Welcome to the World of Nepotism!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are good and healthy wherever you are in this pandemic. The week was absolute horrible, as there happened so many horrified events at different places. But the one which shook the whole Beirut, the capital of Lebanon was heart melting and outrageous one!! It’s not even wrong to said it shook the whole world though, tremendous ammonium nitrate explosion took Beirut on terrible ride, felt by 100 miles away too. Over hundreds of fatalities recorded, thousand became shelter less, thousands of missing and damages of billions of dollars had been affected to the economy of Beirut. May those soul find rest in peace.

Another incident of fire occurred in Ajman Market, Dubai, UAE. Not much heated like Beirut one, but this too made a huge impact on UAE economy conservation and pollution control plans. No such reason yet to be find by official behind the incident but hope they will be succeeded soon. We human must have to suffer as we harm earth by our acts since last couple of decades, so this is the lesson nature wants to taught us. If we still underestimate it, we must be ready to face the circumstance of it, even worse than this. Human, we aren’t for regret!! Either we have to change or we had already in the financial statements of God, still not known. Air India Plane crashed on runway while landing in Kozhikode airport in Kerala, India, resulted into death of both the Pilots along with other 16 people who returned from Dubai to India under Vande Bharat Mission, initiative of Indian Government to bring back Stranded Indians to India. May all those soul find the peace wherever they are!!


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Nepotism, you all are aware from it, right? No? That’s fine, here we learn all about it, that too in depth. Sushant Singh Rajput, mostly Indians know that there are spreading so many gossips on his death, the idea to penned down this topic is fully based on that. Many believes that he too became victim of this poison, i.e. Nepotism. Many believes that he was in depression because of nepotism which enforced him to lead to that decision. Rhea Chakraborty, his girlfriend was also one of the major suspects as she tried to push him in dark and gain some undue advantage of his fame. Thousand faces – Thousand Talks.

So today basically, We will come across that What really Nepotism is and how it comes into limelight. Is it so bad as we people think about it? Are we really know how it affects and all? Obviously, this topic isn’t new, but we people made it fresh in recent time. Don’t you think? Sushant Singh Rajput, a late Bollywood actor was a gem, who acquires good personality, fame and popularity in his short career, but nepotism just outshines him in every aspect, that’s what we people talk, share and believe about him but that’s not the real and whole truth though. We will try to enlighten the concept so we will able to think about it again.

Nepotism, When the people gives priority to other who is his/her relative or who had given some preference while making of choices or selection in comparison to others by whatsoever reason is generally termed as Nepotism. This tradition was highly applicable in Corporate world which lately followed by all the industries, whose Chairperson/CEO will be of that who had some connection/genes to founder of the company. The next generation will just have to do one thing, to adjust themselves while filling in off other’s shoe, which leads to injustice to those who was really able for that position, for that designation, that’s what we people think.

But do you really think that by some backward support, success is guaranteed? Not at all, it’s the whole delusive concept. The struggle you did, to be acted by those too who is entered as your competitor. One can buy anything with money, but talent guts – courage – luck not favoured by anyone. Look maybe they introduced by some people, who thinks they are beneficiary for them but then how would you judge yourself to them? When you think you compared to them, then it doesn’t mean at all. If you are replaceable one then always remember the one who replaced you, had also replaceable at the time being in force at sometime in the life. Everything is interchangeable, it’s just matters of choices, followed by rightly execution of those selections.

The one who enters via some connection, had in fact more pressure than you.

  • Very first challenge for them is to remove your fame from the audience which is quite impossible if you are stable and well popular.
  • The second challenge for them is to carry forward that legacy which is, itself a huge mountain to weigh on the back.
  • The third challenge for them is to prove right in each and every decision made by their ancestral.
  • The fourth one is to prepared themselves better than you, who attracts more fanbase, power in comparison to yourself.
  • The fifth one is to boost the self-confidence, to face the criticism and blame because compared to normal people, the son-daughter of celebrities are highly judged by either paparazzies or people. These are some of the reasons, why you shouldn’t try to entered in the game as nepotist.

No argue in that, that nepotist finds work easily but that’s how the company runs, Industries runs, nation runs. You must have to learn to deal with it. One couldn’t run away from it that they gain some advantage over you. If that chronology works, then Messi-Ronaldo won’t chase each other, the son of farmer won’t posted at reputed designation in Government, the orphan of today won’t become future billionaire. You must have to clear all the barriers/obstacles because that’s what the life means to be.      

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If you think all circumstance will favour you then be alert. Hard work and Struggle, the more you did, the chances of your success are more than nepotist. Had you heard about the experience? That’s all, you edge past your competitor there. Maybe they gain some favouritism, but they can’t ask for experience from anyone. Make space for yourself rather than to find space for yourself.

Look we all are related to someone, so it doesn’t mean that we all are nepotist. Favouring to someone makes you Nepotist then be that and accept frankly, what’s wrong in that? After all it’s your money you gamble either on Nepotist or normal one. The need and choices of people are used to be change each n every day, so don’t start judging yourself rather than to start focusing to improve yourself.

The law of nature is very clear, Be Kind to Everyone But never expect the same. The world is so cruel at the same time, they need one reason to hate you in exchange of thousand reasons to be love are perished against it. There are many illustrations that nepotism won’t always work. Find that opportunity and make them believe & regrettable that what they missed. Your value is in your hand, if you forget to observe it then how can you expect others be?

It’s not the matter that Who is Wrong and Who is Right but it’s the matter of What is Right and What is Wrong? If you tried to prove others wrong then how can be you Right either? Think about it, your happiness is your key of success, if you allowed other to unlocked it then prepared to fall apart. It’s absolutely right that your decision will definitely going to affects you but how much right it is to blame others if others decision also affects you. Is other’s influence on you that much, that it leads you to unwanted paths? If yes then, believe me you had no control on your life.


So thinks about it again, before judging anyone that who’s nepotist and who is not. If you are not then why to be jealous to them? Are you not capable of that or had you already scared of being lose? So that’s all for the day. Sent and share your suggestions, tips, thought to comment section section will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday till then Tataa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz…

P.S.:- By the next week or two I am thinking to start my own Podcast, I’ll informed you about it in the next post if everything plans accordingly. I tested my voice and some improvement is needed so I’ll have to work on it to improve my voice as a podcaster, Stay tuned for the further updates..

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Is the Racism only Disease Exist in the World?


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. As I mentioned in my last post about our firm’s new undertaking. i.e. Undertaking of the Accounting and Legal Compliance of William John’s Pizza outlet in Ahmedabad, Gujarat post lockdown. Here I cover my little experience about it as it was my first solo experience as an Inspector of Inventory and Asset Management. Many go wrong that I’d pizza outlets but no, our one of the clients is just entering into the business as an investor. They chose us as their accounting head, as we are registered as Chartered Accountancy firm. So, my Sir had given me opportunity to had little experience in this field. Though if you will ever plan to visit Ahmedabad then you’re most welcome at these venues, i.e. Vastrapur, Maninagar, Motera and Odhav.

It was really a new experience for me. New in that way, because before this in person meeting with client, I accompanied to my sir or some senior colleague. But in this adventure, my sir provided me the sole and whole right to visit all outlet to me and also given the grant to ask any question what I want to know curiously. I go there and met the Manager of all the outlets, develop new business relations which eventually turned out to grew my confidence of public speaking. During my first visit to Odhav, I was lit bit nervous but as soon as I reach there, I gradually started showing my true colours. i.e to ask questions to them, visited Kitchen area and noted down everything, that I think to be helpful for us in valuation. Soon in 2 days I completed the visit of rest of the outlets and submitted my work to the sir, presenting them and understand the accounting held on outlets, policies and some observation to him. It was really wonderful experience, So, that’s all, I think I add little bit more personal touch in today’s blog but let me confess Yeah that’s true I was overwhelmed by my work.


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Anyways let’s move towards our today’s one more interesting topic of the day. You got the basic idea right that what we should gonna talk about today, right? Yes, right the type of hatred ness among the people, by the people, for the people. This is based on incident of George Floyd. Yeah, the one who is died by torturing of Police official while he was allegedly passing a counterfeit of billion of dollars. All started the movement and showed their support to him, by #blacklivesmatter. But really, he was innocent like that? Why we just able to see the only side of the coin? He was about to arrest and soon find himself behind the bars, then definitely he had done some acts which isn’t right in eyes of law. It not shows any biased opinion, but no one thinks the reason behind it? If you go in past you find many evidences that he was involved in many unlawful acts. If he was genuine citizen then, why police official held him? We people are really crazy, when some people tells about something, we soon started believing on that without revealing that dark side of the picture. We mob just need one reason, to hate someone, even thousand reason of love doesn’t matter in front of it.

Though It doesn’t mean police had power to do anything with us, they have some criteria, ethics, rules, they must have to follow, maintain. But the real question is that, why we start supporting that hashtag, #blacklivesmatter? Had anyone given try to know the real truth behind the story? Social media, never believe on that. News channels, Newspapers, only print that, what actually beneficiary for them, not us. We all are same then why to give that separate importance to it? Look at the sky in the night, you won’t find anything exact contrasting to it except moon and stars. Just turned off all the switches of your house, you won’t able to see anything. Black was important, is important and will always be important. But why we forget if we start that movement, then there are some people exist who adversely available to gain the benefit from it? Is it not enough to spread the hatredness to white tone people?

Racism, what actually it means? Do you know? Not at all. If you know then you never did support the movement like blacklivesmatter. People had not problem with body/skin colour, we had problem with ourselves. When we can’t see other’s success or when we couldn’t digest success of others, we soon start hating them by whatsoever reason. Will you start that chain again if some black cop kills white man, #whitelivesmatter? Just think about it, it was coincident may be, that the one who died was black and cops were white by tone. Racism is our own set up, so don’t make it personal. If to call someone is black is racism, then how you feel when someone judges you by body type/structure? Is that not bodism? In fact, that was more problematic than Racism. Skinny, fatty, deaf, handicapped, we all saw/met this kind of people in routine.

How you feel when someone constantly reminds you about your body type? Ohh look at that stick, Hey want to see balloon, look at that girl. The synonym of body type isn’t found yet, but still we managed to do by ourselves, our own creation. Their continuous reminder leads people to there where they soon start judging themselves and ends up by giving up on their respective life. Many feels stress due to that regular slow poison. Is that not torture? Why they go unnoticed, injustice? Why someone not started the chain #nobodytypematters. Or are you still in search of illustration like George Floyd?

Bullying and Social media hatred ness works like to add petrol in the fire. If we want to hate someone then we don’t need reason, we need social media. Yeah, there is no source better than that. When you had no guts to face people, you find social media your best companion. Meet me on social media, I’ll see you on Social media, the latest virtual slogan used by people. Really means, social media, is it social or are we forget to be social? Still confused….

Sexual harassment, the very old concept which is relevant to specific industry, Film industry, Business industry, etc. #metoo, another hashtag moment which had roots of 80s and 90s or maybe older than that. We are focused but only when other steps up, right? We scared to be pioneer rather than we find peace to be shadow of others. Why to scared when we are right and something wrong had happened to us, irrespective of nature.

Casteism, the new flu seen among the people, would you experience it? We have some strong belief that if person related to that cast then he/she must be like other people of the caste. Is that right thinking? If one apple is bad then will you not give chance to taste those other apples in the basket? People are different, their mindset is different so as their thought.


So that’s what I like to say about the different disease that are still exist in this modern era too. Not sure, you are agreeing with it or not but it doesn’t matter. Most of you will cursing me about that inclusion of George Floyd, but think about that question I asked, or simply just google it you’ll find the answer. If you still not satisfy then comment all your query, suggestion, thoughts and opinion regarding the post will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Sukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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Money: The Dearest Honey!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all doing great wherever you are. Time flies, really means 2020 is about to end but our fight is still there, to combat against the virus. We already going through the demanding issue of today’s new normal about depression in our previous three instalments. The one who missed kindly follow the link mentioned below. Really happy to know your feedback and suggestion towards it, stay alert because you never know when you reach there and became a victim of it. Our fight is within ourselves so let’s hold a breath for a second to face the upcoming threat with courage. Wishing you all the very best for the forbidden War.

Anyways now let’s coming back to today’s one more interesting topic. Yeah, sounds funny but that’s the title, Money: The Dearest Honey. As soon as you keep reading it till the end you will soon find the reply automatically from the post. Title is very important part of Post, as said we are habitual to judge the book by its cover. So, the more crazy you chose the Title, the more people will likely to attract it. Shh, this is the tips of a good blogging too, chose apt title for your post so that your audience will easily connect with it.


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Money, how would you define it? Amm, maybe you said, Source of one’s income or say the bunch of paper which has some value or maybe you said, the one which has power to satisfy need or requirements of life. All are true, no argue in that but is it enough though? Really money had that much value/importance only? No, Right? Absolutely like people, we are surrounded with money too, even if that’s not wrong to say; more than people. Aren’t we?

Money, as said the most powerful inspiration, the one which is used to negotiate transaction (monetary-non monetary), the one which satisfy the hunger of people, the one which leads to unnecessary quarrel between peoples often, the one which is strong enough to cheat the people, the one which is motto of life, the one who possessed is reach and who don’t is poor, the one which testify the strength of country, the one which is basic need to live the life, the one which can’t be eat, but still many consumes it, the one which can exchange with anyone. In short Money is the instrument, which sounds good when we have it.

Money used everywhere. Don’t you think? Obviously, it is. But for that 2 condition is much needed. The first one, You have to have it, if you have to buy something/someone. Here someone relates to human being, as said if you have money you can buy anyone, anything. Everything and Everyone has a price tag, all you need is to preparedness to pay for it. But only n only if you are ready to pay the demanding price. The second one, You must have to show your Interest of buying. You simply can’t negotiate if you don’t want to purchase something, if you do then also be ready to bear the hard words of the counterparts. If you want to buy something but will not able to spend or you won’t like to spend then it’s not your cup of tea, to be successful bargainer.

We all love money, right? Yes, we are. Had you thought why we earn money? If we don’t love money then why we possessed it with us? Does that have any meaning to possessed that which actually we don’t like to. Then there’s no difference between that and scrap. We all love to spend, right? We all love to save, right? Yes, we save it for future and also by spending it We satisfy many of our needs, greed. We are blind fold of it and believes it to be everything. Aren’t we?

It’s not bad though but the way you earned the money, the way you spend the money says a lot about you, about your character. If you live luxurious life, everyone gonna attracts by you, if you live simple life, very few one can find. Money is the new measurement of today’s life. Your status also determined by how much you earned. Earning is important, no matter how you earn it. Money, actually what it does? It pays your dues/debts, it pays your subscription, it pays your luxurious brands, it pays your routine expenses, it pays your rent, it pays everything where monetary exchange acceptable.

From running your houses to run MNCs to proceeds the growth of country/nation, money is the basic of everything. If you want to buy vegetables/fruits or want to buy house, then do it with money. If you want to gift someone, then buy it through it. If you’d acquire services of someone then pay them for their services through that papers. If you consumed goods then cancel out your due with it.

Though Money isn’t everything if you believe or not. Money is only n only source of happiness but not the true happiness, one can buy anything with that bunch of money but not the satisfaction he really wants. Go in the market and Ask any vendor are they deliver happiness/ or are they supplier of happiness? The only answer you got is, We only sell that what you want, what you demanded for not what happies you. Because they are also right, How can they sale that what they actually don’t know? i.e. what makes you happy. It only knows by you that what actually means for you, you have better idea of your happiness than anyone else. You have lots of lots of money, but still there’s chance that you passed many sleepless nights when on the other hand one had little money but they got that sleep which other scarce.

If you have money then value it. If you not then it also won’t. If you become arrogant by having it, then remember you won’t carry that with you. You placed the money but you can’t carry out it. It also can’t be carried forward in your next life too. What you have is only for this term so utilize it for betterment of you, for your countrymen, for the poor, for the orphan, for the needy ones. There’s no confession needed that one isn’t love money.

“Money Speaks, Money Leaks; Money Sticks, Money Picks.

Money Splits, Money Connects; Money Saved, Money Waved.

Money Spend, Money Bend; Money Lend, Money End.

Penny Money, Money Honey.”


So that’s all for the day, Hope you all experienced that sweet trap of Money somewhere, sometimes in the life. Send your experience, thoughts, suggestions, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday, till then Tataa, Bbyyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz..

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P.S. Tomorrow is a big day for me as I’ll look after the Inventory and Asset Management of William John’s Pizza outlet for the first time, since my firm has taken all the charges of Accounting, Legal Compliances of all 4 outlets of Ahmedabad, Gujarat post lockdown. Will share experience in the next post.

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7 Ways to Deal with Depression!!


Hello guys, What’s up? Hope you all are good and well in this pandemic. Stay safe and adopt necessary precautions to contain its spread. If we are healthy then we can do anything but if we aren’t then we do nothing. This time is challenging, we must have to cleared it off with flying colours. As recently quoted by Mr. Ratan Tata, the Chairman of Tata Sons, “Don’t mind what you lose, Don’t look what you achieve, Just think about to survive for now. This is the storm, The one who’ll survive would have definitely bright future waiting for them.”

Not easy at all but at least we should try. Even if we don’t then end is near, then why not to die with satisfaction of to do something. Just survive, time will definitely change. So, think twice/thrice before making any stupid move. Now, Let’s move towards the last point of our topic, i.e. Depression. We already going through What’s the Depression, Causes of Depression and Symptoms of Depression. The one who missed kindly follow below link. 

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2020/07/05/depression-the-modern-plague

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2020/07/12/7-causes-reason-and-symptoms-of-depression


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Following are the ways to overcome from Depression. It actually works, if you give try. So, the one who feels low by any of the reason kindly follow it.

  1. Find Inner You and Conserve it: – Had you thought, why we got depressed? Yes, exactly. When we started forgetting our inner half, we started to believe to be nothing left in the world for us. In most of the cases of depression, the one for whom it’s never easy to forget that which rarely happened with them, often finds themselves lonely and believes to be no one stand by them. But how can you forget your inner half? Finds what happened to it, and reason behind feeling low of your inner self. Your heart is too sensitive, pamper it time n again, conserve it for your betterment. Even when you see no hope to live, never upset your inner half, if it hurts, you got no chance to overcome from it. Just believe, You aren’t alone, you have your confidence, through it you can do anything, keep burning that flame of heat in your heart.
  2. Learn to Fightback: – You must have to learn to fightback. You simply can’t give up, even all odds stand against you. The winner isn’t that who won, but that who digest the winner’s attitude and loser’s gutted efforts parallelly. If someone tried to brings you down, feels low then just do one thing. Increase lit-bit your efforts to be good to them too. Be sarcastic by nature and answer them in their way. You just can’t deny that I can’t do that. You must have to otherwise that little torture of them, one day turns out to be major headache. As said Good always win Over Bad, Feel them shameful by your goodness that they will never try to screw anyone in future. Always remember, conditions aren’t always favourable, you must have to take some kind of risk. The day you give up, you started gave up on your life soon. Roar like you are still alive even when you are on the edge of Fall.
  3. Watch Funny Videos: – As said, When you smile, you can’t be sad at the same time. But the condition is that you smile from heart not fake. When you laugh, you forget for sometime that you are stressed. So prefer to watch comedy/funny videos to overcome from the plague. Made your routine to watch comedy videos at least half n hour and laugh like who cares after all. Never erase smile from your face. Another best way is, To look at the old photographs of yours, in which how happy you seem, just remind that beautiful moments of past for some time, you were definitely ended up by baggy smile on your face. Smile is the antidote of Depression, so never remove that from you.
  4. Listen Music: – Music, when it starts, we started living in that moments, aren’t we? Obviously, as said Music is the hidden boon for those who are broken by someone because it relates them to that from which they going through. Listen your favourite song on loop mode, you definitely feel energetic and confident. Sing with it, lost in it and find a new you. Revive the Music, Relieve the Life. If Smile won’t cured everything then Music can and if music won’t then Smile would definitely. Music is like a confidence booster, one would simply can’t deny to lip sync that lyrics which once they heard on repeat. Listen it, how long you want to be.
  5. Be a Killer of Overthinking: – If you want to successfully overcome from depression then be ready to cross out the knife through your mind. Just forget what happened to you and what will happened to you in nearest future. Just Take care of your today, and let it washed out all unnecessary thoughts from it. As far as you thinking beyond your capacity you will trapped in your own trick. Thinking is good but overthinking is that much bad that, it actually outshines every good moment of yours. It removes your smile, it removes your feeling, it removes your joy. In short it made you Dry like Desert, which had no end except one. If you reach there, even by mistakenly then it’s very hard to get back on track.
  6. Stay in Touch with Close Ones: – We human must have some people with whom we can share anything without any shame, without any doubt, without any hesitant and without any fear. When one is surrounded by them, one feel safe and secure, one finds world beautiful and liveable one. It’s always helpful that when people talk to them, they believe to be there are someone who listen to their word, who understand their feeling, who valued their emotions. When one shared their words, well-wisher always tried to guide them to light from darkness, but for that you have to be that One of someone too, are you? Just try to be loyal to at least one, at least with your heart.
  7. Cry: – Sound funny, right? One finds it crazy that we already learn to smile to overcome from this issue then how can cry helpful in it? But how can one forget that, When we cry, not only tears but the forbidden pain of ours also comes out gently and gradually. Cry, as long as you want. It isn’t the sign of weakness but it is sign of that now you are stronger to face the world because the pain is already vanished and you are refill with your confidence. The one who consider cry as weakness, will definitely weak by mind. Cry release the stress stayed in ones; it also helps people to vanishes the all bad memory with flowing tears.

Apart from that various kind of Physical exercise, Meditations, Routine hangout with friends, exploring the nature are some handy suggestions to overcome from this issue. Psychiatrist, only helpful when you really need them otherwise some home remedies are enough to get superiority over your depressed self. Stay safe, stay healthy both Mentally n Physically!!

So that’s all for the day. Put out your thoughts, suggestions, tips, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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7 Causes/Reason and Symptoms of Depression!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. Corona, I sometime amazed that really are you exist or the threat of yours threaten us more? Your Hypothecated existence haunted us more than anything else. The lives that you consumed, will definitely won’t go unnoticed but there is something still in our hand but we are not scared of you anymore. Look we are roaming freely on streets without mask, look we are preferred to avoid social norms notified by Government, look we are still live with you. If you killed us, then we still able to find one more reason to blame God, not our own deeds.

So, let’s start from there, where we last stopped. Depression, the word, itself shows its cruelty. Don’t you find it? The state of mind, in which one has Mind but won’t able to think properly, one has Heart but won’t able to feel that there’s something in their life too, one has eyes but their tears are evaporated, one has emotions but they were dried at somewhere – sometimes. They have lot to say but the main issue is that they believe it to be shameful to express. If you can’t let out your words, then it became hard to regain your control on your body, on your engine (Mind).


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So, following are some of the Causes/Reasons of Depression:

  • Atmosphere: – Absolutely, Atmosphere that you surrounded with is highly affected on your mindset. There are always some people who likes to see you suffer, they like to see your failure, they prefer to see you give up on your goal. Sometimes their weird source of happiness is you. So, they start pressing you and tried to make indirect superiority over you. If you trapped in any of their trick, soon your life became living hell. They tried their best to get control on your life and when you find it, it’s too late. So always stay alert from those, they are in any form (Gender), in no time will enough to make you Zero from Hero.
  • Friend Circle: – We already learn about how the atmosphere will affect your Mindset, so the next point is that the people, which you considered into your friends. It’s noted that in most of the cases, the close friends are found out to be Convicts. The Jealousy, the Money, the Show off Trends proves to be judgemental in such scenarios. How much do you know him/her before putting out your secret to them? Later on, that secret will be used as weapon by them so first confirm before serving your dark to them. “Enemy aren’t born, we create them”; enough to enlighten the truth behind the True Friends and Truth of Friend.
  • News: – Sometimes we act normally, naturally and sometimes paranormally as well. As a human, we are full of emotions so whenever we got some shocked news, spontaneous event occurrence, we soon find ourselves into dwell of sorrow. We don’t know the reason but somewhere in inner we are broken fully and wholly. We aren’t in position to bear the shock and soon started feeling low because of that. Though initially it should have not impacted on our mind but as far as our heart will cry, we couldn’t say that we are okay. May be by Face you can smile fake, but Heart doesn’t do the same. Your life indirectly affected by that and you too believe to be nothing in life. So be aware from that and don’t allow it to get control on you.
  • Relationship: – When it broken, it’s obvious that it’s not possible for everyone to successfully overcome from it, right? The unexpected end of love life leads people to think about them more n more that Really, they aren’t able for him/her or Really, I am this much bad that he/she left me in middle? They are surrounded with questions and end up with big question mark on their Face and Heart as well. Cheating, new normal in relationship. So, one of them comes to know about it that their love isn’t solely their but it’s betrayal, one finds themselves into cloud of anxiety and showering their tears from it. Tears comes but pain remain same it is, until n unless they won’t find peace, a Real Peace!!
  •  Failures: – As a human we all facing failure sometimes, at some point in life. It’s part of life, but it’s not easy for everyone at all. You had guts but not courage, to stand on your scrambling feet then you couldn’t fight back. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, to try, to fail, to stand, to try again, to fail and to stand again. If you are kind hearted, then be ready to live with daily dying. World is so cruel, they can’t accept as you are, instead they made you like them. If you protest or not matched with them then will torture you till your last breath. You find death more reasonable than it. Be ready to be criticize.
  • Financial Insolvency: – Money, the primary need of everyone. But all aren’t lucky to have everything in life. They tried full to achieve and satisfy their need/requirements. Their situation is like if they tried to stitch one, another two gets released. In this fast – forwarding life, it’s hard to manage everything but not impossible. When EMIs gets dues, when Debts hikes daily, when needs also rise sharply it’s became hard for them to survive. They are screwed up by others too, So when the weight of Debts & Dues is increase by the certain limits, one couldn’t stay long in the race. They were outshined by finance. Tense leads them to there, where they even don’t find themselves too!!
  • Overthinking: – Yeah, this becomes serious issue day by day that people started assuming soon that which is far away from reality. They ruin their today, just by thinking about that which isn’t happened in real life. Their small puzzled question one day becomes headache of their own. You know Mind is too sensitive, even more than Heart. Won’t believe? Then try to screw your mind sometime, it will be responded doubled. So just stay alert before muddle it, you might think it as small issue but that small issue one day becomes that much big, that you never imagine it to be.
  • Miscellaneous: – There are so many more reason which are enough to destroy one’s life through depression. Failure in relationship, less grade in examination, sexually harassment, indirect act of someone, inability to secure the job, lack guts to face the world, insolvency and cheating of partner, etc. Though these are few examples of how person feel depression and trapped into others trick.

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Symptoms: –

  • Weight loss.
  • Becomes Hyper in small matters.
  • Find Alone in crowd.
  • Prefer to stay lonely.
  • Rigid Mindset.
  • Cry in no matter.
  • Fear of Insecurity.
  • Feels tense over their future.
  • Often Try to Harm themselves.
  • Avoid talks.
  • Gradually becomes Monotonous.
  • Gently Decrease Get to gather with others.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you like the post. Depression isn’t the feeling, nor a story to describe. We all passed through it, some survived, some sink. The one who survive, will definitely becomes inspiration for others and the one who won’t, becomes illustration for others. What you want to be, Inspiration or Illustration?

See you all next Sunday, with the last chapter of topic till then Tataa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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No One Comes Alone, Left Alone!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are well and good wherever you are. Corona, don’t you think you tried so much to threaten us? On the other hand, we also felt scared from it. It’s human tendency, but at the same time we fought so many fights along with Corona. May be that took our main test, to measure our tolerance, to know our strength. Some clear it with their skills of patience, calmness, humour and maturity. Corona tried full to broke us mentally, even it succeeded in majority parts but it forgotten that there’s already one virus rules on the earth from thousand of years, i.e. A Human Virus. Till the existence of it, no one can outshine it.

Virus kills the Human, but here Human is enough to kill each other, don’t you think? We love to rule so as we always try to be. If not by force then by pretence, if not by trick then by brick (War), if not by emotions then by revenge, we just try to capture everything under our control. Sometimes wonder, why this virus takes this much of stress when we human is enough to spread the fear, threat? There’s nothing much dangerous than person with evil thought. Had you found though? I, never.


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Anyways let’s come back to today’s one more interesting subject. What you think though btw? Any idea by reading the title? Yes, you are right. Today’s post isn’t about human nature, emotion or feeling. It’s of us, of Human. Totally related to each n every human being who born as human and die as human. So, let’s start from beginning,

Human. We all are, right? Absolutely, we. Okay so who made us and what the motto to introduce us, as a human on this earth rather than to introduce like other lively creatures? Had you thought though? No? Okay that’s absolutely fine if you know and even if you not. This post will you all the answers, you are looking for.

Had you thought God had been succeeded in their very first attempt to directly introduced human on earth? Not at all. There’s so much chronology and mindset used behind that. Don’t get it? The history of other lively creatures is more ancient than us. Animals, Birds, Insects were launch on initial stage by God to testify that really the nature they created is good for living or not. After observing the progress of them, God made plans to launch human, to launch us on earth, in this beautiful nature.

They launched the most updated version of his creation as Human. In initial stage, human was also like other lively creatures presented on earth but they possessed one boon from God. The power of Brain. Through using of it time after time, they became the lone superior of the earth and soon started hurting other lively creatures for their selfish purposes, for their greed, for their breed. They believe that this earth is for them only, and forget others. Time passed and they even forget the creator of them too, the almighty. But God knows when to knock the door and when to give signals to human. The one who create something also aware from the consequences and so as they always ready to deteriorate them into that in which they belong to.

How we Human born? We are in womb for 9 months of female breed. In between that God created us and if they find something weird, they soon pause their work and doesn’t allow us second to see the nature, to experience the wonderful creation of it. They stop the production process, though this will happen often. The life they give you is, precious than your whole life treasure.

The One Who Comes as Human on this earth, will come with so many expectations of their family. Not just only human arrives, a lot of dream, responsibilities also on their way. It maybe of their parents or someone else’s. But whoever will be come, never comes alone. If a boy comes, he’ll be star of an eye of his parent and if a girl comes, she’ll be queen of an eye of her parent. There are lots of pre-planned, goals waiting for them. As a human we are good enough in assumption that we finalize so many things before arrival of them in reality.

In the same way, the one who Left us never left alone. If people die, he/she left with their good mark ups and some will leave without making any noise. But the best thing is that the one who left us, left with a good reason to live the life to the fullest. Then soon we knew the real meaning of life if someone close to us left us, alone in the world. We habitual to live with their moments, in absence of the one who left us. We tried to live with their memory, their experience made us strong.

The best part of dying is that we people at last dies as Human, if someone fails to live the life like human. Don’t get it? Okay. During one’s life, they became so powerful, wealthier, get dignity and position in the society, in the world whereas some is not as good as others in life. But when he/she on the verge of Die, that position, wealth, power nothing works. May be those are some sources to live the life happily but not the happiness. The one who born as Human, must Die as Human as well, that’s the law of the World, of the Nature.

In short The one Who comes in this World, will come with so many Pros and Cons of life and the one Who left the World, left with memories, moments and experience he had during his life cycle. If you are good, people will remember you as a good human being, if you aren’t then still people remember you for your bad. In short may be People dies, but actually they aren’t.

“Everything Comes with a Purpose,

Everything Left for a Reason

Everyone Feels the Season

Find your Mission, Vision”

P.S.: These are some of the personnel thought of Writer, not necessary to be right in each n every aspects. Breach of Copyright of the content, leads to violating the rules and regulations of the Copyright and Trademark act.


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all loved to read it. Send your suggestion, thought, tips, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Sukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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Experience Matter, For Better!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are in good shape, mentally as well as physically!! Everything is coming back into the shape worldwide even the graph of daily cases rises frequently. Corona, look people habitual to live with you too. What you think, if you come then we stop to live, to think, to stand and to rise? Maybe you forgot, we are human. Even when we dying, we left with our mark ups. Don’t think by consuming some lives, you won us. Yes, you scared us definitely, but that doesn’t mean we are lost. We Human meant to be fight back, not to give up! Maybe you should have to give up after so much trying of yours to threaten us. Did you forgot, the more you press the spring, double it responds?

Hope that dose is enough to encourage you, I know we all are passed through transformation phase, time is difficult so as we. Don’t let allow to know it (Corona), that we are scared from it. Actually, we aren’t scared from it though, we are scared from ourselves, from our future, right? Absolutely, the death of Sushant Singh Rajput reveals so many dark sides of the life. Success doesn’t matter at all, if you aren’t satisfied, if you aren’t happy, if you aren’t good. The idea of the today’s topic is quite relevant to that too. So, let’s move towards it.


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Experience, in simple terms when one practically, personally gone through some task, events or things, we called it by experience, right? Absolutely, we are. We all are experienced one, don’t get it? Your life is the best example, you live it, right? So, You have experience to live the life, in your own way or suggested one. The life is wholly depending on you that how you made it, how you build it, how you live it. You are the lone Constructor of your life.

Experience tells so much about ones, irrespective of matter, betters!! You know the little kid, without falling down, one didn’t know how to walk. Same happens with the adults too. If they can’t go through problems, they even didn’t know the real meaning of Success. Do You know the best teacher of Person, of Us? The Struggle, The Hard work, The Spirit to take the fight against all the odds are the professor of University at Human Behaviour and Psychology.

There can be also types of experiences too.

  1. Good Experience: – What you said about the good one? The experience in which everything happened good or relatively good is good experience. Like you had made planned to go solo trip. You make all the arrangement of yours for the trip and you successfully did it. That’s the good experience, right? Amm, no. Maybe you are wrong. You can’t do always good in all the way, even we people had problem with God too then after all we are human, how can be we perfect at all? There’s always something bad in Good experience too which later amended to be good. Like, in above example of solo travelling you may be lost your Watch, the one which gifted by your close one. But that doesn’t mean your whole trip is meant to be failed, your lost watch couldn’t outshine your joy, your success, your ability, your guts. That mistake could be rectified by the success of the journey!! After all that incident will stand by you when you narrate your first trip to someone in future.
  2. The Bad Experience: – We experience the good one or not, but we all are very familiar to bad experience. Right? Obviously, after all what we are today is just because of that. Bad experience taught us lot about people, events, opinions n our one lit mistake. Though this one is more important than to good one. Because it reveals the truth of world, of people and of yours. We all learnt from mistake, when these mistakes are gathered, it became Experience. We easily remember this too because after all who forgets the shit done with them so easily? The bad experience isn’t bad though, the one who strengthen up their feet will always turn the bad one into memorable one. The one who give up on situation will soon finds no way out.
  3. The Illustrative Experience: – The one who prefer to be practical in life will become role model for others. Their life story, their struggle, their tackling ideas, their dribbling skills to go past the problems became exemplary icon for others. Their practical knowledge becomes source of someone’s success, their chronology changed the life of applicant. Their thinking is crystal clear, either this way or that way but not to give up easily. People with this kind of experience had get control over their Crazy Mind, Emotional Heart and Bonding with Soul. 

So, the main thing is that experience matters at everywhere. In other Words, Experience is sounds Confidence Booster, don’t you find? Just understand it practically. You had given a task by someone to do something. In your very first time, definitely you are low in energy, in confidence, in skills, in everything. But as soon as you done it twice or thrice you get the idea behind the process. That’s enough, you are on right way. Even if you aren’t good in 10th attempt too, don’t be upset. You had learned something new, feel proud on that. In each n every attempt of yours, if you noticed, you do slightly better than your previous attempt. What’s that? That’s the experience, maybe you are slow but steady. Improvement, experience made it in yours, in your behaviour, in your sense of humour, in your talk, in your walk.

Each n every experience teaches something new and that’s what life meant to be. Just arrange the cards, your castle is inches away, made it concrete strong by your experience. It’s fully and wholly depends on us that how we consider it. Each experience learnt something new, teach something new. Though by bad one, people change their opinion and by good one, change their Decision. Thus, it’s matters for betterment, for improvement of one, who experienced it.

We all are New at something, at somewhere, at some point. If we assumed it to be wrong, then obviously it goes wrong. Always remember without making a step, you can’t succeed in jump! So, let’s First gain Experience, and then Apply the Experience.

Life is full of Experiences, each n every experience also different as well. The more you experienced, the more stories you have to share with your Grandchild. Make your experience acceptable, applicable. Help Newbies to teach and assist them via your experience. People without Experience is like Book without any Story…


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all loved to read it. Send your suggestion, thought, tips, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Sukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

The topic of Next Sunday: No one Comes Alone, Left Alone!!

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I Can’t Be You, You Can’t Be Me!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are Healthy and well wherever you are. I think Corona couldn’t scare us more now, we all experienced the fear of it but now it’s time to fight back. Sounds crazy but that’s what one crazy person think about. We all resect it, in less or more by following the norms and routine precautions for at least 3 months. Really glad to be back again in work and comes to know about the value of freedom in more depth. Hope you all too, now know the real meaning of Freedom. After all who doesn’t love it?! We are Freebies, so obviously we love to roam freely but, on the other hand, we also love to capture beauty!!! Aren’t We?


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Anyways Let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Just wants to assure you all, if you read till the end you will never go upset by it. It not relates to any particular community, gender, group or something like that. It relates to us, Human. All of us, all living creatures, all the human being. So, are you ready for one more roller coaster ride for the today? So just first tell me, what you think from the title of the post? No idea? Okay. Don’t worry, that’s why I am here. Try to give you all the answer in this post.

So, Let’s first understand the first part of the post. i.e. I Can’t be You. We human always loves to copy others, Right instead of looking for our own Inspiration? Obviously, we find others Garden more Greenish than of ours, that’s human tendency. Don’t feel ashamed about it, there are so many who thinks the same. I am also like you, not the exception in this as well. But do you know why we do like to be like Others? Is it easy? Is it hard? You know it’s too, too, too hard to be like others.

We like someone then became fan of his/her. We changed our lifestyle, we started reconstructing ourselves and still we aren’t 10% of them. You know why? Because it’s of Nature. Nature of people never changed. For your information Nature and Behaviour both aren’t similar though. Nature is what actually comes out from your inner self, while behaviour, we changed it like seasons without any reasons. Behaviour is self-made, while nature is Natural like it said.

Is copying others are really easy? Not at all. May be you look like them, may be you live like them, may be you earn like them, may be you spend like them, may be you smile like them, all these possible but to change your nature, you need to forget who you are, which is slightly Impossible. Everything isn’t that simple as one thought. The way others answered, maybe you aren’t succeeded in that. The way others gain Attraction, maybe you failed in doing so. But the Question is Why You be Like others?

Are you not happy with your life? Okay. Then find your problems in your own way. Do Audit of yourself on regular basis. You find the answer within yourself, improve yourself, made some changes accordingly. Had you thought ever though, Why God Made Us Different from each other? If he/she wishes then they made us all same, it’s possible for them then why we constantly tried to prove them wrong?

If you want to follow/admire someone then Go and looks into Mirror. You know the best thing about the Mirror, Even Each n Every pieces of Broken mirror showed your Real and Whole face. Just simply denied yourself to observe someone, follow someone and judge someone. Utters regularly, I can’t be You. I’ll like to fall into my Pond rather than yours Ocean. We all are unique, so there must be some creativity inside us. Finds it and make it happen what you want to see in the World. Don’t be like World, Don’t be like People of the World, Be You.

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Now, Let’s move towards the next part of the topic. i.e. You can’t be Me. It’s not the opposite of the first part like many of you thought. What we want isn’t always necessary, we achieve it or let me say we succeeded in each n every attempt of ours. If something or someone isn’t yours then it’ll never be yours. People will gonna stretched that out from your hand by slap even if that in your reach, even if that in your possession. If something or someone is yours then it’ll be yours even millions of efforts of others wouldn’t stop you to succeed in your endeavour. What it means though?

That means we have learnt to satisfies ourselves. If something wants to go then allow them to leave, if something bad happened then forget it, but never enforced yourself to stuck with past event. Everything isn’t performed as you thought, as you plan, that’s what Life mean to be. Give up, many compared this act to it but hello guys wait. If we take 2 steps back then who said we are done, maybe it’s the real starting. The Rise of new You!! If you can’t be me then I’ll try to make it happen and tries fully to be mine, the spirit works more than your act. Maybe I’m fail, Maybe I’m Tired, Maybe I’m lost but Still I am Alive!! That’s enough to make a comeback, don’t you think?

We people often finds the reason of our Failures, don’t we? Absolutely we are. We just can’t sit and regretting all the time. Rather than to stuck with failure, get up and find alternatives. For example, You had assumes to score in football match but you ended up making an assist, which is almost equivalent to get on the scoresheet and to win the match. You can’t get the ball back into the net but you contributed to get the ball back into the net. Maybe Goal isn’t count in yours but how that Assist go unnoticed? Had you forgot even King is also nothing without it’s Troops?

So, intension is just to find the ways to celebrate, not directly then indirectly, not actively then passively, not by you then some of your acts, not you then someone of you. Always remember life never ends by leaving of someone. Believe If something happens then happens for Good.

If something or someone not belongs to you then never be upset. May be something good and better is awaits you. Never cry in little matters, be mature enough to let go things which isn’t in your control. Always believe and appreciate your soul, Yes I’d get better today than what I Yesterday.


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it. Send your suggestions, thoughts, opinion on today’s post in comment section. Will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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Loyalty is Royalty!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are safe and well wherever you are. I am really glad to know your thoughts in my previous post about Apology. For me it slowly becomes an addiction to stick to this site, but yeah, I like this type of addiction though. After all who gonna deny this kind of love, getting from its audience cum family?! It’s less than a year, but not got even a single link when this site became an essential thing in the life!! Every Sunday I eagerly wait to publish my post, and the way you responded is just… I even couldn’t find the words to express my gratitude towards you!! I enjoying reading yours as well. Keep Writing – Keep Shining.

Corona, I don’t think it gonna be stop its fear at least for this year. We’ve to be habitual to live with it otherwise either we gonna die to its fear or we gonna die through it. Intention isn’t to demotivate you, but as a Professional student, I can try to understand the economy. From the last 2 months, Indian economy solely bearing 40000 Crores loss in single day then you can think about the situation of rest of the countries of the world. Indian share market also lost its rank in top share market of the world, in which 2016 India stood 7th and beginning of 2019 it’s ranked 10th but now at the end of March 2020, India lose its rank. Definitely it’s the effect of Corona, the effect of uncertainty. So may be mask is new normal from now and Work from home is new tradition in the World. So, let’s ready to accept the new life adaptation.


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Anyways let’s move towards today’s topic. Seems like old fashioned on first glance, don’t you find through title of the post? Loyalty, good to hear but in practical, very rare to find. Right? Obviously in today’s fast-forwarding life, loyalty lost its credit ability. Honesty, the synonyms to Loyalty. But don’t find any functionality in today’s lifestyle, would you? Let’s start from beginning…


Honesty, In simple terms, To gain the trust of someone by doing best for them through us, right? Okay. It shows the faith people put it in the people but what if that trust broken by them? In today’s world you may find many person who are habitual to broke it irrespective of the gender/cast/age/religion of the person.

We are that much Treacher, that if we want to illustrate loyalty, we have to consider Dog in phrase/idioms. People trusted Dogs more rather than other people. Sounds outrageous, but that’s the hard reality of today’s human. As said, If you find honesty/loyalty then keep it, it’s rare. No argue to it, but have you find any reason that why people cheat others? Is there only Monetary benefits? Not at all. There are so many reasons of it.

The very first reason i.e. Revenge. Yeah people cheat others to get revenge of their hard time. If someone had done something wrong on sake of others, then the one who has done that, must have ready to face the circumstances of it. The one who used to be loyal becomes unwanted criminal because of their ignorance. The one who won’t appreciate good, often ends up in bare hands.

Revenge followed by Helplessness. Sometimes loyalty won’t works as thought. The one who is corrupt enforced others too. In that case loyal people either give up to the situation or they gonna give up on their life. Their loyalty ends up with the life of that man. Yes, it’s the reality. In that scenario, Either you have to be like them (Corrupt) or you may have to give up on your life ethics. Most prefer the first option, because at last everyone loves their life.

The next and final one is Greed. Maybe this is most reasonable cause of Dishonesty. Present almost everywhere and in everyone, don’t you think? Obviously, The main and upmost reason of dishonesty is Greed. As said Hunger of the Human can be Satisfied but Greed, go unsatisfied all the way. There’s no way to satisfied greed of Human. They always tries to achieve more n more. If not by Strength, then by Emotions; If not by Guts then by Buts. In between that they never know when they reached there, where it’s impossible to take U-Turn. There’s nothing wrong to say Greed, enough to destroy your Breed.

So, what’s Loyalty? To stuck to one thing irrespective of benefits/gain/loss whole life, fully dedicatedly without betraying someone for others. This concept is old but as said Old is Gold, This concept has its own pros and cons. There are so many people in the real life who still believe they should have to loyal to others. For them, their life ethics is more important than any other things. They won’t deal in exchange of their life ethics. If something is wrong for them then it’ll be wrong for always. Often, they lost their lives in doing so. They find death more comfortable rather than to live with myth.

We all are wrong in some way, but that’s the admirable who is less wrong. No one is perfect. In everyone’s life one moment comes definitely where they have to make call. Maybe it’ll go wrong in future or maybe they’ll succeed in their endeavour. Sometimes you doesn’t want to do that which is wrong but at the time you are helpless – hopeless. You know that’s wrong, but you can’t do anything.

Every people should at least try to loyal to their relative ones, Father/Mother to their family – Employee to his/her boss – Boss to their Management – Companies to its Customers – Consumers to their Ethics – Management to Government and Government to its resident. There should be transparency in each and every transaction if you want Growth and development. Men dies but it’s their name and their deeds which other reminds for long. As said, If you do something Good, you’ll find very less for Appreciation but if you do something wrong you gonna be criticize badly.

Our focus shouldn’t only to earn money, we should earn dignity along with earning. Earn Name, money will generate automatically. If you go behind Money, maybe you gonna loss everything. I know it sounds good in writing and hearing but in practical life it’s very tough. Efforts and Attempt is necessary not the result. Try to be loyal, Feel like Royal!!!

The lone difference between the two is Royalty can be earn time after time but Loyelty if once lost it’s hard to gain it again!!



So that’s all for the day. Hope you like today’s concept. Just try to give it different shape. Share your opinion regarding today’s post in comment section. Also recommend your suggestion/experience to this, will eagerly wait to hear from you. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, bbyee, Rab Rakha, Shukran, Khuda Hafiz!!


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Whose Whom?!


Hello Folks, What’s Up? Hope you all doing Great. I am glad that you all had given warmth welcome me again. But Still I am not able to give enough time to my precious family, as right now I’d fight with time. I tried my best to allocate time to it but sorry if I failed to doing so. Apart from it I also start to write my own Book, still it’s half done but think to publish it as soon as Possible. Hope you’ll enjoy reading it. I’ll update you as soon as I finished it off and published, till that let’s continue here. But before that let me give quick updates of the World….

India ranked 5th in Global GDP, by overtaking United Kingdom and France. Social Media Application WhatsApp just Crosses 2 Billions Users Worldwide. In UK, Blue Brexit Passports to be issued from next month onward. In Nigeria, military kills 120 Terrorists after Jihadist Attacks. Italy confirms, first death of People affecting Corona Virus; overall 2362 deaths recorded till date all over the world.

Anyways let’s move towards our today’s topic. I found it very very interesting as I pass on through from one experience recently. Any idea? What is title mean by?
It seems too funny but really it completely related to life of today’s human, let me explain…

“Whose Whom? Which side on you?”

The Boy of today is Son of Someone, may be he is Brother of someone too, and obviously he is friend of someone/many also. The boy of today, after sometimes becomes responsible people of country. Soon he becomes responsible to someone in Office if he Choose Job or if he joins Professionalism he becomes part of that Community. Soon he becomes husband of Someone which ultimately leads to be Father of Someone. May be he enjoys the love of His Grandson too.

On the other side The girl of today is Daughter of Someone, may be she is Sister of someone and may be she is friend of Someone/many too. The girl of today is, after sometimes becomes responsible person of the country. Very soon he joins the modern culture and joins Corporate world. Soon he becomes Bride of Someone which ultimately leads to be Mother of Someone also. May be she enjoys the Love of her Grandchild too.

You find too much similarities in above two paragraph, but there’s only difference you can find there, the difference of Gender. Is that Really Matter? And if yes then how can one measure it? Any Equipment to measure it? No, ok then let’s understand more.

The life of today’s people is too Fast. They start forget themselves in search of Versatility. Yes it’s indeed as per today’s situation, but it’s fair to find Versatility by forgetting yourself? Don’t get me? Ok let me tell Whose You?

“United by Us, Divided by Us, there’s no one Can Broke Us…”

If Yesterday You Are Kid of Your Mother/Father
Then Today You are The Mother/Father of Your Kid.


If you are Father/Mother, then you are Son/Daughter of someone too, you are Brother/Sister of someone too, you are Husband/Wife of someone too, you are Uncle/Aunt of someone too, you are Boss/Worker of Someone too, then how can you Justify all your Relations? Do you have any equipment to Measure the love/care of People? You can’t deny The love of one and Accept the The Hate of Another…


The Whole World is a Community, A Community Where Relations are Made, Where Relations are Broke, Where you not just stay as Kid Forever, Where you find each other , Where you find better You, Where you find Love – Emotions – Feelings – Care – Hate and Everthing which one Expects from others or Not..

After Marriage Bride Said to her Groom that He is only hers, then what about His Mother? Is Mother’s Role is ended there? Not at all, if you Get into New Relationship then Don’t cut the Thread of Other Relations… Relationship are very Gentle, if you can’t handle it in time you going to lose it permanently!! Everyone is for Everyone


“Relations are Like Mirror, Once it’s Broke, It’s Never Going to Fix like it was Before Crack”


So Stay in Touch with Everything, Don’t be limited to Yourself only. The World is so Big and So as Your Friends!!! Believe You are for Everyone, and Everyone is for You….
So that’s all for today. Hope Yiu enjoy reading it. Let me know your thoughts on today’s post in Comment Area. Will Replied you soon. See you all next Sunday till then Tata – Bbbyee – Shukran – Rab Rakhkha – Khuda Hafiz.

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