Day when you starting to doubt towards yourself, Your count down is began of Life.

Do whatever just be hammer will. Never give a shitty chance to others to judge you. Just stay with your Real Personality. Never be Fack, be Original.

I just want to share my funda which help me lot when negative thoughts playing in my Brain,

Always carry a Photograph of your Parent in yout Wallet or Purse & whenever you feel pessimist/negative, Just See it, Believe me You Automatically Gonna Smile/feels Relaxed.

“Just Tell the God, Yes I’m Living the LIFE.”

Really Before commiting Suicide, think Calmly, think Twice, think pros and cons of it and then chose, Is it really Beneficial to others by commiting you Suicide? If your inner soul won’t respond stop there & calls to your close one to whom you can share your Situation.

Suicide is not an Option, Not NOW – Not THEN – Not SO EVER.


So that’s all for the day, if you meet any person who looks broken and left no interest to live the life then help him/her to get out of difficulties. Otherwise one can contact me on follow email ID, I’ll consult you soon.

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Yes, I am Learning….


Yes, I am learning Every Second, Every Minute, Every Hour, Every Day, From Everyone For Everything – Have you any excuse/argue?

Don’t think so because life is like mystry box, you never know what will come out next, so be ready to train yourself everyday.

“Learn till your knowledge turns into Experience.”

Learning makes you strong, not weak. That feeling when you don’t answer of someone’s question will heat you and you like I’ve to answer it, why am fail to reply. The thing that is matter what efforts you made to learn, not that thinking what people thought about your failure of replying.

“Wake Up like It’s a New Morning – Everything is old,

Forget what happened last night & Move Ahead”.

If you think you knew everything then believe me you’re wrong. No one knows everything, no believe then tell me Who is God? & Where’s the God? If you answer it correctly I salute you.

Yes, I am learning How to walk – How to Talk. I am learning How to do – How not to do. I am learning What is Right – What is Wrong. I am learning Who is Good – Who is Bad. I am learnig from People – for People.

“Learn to Discuss/to Solve but Never learn to Jealous.”

Life Teaches you by so many illustrator, learnt from it and be strong. Never ashamed yourself for learning from others, If you don’t know then frankly said I don’t know and be curious/zealous enough to know about it.

If you be straight forward and open minded then no one stops you by learning. Learning from youngers than you, won’t make you SMALL, in fact you know something interesting which you not known before.

Yes I do Mistakes oftenly, because I wants to learn. If you won’t make mistake then you go ahead for temporarily not so far. But after sometime there will be a stage you find yourself in deep trouble, where there is no wayback.

Put aside your EGO and Learn. Never be shy of learning. The World itself is a Boundryless School, where everyone’s a teacher learn from them and make a way.

“As said No Age of Learning.”

L: Learn

E: Every

A: Aspects

R: Reconcile it n

N: Nomenclate for betterment

In the world, everyone gonna teach you something, observe it and then replied from your understandment. Never be too quick to reply because Sometimes after effect is more dangerous than Earthquake.

You only gain Experience by Learning, The day you stop learning is the day you stop Yourself from doing Everything.

So Never be reason of your own downfall. Never STOP Learning.


So that’s all for the day, wishing you all a great Weekend,

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