Welcome to the World of Nepotism!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are good and healthy wherever you are in this pandemic. The week was absolute horrible, as there happened so many horrified events at different places. But the one which shook the whole Beirut, the capital of Lebanon was heart melting and outrageous one!! It’s not even wrong to said it shook the whole world though, tremendous ammonium nitrate explosion took Beirut on terrible ride, felt by 100 miles away too. Over hundreds of fatalities recorded, thousand became shelter less, thousands of missing and damages of billions of dollars had been affected to the economy of Beirut. May those soul find rest in peace.

Another incident of fire occurred in Ajman Market, Dubai, UAE. Not much heated like Beirut one, but this too made a huge impact on UAE economy conservation and pollution control plans. No such reason yet to be find by official behind the incident but hope they will be succeeded soon. We human must have to suffer as we harm earth by our acts since last couple of decades, so this is the lesson nature wants to taught us. If we still underestimate it, we must be ready to face the circumstance of it, even worse than this. Human, we aren’t for regret!! Either we have to change or we had already in the financial statements of God, still not known. Air India Plane crashed on runway while landing in Kozhikode airport in Kerala, India, resulted into death of both the Pilots along with other 16 people who returned from Dubai to India under Vande Bharat Mission, initiative of Indian Government to bring back Stranded Indians to India. May all those soul find the peace wherever they are!!


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Nepotism, you all are aware from it, right? No? That’s fine, here we learn all about it, that too in depth. Sushant Singh Rajput, mostly Indians know that there are spreading so many gossips on his death, the idea to penned down this topic is fully based on that. Many believes that he too became victim of this poison, i.e. Nepotism. Many believes that he was in depression because of nepotism which enforced him to lead to that decision. Rhea Chakraborty, his girlfriend was also one of the major suspects as she tried to push him in dark and gain some undue advantage of his fame. Thousand faces – Thousand Talks.

So today basically, We will come across that What really Nepotism is and how it comes into limelight. Is it so bad as we people think about it? Are we really know how it affects and all? Obviously, this topic isn’t new, but we people made it fresh in recent time. Don’t you think? Sushant Singh Rajput, a late Bollywood actor was a gem, who acquires good personality, fame and popularity in his short career, but nepotism just outshines him in every aspect, that’s what we people talk, share and believe about him but that’s not the real and whole truth though. We will try to enlighten the concept so we will able to think about it again.

Nepotism, When the people gives priority to other who is his/her relative or who had given some preference while making of choices or selection in comparison to others by whatsoever reason is generally termed as Nepotism. This tradition was highly applicable in Corporate world which lately followed by all the industries, whose Chairperson/CEO will be of that who had some connection/genes to founder of the company. The next generation will just have to do one thing, to adjust themselves while filling in off other’s shoe, which leads to injustice to those who was really able for that position, for that designation, that’s what we people think.

But do you really think that by some backward support, success is guaranteed? Not at all, it’s the whole delusive concept. The struggle you did, to be acted by those too who is entered as your competitor. One can buy anything with money, but talent guts – courage – luck not favoured by anyone. Look maybe they introduced by some people, who thinks they are beneficiary for them but then how would you judge yourself to them? When you think you compared to them, then it doesn’t mean at all. If you are replaceable one then always remember the one who replaced you, had also replaceable at the time being in force at sometime in the life. Everything is interchangeable, it’s just matters of choices, followed by rightly execution of those selections.

The one who enters via some connection, had in fact more pressure than you.

  • Very first challenge for them is to remove your fame from the audience which is quite impossible if you are stable and well popular.
  • The second challenge for them is to carry forward that legacy which is, itself a huge mountain to weigh on the back.
  • The third challenge for them is to prove right in each and every decision made by their ancestral.
  • The fourth one is to prepared themselves better than you, who attracts more fanbase, power in comparison to yourself.
  • The fifth one is to boost the self-confidence, to face the criticism and blame because compared to normal people, the son-daughter of celebrities are highly judged by either paparazzies or people. These are some of the reasons, why you shouldn’t try to entered in the game as nepotist.

No argue in that, that nepotist finds work easily but that’s how the company runs, Industries runs, nation runs. You must have to learn to deal with it. One couldn’t run away from it that they gain some advantage over you. If that chronology works, then Messi-Ronaldo won’t chase each other, the son of farmer won’t posted at reputed designation in Government, the orphan of today won’t become future billionaire. You must have to clear all the barriers/obstacles because that’s what the life means to be.      

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If you think all circumstance will favour you then be alert. Hard work and Struggle, the more you did, the chances of your success are more than nepotist. Had you heard about the experience? That’s all, you edge past your competitor there. Maybe they gain some favouritism, but they can’t ask for experience from anyone. Make space for yourself rather than to find space for yourself.

Look we all are related to someone, so it doesn’t mean that we all are nepotist. Favouring to someone makes you Nepotist then be that and accept frankly, what’s wrong in that? After all it’s your money you gamble either on Nepotist or normal one. The need and choices of people are used to be change each n every day, so don’t start judging yourself rather than to start focusing to improve yourself.

The law of nature is very clear, Be Kind to Everyone But never expect the same. The world is so cruel at the same time, they need one reason to hate you in exchange of thousand reasons to be love are perished against it. There are many illustrations that nepotism won’t always work. Find that opportunity and make them believe & regrettable that what they missed. Your value is in your hand, if you forget to observe it then how can you expect others be?

It’s not the matter that Who is Wrong and Who is Right but it’s the matter of What is Right and What is Wrong? If you tried to prove others wrong then how can be you Right either? Think about it, your happiness is your key of success, if you allowed other to unlocked it then prepared to fall apart. It’s absolutely right that your decision will definitely going to affects you but how much right it is to blame others if others decision also affects you. Is other’s influence on you that much, that it leads you to unwanted paths? If yes then, believe me you had no control on your life.


So thinks about it again, before judging anyone that who’s nepotist and who is not. If you are not then why to be jealous to them? Are you not capable of that or had you already scared of being lose? So that’s all for the day. Sent and share your suggestions, tips, thought to comment section section will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday till then Tataa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz…

P.S.:- By the next week or two I am thinking to start my own Podcast, I’ll informed you about it in the next post if everything plans accordingly. I tested my voice and some improvement is needed so I’ll have to work on it to improve my voice as a podcaster, Stay tuned for the further updates..

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Is the Racism only Disease Exist in the World?


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. As I mentioned in my last post about our firm’s new undertaking. i.e. Undertaking of the Accounting and Legal Compliance of William John’s Pizza outlet in Ahmedabad, Gujarat post lockdown. Here I cover my little experience about it as it was my first solo experience as an Inspector of Inventory and Asset Management. Many go wrong that I’d pizza outlets but no, our one of the clients is just entering into the business as an investor. They chose us as their accounting head, as we are registered as Chartered Accountancy firm. So, my Sir had given me opportunity to had little experience in this field. Though if you will ever plan to visit Ahmedabad then you’re most welcome at these venues, i.e. Vastrapur, Maninagar, Motera and Odhav.

It was really a new experience for me. New in that way, because before this in person meeting with client, I accompanied to my sir or some senior colleague. But in this adventure, my sir provided me the sole and whole right to visit all outlet to me and also given the grant to ask any question what I want to know curiously. I go there and met the Manager of all the outlets, develop new business relations which eventually turned out to grew my confidence of public speaking. During my first visit to Odhav, I was lit bit nervous but as soon as I reach there, I gradually started showing my true colours. i.e to ask questions to them, visited Kitchen area and noted down everything, that I think to be helpful for us in valuation. Soon in 2 days I completed the visit of rest of the outlets and submitted my work to the sir, presenting them and understand the accounting held on outlets, policies and some observation to him. It was really wonderful experience, So, that’s all, I think I add little bit more personal touch in today’s blog but let me confess Yeah that’s true I was overwhelmed by my work.


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Anyways let’s move towards our today’s one more interesting topic of the day. You got the basic idea right that what we should gonna talk about today, right? Yes, right the type of hatred ness among the people, by the people, for the people. This is based on incident of George Floyd. Yeah, the one who is died by torturing of Police official while he was allegedly passing a counterfeit of billion of dollars. All started the movement and showed their support to him, by #blacklivesmatter. But really, he was innocent like that? Why we just able to see the only side of the coin? He was about to arrest and soon find himself behind the bars, then definitely he had done some acts which isn’t right in eyes of law. It not shows any biased opinion, but no one thinks the reason behind it? If you go in past you find many evidences that he was involved in many unlawful acts. If he was genuine citizen then, why police official held him? We people are really crazy, when some people tells about something, we soon started believing on that without revealing that dark side of the picture. We mob just need one reason, to hate someone, even thousand reason of love doesn’t matter in front of it.

Though It doesn’t mean police had power to do anything with us, they have some criteria, ethics, rules, they must have to follow, maintain. But the real question is that, why we start supporting that hashtag, #blacklivesmatter? Had anyone given try to know the real truth behind the story? Social media, never believe on that. News channels, Newspapers, only print that, what actually beneficiary for them, not us. We all are same then why to give that separate importance to it? Look at the sky in the night, you won’t find anything exact contrasting to it except moon and stars. Just turned off all the switches of your house, you won’t able to see anything. Black was important, is important and will always be important. But why we forget if we start that movement, then there are some people exist who adversely available to gain the benefit from it? Is it not enough to spread the hatredness to white tone people?

Racism, what actually it means? Do you know? Not at all. If you know then you never did support the movement like blacklivesmatter. People had not problem with body/skin colour, we had problem with ourselves. When we can’t see other’s success or when we couldn’t digest success of others, we soon start hating them by whatsoever reason. Will you start that chain again if some black cop kills white man, #whitelivesmatter? Just think about it, it was coincident may be, that the one who died was black and cops were white by tone. Racism is our own set up, so don’t make it personal. If to call someone is black is racism, then how you feel when someone judges you by body type/structure? Is that not bodism? In fact, that was more problematic than Racism. Skinny, fatty, deaf, handicapped, we all saw/met this kind of people in routine.

How you feel when someone constantly reminds you about your body type? Ohh look at that stick, Hey want to see balloon, look at that girl. The synonym of body type isn’t found yet, but still we managed to do by ourselves, our own creation. Their continuous reminder leads people to there where they soon start judging themselves and ends up by giving up on their respective life. Many feels stress due to that regular slow poison. Is that not torture? Why they go unnoticed, injustice? Why someone not started the chain #nobodytypematters. Or are you still in search of illustration like George Floyd?

Bullying and Social media hatred ness works like to add petrol in the fire. If we want to hate someone then we don’t need reason, we need social media. Yeah, there is no source better than that. When you had no guts to face people, you find social media your best companion. Meet me on social media, I’ll see you on Social media, the latest virtual slogan used by people. Really means, social media, is it social or are we forget to be social? Still confused….

Sexual harassment, the very old concept which is relevant to specific industry, Film industry, Business industry, etc. #metoo, another hashtag moment which had roots of 80s and 90s or maybe older than that. We are focused but only when other steps up, right? We scared to be pioneer rather than we find peace to be shadow of others. Why to scared when we are right and something wrong had happened to us, irrespective of nature.

Casteism, the new flu seen among the people, would you experience it? We have some strong belief that if person related to that cast then he/she must be like other people of the caste. Is that right thinking? If one apple is bad then will you not give chance to taste those other apples in the basket? People are different, their mindset is different so as their thought.


So that’s what I like to say about the different disease that are still exist in this modern era too. Not sure, you are agreeing with it or not but it doesn’t matter. Most of you will cursing me about that inclusion of George Floyd, but think about that question I asked, or simply just google it you’ll find the answer. If you still not satisfy then comment all your query, suggestion, thoughts and opinion regarding the post will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Sukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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Money: The Dearest Honey!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all doing great wherever you are. Time flies, really means 2020 is about to end but our fight is still there, to combat against the virus. We already going through the demanding issue of today’s new normal about depression in our previous three instalments. The one who missed kindly follow the link mentioned below. Really happy to know your feedback and suggestion towards it, stay alert because you never know when you reach there and became a victim of it. Our fight is within ourselves so let’s hold a breath for a second to face the upcoming threat with courage. Wishing you all the very best for the forbidden War.

Anyways now let’s coming back to today’s one more interesting topic. Yeah, sounds funny but that’s the title, Money: The Dearest Honey. As soon as you keep reading it till the end you will soon find the reply automatically from the post. Title is very important part of Post, as said we are habitual to judge the book by its cover. So, the more crazy you chose the Title, the more people will likely to attract it. Shh, this is the tips of a good blogging too, chose apt title for your post so that your audience will easily connect with it.


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Money, how would you define it? Amm, maybe you said, Source of one’s income or say the bunch of paper which has some value or maybe you said, the one which has power to satisfy need or requirements of life. All are true, no argue in that but is it enough though? Really money had that much value/importance only? No, Right? Absolutely like people, we are surrounded with money too, even if that’s not wrong to say; more than people. Aren’t we?

Money, as said the most powerful inspiration, the one which is used to negotiate transaction (monetary-non monetary), the one which satisfy the hunger of people, the one which leads to unnecessary quarrel between peoples often, the one which is strong enough to cheat the people, the one which is motto of life, the one who possessed is reach and who don’t is poor, the one which testify the strength of country, the one which is basic need to live the life, the one which can’t be eat, but still many consumes it, the one which can exchange with anyone. In short Money is the instrument, which sounds good when we have it.

Money used everywhere. Don’t you think? Obviously, it is. But for that 2 condition is much needed. The first one, You have to have it, if you have to buy something/someone. Here someone relates to human being, as said if you have money you can buy anyone, anything. Everything and Everyone has a price tag, all you need is to preparedness to pay for it. But only n only if you are ready to pay the demanding price. The second one, You must have to show your Interest of buying. You simply can’t negotiate if you don’t want to purchase something, if you do then also be ready to bear the hard words of the counterparts. If you want to buy something but will not able to spend or you won’t like to spend then it’s not your cup of tea, to be successful bargainer.

We all love money, right? Yes, we are. Had you thought why we earn money? If we don’t love money then why we possessed it with us? Does that have any meaning to possessed that which actually we don’t like to. Then there’s no difference between that and scrap. We all love to spend, right? We all love to save, right? Yes, we save it for future and also by spending it We satisfy many of our needs, greed. We are blind fold of it and believes it to be everything. Aren’t we?

It’s not bad though but the way you earned the money, the way you spend the money says a lot about you, about your character. If you live luxurious life, everyone gonna attracts by you, if you live simple life, very few one can find. Money is the new measurement of today’s life. Your status also determined by how much you earned. Earning is important, no matter how you earn it. Money, actually what it does? It pays your dues/debts, it pays your subscription, it pays your luxurious brands, it pays your routine expenses, it pays your rent, it pays everything where monetary exchange acceptable.

From running your houses to run MNCs to proceeds the growth of country/nation, money is the basic of everything. If you want to buy vegetables/fruits or want to buy house, then do it with money. If you want to gift someone, then buy it through it. If you’d acquire services of someone then pay them for their services through that papers. If you consumed goods then cancel out your due with it.

Though Money isn’t everything if you believe or not. Money is only n only source of happiness but not the true happiness, one can buy anything with that bunch of money but not the satisfaction he really wants. Go in the market and Ask any vendor are they deliver happiness/ or are they supplier of happiness? The only answer you got is, We only sell that what you want, what you demanded for not what happies you. Because they are also right, How can they sale that what they actually don’t know? i.e. what makes you happy. It only knows by you that what actually means for you, you have better idea of your happiness than anyone else. You have lots of lots of money, but still there’s chance that you passed many sleepless nights when on the other hand one had little money but they got that sleep which other scarce.

If you have money then value it. If you not then it also won’t. If you become arrogant by having it, then remember you won’t carry that with you. You placed the money but you can’t carry out it. It also can’t be carried forward in your next life too. What you have is only for this term so utilize it for betterment of you, for your countrymen, for the poor, for the orphan, for the needy ones. There’s no confession needed that one isn’t love money.

“Money Speaks, Money Leaks; Money Sticks, Money Picks.

Money Splits, Money Connects; Money Saved, Money Waved.

Money Spend, Money Bend; Money Lend, Money End.

Penny Money, Money Honey.”


So that’s all for the day, Hope you all experienced that sweet trap of Money somewhere, sometimes in the life. Send your experience, thoughts, suggestions, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday, till then Tataa, Bbyyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz..

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P.S. Tomorrow is a big day for me as I’ll look after the Inventory and Asset Management of William John’s Pizza outlet for the first time, since my firm has taken all the charges of Accounting, Legal Compliances of all 4 outlets of Ahmedabad, Gujarat post lockdown. Will share experience in the next post.

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7 Ways to Deal with Depression!!


Hello guys, What’s up? Hope you all are good and well in this pandemic. Stay safe and adopt necessary precautions to contain its spread. If we are healthy then we can do anything but if we aren’t then we do nothing. This time is challenging, we must have to cleared it off with flying colours. As recently quoted by Mr. Ratan Tata, the Chairman of Tata Sons, “Don’t mind what you lose, Don’t look what you achieve, Just think about to survive for now. This is the storm, The one who’ll survive would have definitely bright future waiting for them.”

Not easy at all but at least we should try. Even if we don’t then end is near, then why not to die with satisfaction of to do something. Just survive, time will definitely change. So, think twice/thrice before making any stupid move. Now, Let’s move towards the last point of our topic, i.e. Depression. We already going through What’s the Depression, Causes of Depression and Symptoms of Depression. The one who missed kindly follow below link. 

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2020/07/05/depression-the-modern-plague

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2020/07/12/7-causes-reason-and-symptoms-of-depression


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Following are the ways to overcome from Depression. It actually works, if you give try. So, the one who feels low by any of the reason kindly follow it.

  1. Find Inner You and Conserve it: – Had you thought, why we got depressed? Yes, exactly. When we started forgetting our inner half, we started to believe to be nothing left in the world for us. In most of the cases of depression, the one for whom it’s never easy to forget that which rarely happened with them, often finds themselves lonely and believes to be no one stand by them. But how can you forget your inner half? Finds what happened to it, and reason behind feeling low of your inner self. Your heart is too sensitive, pamper it time n again, conserve it for your betterment. Even when you see no hope to live, never upset your inner half, if it hurts, you got no chance to overcome from it. Just believe, You aren’t alone, you have your confidence, through it you can do anything, keep burning that flame of heat in your heart.
  2. Learn to Fightback: – You must have to learn to fightback. You simply can’t give up, even all odds stand against you. The winner isn’t that who won, but that who digest the winner’s attitude and loser’s gutted efforts parallelly. If someone tried to brings you down, feels low then just do one thing. Increase lit-bit your efforts to be good to them too. Be sarcastic by nature and answer them in their way. You just can’t deny that I can’t do that. You must have to otherwise that little torture of them, one day turns out to be major headache. As said Good always win Over Bad, Feel them shameful by your goodness that they will never try to screw anyone in future. Always remember, conditions aren’t always favourable, you must have to take some kind of risk. The day you give up, you started gave up on your life soon. Roar like you are still alive even when you are on the edge of Fall.
  3. Watch Funny Videos: – As said, When you smile, you can’t be sad at the same time. But the condition is that you smile from heart not fake. When you laugh, you forget for sometime that you are stressed. So prefer to watch comedy/funny videos to overcome from the plague. Made your routine to watch comedy videos at least half n hour and laugh like who cares after all. Never erase smile from your face. Another best way is, To look at the old photographs of yours, in which how happy you seem, just remind that beautiful moments of past for some time, you were definitely ended up by baggy smile on your face. Smile is the antidote of Depression, so never remove that from you.
  4. Listen Music: – Music, when it starts, we started living in that moments, aren’t we? Obviously, as said Music is the hidden boon for those who are broken by someone because it relates them to that from which they going through. Listen your favourite song on loop mode, you definitely feel energetic and confident. Sing with it, lost in it and find a new you. Revive the Music, Relieve the Life. If Smile won’t cured everything then Music can and if music won’t then Smile would definitely. Music is like a confidence booster, one would simply can’t deny to lip sync that lyrics which once they heard on repeat. Listen it, how long you want to be.
  5. Be a Killer of Overthinking: – If you want to successfully overcome from depression then be ready to cross out the knife through your mind. Just forget what happened to you and what will happened to you in nearest future. Just Take care of your today, and let it washed out all unnecessary thoughts from it. As far as you thinking beyond your capacity you will trapped in your own trick. Thinking is good but overthinking is that much bad that, it actually outshines every good moment of yours. It removes your smile, it removes your feeling, it removes your joy. In short it made you Dry like Desert, which had no end except one. If you reach there, even by mistakenly then it’s very hard to get back on track.
  6. Stay in Touch with Close Ones: – We human must have some people with whom we can share anything without any shame, without any doubt, without any hesitant and without any fear. When one is surrounded by them, one feel safe and secure, one finds world beautiful and liveable one. It’s always helpful that when people talk to them, they believe to be there are someone who listen to their word, who understand their feeling, who valued their emotions. When one shared their words, well-wisher always tried to guide them to light from darkness, but for that you have to be that One of someone too, are you? Just try to be loyal to at least one, at least with your heart.
  7. Cry: – Sound funny, right? One finds it crazy that we already learn to smile to overcome from this issue then how can cry helpful in it? But how can one forget that, When we cry, not only tears but the forbidden pain of ours also comes out gently and gradually. Cry, as long as you want. It isn’t the sign of weakness but it is sign of that now you are stronger to face the world because the pain is already vanished and you are refill with your confidence. The one who consider cry as weakness, will definitely weak by mind. Cry release the stress stayed in ones; it also helps people to vanishes the all bad memory with flowing tears.

Apart from that various kind of Physical exercise, Meditations, Routine hangout with friends, exploring the nature are some handy suggestions to overcome from this issue. Psychiatrist, only helpful when you really need them otherwise some home remedies are enough to get superiority over your depressed self. Stay safe, stay healthy both Mentally n Physically!!

So that’s all for the day. Put out your thoughts, suggestions, tips, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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7 Causes/Reason and Symptoms of Depression!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. Corona, I sometime amazed that really are you exist or the threat of yours threaten us more? Your Hypothecated existence haunted us more than anything else. The lives that you consumed, will definitely won’t go unnoticed but there is something still in our hand but we are not scared of you anymore. Look we are roaming freely on streets without mask, look we are preferred to avoid social norms notified by Government, look we are still live with you. If you killed us, then we still able to find one more reason to blame God, not our own deeds.

So, let’s start from there, where we last stopped. Depression, the word, itself shows its cruelty. Don’t you find it? The state of mind, in which one has Mind but won’t able to think properly, one has Heart but won’t able to feel that there’s something in their life too, one has eyes but their tears are evaporated, one has emotions but they were dried at somewhere – sometimes. They have lot to say but the main issue is that they believe it to be shameful to express. If you can’t let out your words, then it became hard to regain your control on your body, on your engine (Mind).


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So, following are some of the Causes/Reasons of Depression:

  • Atmosphere: – Absolutely, Atmosphere that you surrounded with is highly affected on your mindset. There are always some people who likes to see you suffer, they like to see your failure, they prefer to see you give up on your goal. Sometimes their weird source of happiness is you. So, they start pressing you and tried to make indirect superiority over you. If you trapped in any of their trick, soon your life became living hell. They tried their best to get control on your life and when you find it, it’s too late. So always stay alert from those, they are in any form (Gender), in no time will enough to make you Zero from Hero.
  • Friend Circle: – We already learn about how the atmosphere will affect your Mindset, so the next point is that the people, which you considered into your friends. It’s noted that in most of the cases, the close friends are found out to be Convicts. The Jealousy, the Money, the Show off Trends proves to be judgemental in such scenarios. How much do you know him/her before putting out your secret to them? Later on, that secret will be used as weapon by them so first confirm before serving your dark to them. “Enemy aren’t born, we create them”; enough to enlighten the truth behind the True Friends and Truth of Friend.
  • News: – Sometimes we act normally, naturally and sometimes paranormally as well. As a human, we are full of emotions so whenever we got some shocked news, spontaneous event occurrence, we soon find ourselves into dwell of sorrow. We don’t know the reason but somewhere in inner we are broken fully and wholly. We aren’t in position to bear the shock and soon started feeling low because of that. Though initially it should have not impacted on our mind but as far as our heart will cry, we couldn’t say that we are okay. May be by Face you can smile fake, but Heart doesn’t do the same. Your life indirectly affected by that and you too believe to be nothing in life. So be aware from that and don’t allow it to get control on you.
  • Relationship: – When it broken, it’s obvious that it’s not possible for everyone to successfully overcome from it, right? The unexpected end of love life leads people to think about them more n more that Really, they aren’t able for him/her or Really, I am this much bad that he/she left me in middle? They are surrounded with questions and end up with big question mark on their Face and Heart as well. Cheating, new normal in relationship. So, one of them comes to know about it that their love isn’t solely their but it’s betrayal, one finds themselves into cloud of anxiety and showering their tears from it. Tears comes but pain remain same it is, until n unless they won’t find peace, a Real Peace!!
  •  Failures: – As a human we all facing failure sometimes, at some point in life. It’s part of life, but it’s not easy for everyone at all. You had guts but not courage, to stand on your scrambling feet then you couldn’t fight back. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, to try, to fail, to stand, to try again, to fail and to stand again. If you are kind hearted, then be ready to live with daily dying. World is so cruel, they can’t accept as you are, instead they made you like them. If you protest or not matched with them then will torture you till your last breath. You find death more reasonable than it. Be ready to be criticize.
  • Financial Insolvency: – Money, the primary need of everyone. But all aren’t lucky to have everything in life. They tried full to achieve and satisfy their need/requirements. Their situation is like if they tried to stitch one, another two gets released. In this fast – forwarding life, it’s hard to manage everything but not impossible. When EMIs gets dues, when Debts hikes daily, when needs also rise sharply it’s became hard for them to survive. They are screwed up by others too, So when the weight of Debts & Dues is increase by the certain limits, one couldn’t stay long in the race. They were outshined by finance. Tense leads them to there, where they even don’t find themselves too!!
  • Overthinking: – Yeah, this becomes serious issue day by day that people started assuming soon that which is far away from reality. They ruin their today, just by thinking about that which isn’t happened in real life. Their small puzzled question one day becomes headache of their own. You know Mind is too sensitive, even more than Heart. Won’t believe? Then try to screw your mind sometime, it will be responded doubled. So just stay alert before muddle it, you might think it as small issue but that small issue one day becomes that much big, that you never imagine it to be.
  • Miscellaneous: – There are so many more reason which are enough to destroy one’s life through depression. Failure in relationship, less grade in examination, sexually harassment, indirect act of someone, inability to secure the job, lack guts to face the world, insolvency and cheating of partner, etc. Though these are few examples of how person feel depression and trapped into others trick.

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Symptoms: –

  • Weight loss.
  • Becomes Hyper in small matters.
  • Find Alone in crowd.
  • Prefer to stay lonely.
  • Rigid Mindset.
  • Cry in no matter.
  • Fear of Insecurity.
  • Feels tense over their future.
  • Often Try to Harm themselves.
  • Avoid talks.
  • Gradually becomes Monotonous.
  • Gently Decrease Get to gather with others.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you like the post. Depression isn’t the feeling, nor a story to describe. We all passed through it, some survived, some sink. The one who survive, will definitely becomes inspiration for others and the one who won’t, becomes illustration for others. What you want to be, Inspiration or Illustration?

See you all next Sunday, with the last chapter of topic till then Tataa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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Depression: The Modern Plague!!


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Anyways let’s get back to today’s topic, most demanding topic and concerning as well, Depression. What’s that? We all are aware from it, but couldn’t able to express it, right? And that’s the harsh reality that we are scared to confess that Yes, I’m depressed. The more you try to pressed, the more you depressed. We human surrounded by so many people around us but no one is available when we badly need at least one with whom we share our words, our sorrow, our feelings, our mindset, our situation. Money, Power and Dignity isn’t enough to be happy, if you aren’t happy with your inner half anymore. So, let’s start from the bottom,

Depression: – When the person sad deeply somewhere in inner self, when the fight of Heart & Mind is actually on another level and hesitant  to express that what he/she wants, what makes him/her monotonous gently, which leads him/her to loneliness in crowd, how he/she separated from rest of the people, won’t be able to find out the answers, believes him/herself to be there where he can able to see one way only, to shorten the life and finds the peace which, in this life isn’t possible for him/her. He/ She noticed everything, they surrounded with, they also know that they aren’t in good condition – both mentally and physically, they want to express those unspoken words but scared to be spoken. When they find themselves alone even, they are surrounded by people.

He/she need just one person to share those feelings, those words, those dried emotions, but not succeeded in that and from there they often find themselves into more trouble. They need one, but that wasn’t the whole truth although!! They need actually three, to convinced, to listen what he/she wants to show, to express. First Heart and Soul & finally the person who stand by him/her. If they won’t find anyone, anymore, they gonna soon thinking to complete their life chapter in any manner, for any matter.

“The one who already made his/her Mind to Die finds many Reasons for it but won’t able to find out that one which proves enough to save his/her life.”

Sometimes people try to be that which they aren’t actually. They hide their real identity and prefer to stay in fake reality. They know it goings to be hurt, but not much aware that it will change their life, even they have to take decision to end it. They became villain of their life, by co-incidentally but they are. They taken the decision so they must have to face the consequences of it, no one would run away from it.

If you had guts to play with your Mind, then also be ready to pay for your mind. If you screwed it, it’ll definitely screwed you, even more than what you actually did to it. You know it going to be crazy then why you taken that type of fierce steps? Did you forget, your mind isn’t yours. You are of your mind. Actually, you aren’t either of your heart too, it’s already beating for someone else, don’t you remember? Nothing is yours except your soul, that too till you are alive. Listen everything, everyone but Never consider that which lost your control on your crazy mind, which can possibly cost your heart, and hurt your soul the most. 

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Right now, in the world, everyone has one power in themselves by default. To judge people either to themselves or someone else. If you start judging yourself then it’s really great way as you want to improvise yourself but at the same time there’s very thin line between Improvisation and Depression. If you start overthinking without having a proper idea about something then probably you gonna sink, no one would never ever gonna save you. If you lost somewhere then you must have to try to find the way out. If you just sat and waiting for someone then you won’t stay long. Same happens in Depression, If you can’t stop judging yourself you won’t able to overcome from it. Stop your mind and try to restart it.

Have you worked on P.C./Laptop/MacBook? You aware from that whenever system gets load, opens up so many programmes at the same time, it’ll started stuck/hang during it’s functionalization. If you won’t take proper, immediate step/action then it’ll stop running and soon you ended up bare hand and upsetting. Same happens with Mind too. If you give too much load to your Mind, it will get confused, tried to give signals to you as well but still if you won’t take instant necessary steps it’ll go crazy, and soon made your life, a living hell.

In short Depression is nothing but when you gave so much pressure to your mind to think that which is still not happens in reality, it adversely affects your body, your mindset, your thinking capacity and your heartbeat. Don’t forget to clean up the cache – temps, the unnecessary confused thought from your mind. If you can’t trash it, then only trash will be come out from you as well.

The other way to fight against it is to Restart your mind, sounds silly but just try to delete all those thoughts from your mind which is practically Impossible. That’s the sacrifice you have to give, if you want to live. Reboot your body system and forget who you are before system rebooting. If you won that race, you had guts to face.


Yes, I know in my previous post I had announced about the upcoming post about 7 Ways to deal with Depression but while writing that, I just realize that how people knows that they are stressed, depressed and how they trapped into it gently? So, my mind insisted me to start from its small particle, the process of it, causes of depression n all. Sorry if I upset your curiosity, but really, it’s necessary to know the basic about it. If you don’t know how you depressed and if you really depressed or not then those ways won’t help at all. In the next post we’ll see the causes/reason of Depression, followed by ways to deal with Depression.

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No One Comes Alone, Left Alone!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are well and good wherever you are. Corona, don’t you think you tried so much to threaten us? On the other hand, we also felt scared from it. It’s human tendency, but at the same time we fought so many fights along with Corona. May be that took our main test, to measure our tolerance, to know our strength. Some clear it with their skills of patience, calmness, humour and maturity. Corona tried full to broke us mentally, even it succeeded in majority parts but it forgotten that there’s already one virus rules on the earth from thousand of years, i.e. A Human Virus. Till the existence of it, no one can outshine it.

Virus kills the Human, but here Human is enough to kill each other, don’t you think? We love to rule so as we always try to be. If not by force then by pretence, if not by trick then by brick (War), if not by emotions then by revenge, we just try to capture everything under our control. Sometimes wonder, why this virus takes this much of stress when we human is enough to spread the fear, threat? There’s nothing much dangerous than person with evil thought. Had you found though? I, never.


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Anyways let’s come back to today’s one more interesting subject. What you think though btw? Any idea by reading the title? Yes, you are right. Today’s post isn’t about human nature, emotion or feeling. It’s of us, of Human. Totally related to each n every human being who born as human and die as human. So, let’s start from beginning,

Human. We all are, right? Absolutely, we. Okay so who made us and what the motto to introduce us, as a human on this earth rather than to introduce like other lively creatures? Had you thought though? No? Okay that’s absolutely fine if you know and even if you not. This post will you all the answers, you are looking for.

Had you thought God had been succeeded in their very first attempt to directly introduced human on earth? Not at all. There’s so much chronology and mindset used behind that. Don’t get it? The history of other lively creatures is more ancient than us. Animals, Birds, Insects were launch on initial stage by God to testify that really the nature they created is good for living or not. After observing the progress of them, God made plans to launch human, to launch us on earth, in this beautiful nature.

They launched the most updated version of his creation as Human. In initial stage, human was also like other lively creatures presented on earth but they possessed one boon from God. The power of Brain. Through using of it time after time, they became the lone superior of the earth and soon started hurting other lively creatures for their selfish purposes, for their greed, for their breed. They believe that this earth is for them only, and forget others. Time passed and they even forget the creator of them too, the almighty. But God knows when to knock the door and when to give signals to human. The one who create something also aware from the consequences and so as they always ready to deteriorate them into that in which they belong to.

How we Human born? We are in womb for 9 months of female breed. In between that God created us and if they find something weird, they soon pause their work and doesn’t allow us second to see the nature, to experience the wonderful creation of it. They stop the production process, though this will happen often. The life they give you is, precious than your whole life treasure.

The One Who Comes as Human on this earth, will come with so many expectations of their family. Not just only human arrives, a lot of dream, responsibilities also on their way. It maybe of their parents or someone else’s. But whoever will be come, never comes alone. If a boy comes, he’ll be star of an eye of his parent and if a girl comes, she’ll be queen of an eye of her parent. There are lots of pre-planned, goals waiting for them. As a human we are good enough in assumption that we finalize so many things before arrival of them in reality.

In the same way, the one who Left us never left alone. If people die, he/she left with their good mark ups and some will leave without making any noise. But the best thing is that the one who left us, left with a good reason to live the life to the fullest. Then soon we knew the real meaning of life if someone close to us left us, alone in the world. We habitual to live with their moments, in absence of the one who left us. We tried to live with their memory, their experience made us strong.

The best part of dying is that we people at last dies as Human, if someone fails to live the life like human. Don’t get it? Okay. During one’s life, they became so powerful, wealthier, get dignity and position in the society, in the world whereas some is not as good as others in life. But when he/she on the verge of Die, that position, wealth, power nothing works. May be those are some sources to live the life happily but not the happiness. The one who born as Human, must Die as Human as well, that’s the law of the World, of the Nature.

In short The one Who comes in this World, will come with so many Pros and Cons of life and the one Who left the World, left with memories, moments and experience he had during his life cycle. If you are good, people will remember you as a good human being, if you aren’t then still people remember you for your bad. In short may be People dies, but actually they aren’t.

“Everything Comes with a Purpose,

Everything Left for a Reason

Everyone Feels the Season

Find your Mission, Vision”

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So that’s all for the day. Hope you all loved to read it. Send your suggestion, thought, tips, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Sukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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Experience Matter, For Better!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are in good shape, mentally as well as physically!! Everything is coming back into the shape worldwide even the graph of daily cases rises frequently. Corona, look people habitual to live with you too. What you think, if you come then we stop to live, to think, to stand and to rise? Maybe you forgot, we are human. Even when we dying, we left with our mark ups. Don’t think by consuming some lives, you won us. Yes, you scared us definitely, but that doesn’t mean we are lost. We Human meant to be fight back, not to give up! Maybe you should have to give up after so much trying of yours to threaten us. Did you forgot, the more you press the spring, double it responds?

Hope that dose is enough to encourage you, I know we all are passed through transformation phase, time is difficult so as we. Don’t let allow to know it (Corona), that we are scared from it. Actually, we aren’t scared from it though, we are scared from ourselves, from our future, right? Absolutely, the death of Sushant Singh Rajput reveals so many dark sides of the life. Success doesn’t matter at all, if you aren’t satisfied, if you aren’t happy, if you aren’t good. The idea of the today’s topic is quite relevant to that too. So, let’s move towards it.


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Experience, in simple terms when one practically, personally gone through some task, events or things, we called it by experience, right? Absolutely, we are. We all are experienced one, don’t get it? Your life is the best example, you live it, right? So, You have experience to live the life, in your own way or suggested one. The life is wholly depending on you that how you made it, how you build it, how you live it. You are the lone Constructor of your life.

Experience tells so much about ones, irrespective of matter, betters!! You know the little kid, without falling down, one didn’t know how to walk. Same happens with the adults too. If they can’t go through problems, they even didn’t know the real meaning of Success. Do You know the best teacher of Person, of Us? The Struggle, The Hard work, The Spirit to take the fight against all the odds are the professor of University at Human Behaviour and Psychology.

There can be also types of experiences too.

  1. Good Experience: – What you said about the good one? The experience in which everything happened good or relatively good is good experience. Like you had made planned to go solo trip. You make all the arrangement of yours for the trip and you successfully did it. That’s the good experience, right? Amm, no. Maybe you are wrong. You can’t do always good in all the way, even we people had problem with God too then after all we are human, how can be we perfect at all? There’s always something bad in Good experience too which later amended to be good. Like, in above example of solo travelling you may be lost your Watch, the one which gifted by your close one. But that doesn’t mean your whole trip is meant to be failed, your lost watch couldn’t outshine your joy, your success, your ability, your guts. That mistake could be rectified by the success of the journey!! After all that incident will stand by you when you narrate your first trip to someone in future.
  2. The Bad Experience: – We experience the good one or not, but we all are very familiar to bad experience. Right? Obviously, after all what we are today is just because of that. Bad experience taught us lot about people, events, opinions n our one lit mistake. Though this one is more important than to good one. Because it reveals the truth of world, of people and of yours. We all learnt from mistake, when these mistakes are gathered, it became Experience. We easily remember this too because after all who forgets the shit done with them so easily? The bad experience isn’t bad though, the one who strengthen up their feet will always turn the bad one into memorable one. The one who give up on situation will soon finds no way out.
  3. The Illustrative Experience: – The one who prefer to be practical in life will become role model for others. Their life story, their struggle, their tackling ideas, their dribbling skills to go past the problems became exemplary icon for others. Their practical knowledge becomes source of someone’s success, their chronology changed the life of applicant. Their thinking is crystal clear, either this way or that way but not to give up easily. People with this kind of experience had get control over their Crazy Mind, Emotional Heart and Bonding with Soul. 

So, the main thing is that experience matters at everywhere. In other Words, Experience is sounds Confidence Booster, don’t you find? Just understand it practically. You had given a task by someone to do something. In your very first time, definitely you are low in energy, in confidence, in skills, in everything. But as soon as you done it twice or thrice you get the idea behind the process. That’s enough, you are on right way. Even if you aren’t good in 10th attempt too, don’t be upset. You had learned something new, feel proud on that. In each n every attempt of yours, if you noticed, you do slightly better than your previous attempt. What’s that? That’s the experience, maybe you are slow but steady. Improvement, experience made it in yours, in your behaviour, in your sense of humour, in your talk, in your walk.

Each n every experience teaches something new and that’s what life meant to be. Just arrange the cards, your castle is inches away, made it concrete strong by your experience. It’s fully and wholly depends on us that how we consider it. Each experience learnt something new, teach something new. Though by bad one, people change their opinion and by good one, change their Decision. Thus, it’s matters for betterment, for improvement of one, who experienced it.

We all are New at something, at somewhere, at some point. If we assumed it to be wrong, then obviously it goes wrong. Always remember without making a step, you can’t succeed in jump! So, let’s First gain Experience, and then Apply the Experience.

Life is full of Experiences, each n every experience also different as well. The more you experienced, the more stories you have to share with your Grandchild. Make your experience acceptable, applicable. Help Newbies to teach and assist them via your experience. People without Experience is like Book without any Story…


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The topic of Next Sunday: No one Comes Alone, Left Alone!!

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7 Things You Must Learn To Control in Time!!


Hello Folks, what’s up? Hope you all are good and well in health n wealth wherever you are. Corona, had done enough damages irrespective of Monetary, Non- Monetary. World Economy had been gone already down and we all soon finds it, that’s the monetary damage. The Non-Monetary damages, maybe it hit more than that of monetary ones. Stress, depression, anxiety, fear, future uncertainty and loneliness insist all us to think about us more n more. We could overcome from Monetary crisis but outshined our own self will ask more sacrifice from all of us.

Recently I came across through many people and many blogs, news that people had started assuming their respective lives in danger. And the main thing is that the youth affected badly due to this pandemic. The reason is very simple that they had fear of losing someone or themselves. Sounds weird but that’s the harsh truth of today. Many assumed that future will be uncertain but not this type of. Corona, made us all helpless but how can we forget that we are human. As far as our existence will be on this Earth, how can we remove hope within us? Maybe we are helpless but not hopeless. Will come up on this topic in next blog till that let’s move towards one more interesting subject of the day. So let’s start,


Today we are going to see which would get control for better future and for better us, hope this will find helpful to all of us. So, let’s Start,

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  1. Control your Emotions:Had you thought where we lose? No? Okay so here we go. We all know that we human are bundle of emotion and where there comes emotion between us, between our decision, between our choices, we start thinking from heart and there starts the real panic. We couldn’t control our emotions, not bad though but as said be emotional not emotional fool!! There are lots of people who is available to take advantage of your emotions, if you give them chance then they will definitely gonna piece you off. Consider both the opinion of Heart and Mind if you want to control anything, it gonna works. Lack of anyone will enough to destroy you, destroy your whole life. Show emotions, but never reveal what your Heart wants over your Mind.   
  2. Control Your Hunger:Hunger, not related to food only. There are so-so many types of hunger whether it’s of earning money, fulfilment of requirements, to be perfect in everything or of getting everything in quick succession, which one has to control in time. Greedy never satisfied their hunger as they remain always greedy. Always believe that your brain, has also some limit like your belly. The one who failed to get control on their hunger ness will always go half stomach. Even a life treasure isn’t enough to satisfy their hunger, often they ended up in satisfaction of others hunger; like hunter haunt down itself. Satisfaction is a big thing, if you jealous by someone then you ended up losing your lit hut in search of Mansion.
  3. Control Your Anxiety:Anxiety, how would you define it? Any guess? Yes, you are right. It’s the prediction of Future Danger but how can be you fool enough to ruined your today for that which not happened in reality? We all know well that the whole world is based on assumption, people had strong belief that tomorrow will come but who said that tomorrow will only bring bad? The Sun never forgets to shine in less or more manner then how can you forget to rise up? Did you forget that you are Human? Don’t think so, it’s obvious that we scared from danger but even in danger we aren’t meant to be lose every time. We would overcome from it, but only n only if you believe that Yes, I can do.
  4. Control Your Mind:There are plenty of thoughts playing in one’s head, in that small power house known as Brain. In those thoughts we don’t know when and how we started to forecast our life events so rapidly, ended up losing control on ourselves. It’s never easy task to control Mind as it does what it wants and did accordingly. The cycle is simple of your downfall. First you start assuming something which leads to overthinking, which leads to anxiety, which leads to stress, which leads to depression and finally leads you to there where you find one way, Give up on your life. Mind has power that forces you to do that which you actually don’t want to but as it’s not in your control you gonna follow it. So in time learn to control your Mind, before someone gets rid of it.
  5. Control Your Heart: – Off course, If you learn to control your Mind then how can you forget to control your Heart? At last each n every decision is parallel to this both, don’t you think? Look here too a cycle works, very first Mind thought something, then that thought goes towards Heart to know its concern. If it approve then mind works accordingly, but if it denies then, human body betrayal within itself. Heart, itself never took decision but enforced Mind to take the decision on behalf of it. Heart wants so much which is nearly Impossible, which n how many wishes you would able to complete of your Heart? If Mind is an Ocean of thought then Heart is Pond, which produce so many rays, so many ways.
  6. Control Your Spending: – Spend, we all like to spend on thing, right? Whether it’s off on Clothes, Accessories, Electronics, Shoes or others stuffs like that. But really you need that or just to fulfil your mule demands? Not saying or stop you to spend but alert you to navigate your budget. Looks every time isn’t the same, one should have to do some savings from their respective earnings, like this corona pandemic has learn so much about it. Emergency funds would always be there if something bad happens in all of a sudden. Don’t buy that which just fulfilled your requirement, instead of that invest your money and make more money from that money.
  7. Control Your Screen time: – Last but not the least, Learn to Control your screen time. Yeah, sounds crazy but you should have to control your screen time sooner. Your eyes had to tolerate so much just because of you. Had you seen a Blind people? Just try to blind fold for some time. Even 5 minutes you can’t imagine your life without your eyes then how can you punish your eyes like this? Give it proper rest time to time. The world is so beautiful but for that you need an eye. Had you thought though, what if you lost it just because of your own shit?

Bonus Tips, Control Your Words: – Yes, you read it right. You must learn to get control on your words. If not then Mahabharat is the best possible Example, the word enough of Draupadi for the War. One has to know that how to use, when to use, where to use and which to use otherwise your value will be like that which acceptable by all but not applicable at all. Rather than put weight on your action. Believe in to do, not just to speak. Speak less, show more. Made your work recognisable one, you don’t need an identity.


So that’s all for the day, Hope you all like it. Send your suggestion, thought, opinion, tips in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday, till then Tata, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!!

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Aware From Creature Resides in You!!


Hello folks what’s up? Hope you all are well and healthier wherever you are. After long 2 months stay at home Finally, able to see the mother nature, following norms of Social Distancing, and use of face mask. Don’t know but it Feels weird when walking on the streets, working in the shifts. After coming back to home one question constantly played in my Mind Should I changed or the World? The Sun still shined at bright, the Moon also spread its magic, the Nature too was good as before the pandemic so what changed, really don’t know. Did you feel the same? If yes, had you succeeded to find the answer what changes made in the world? May be this is just starting. Something Strange or something worst is yet to come!!!


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Anyways let’s move towards today’s topic. The topic is something different rather than rest of the topics. Many awaits to knew what it is after all. But let me aware you guys This is in reply to my fellow blogger Pankanzy’s Post. i.e. She Interviewed the Most Dangerous Animal. So, all the men hood, brotherhood present here if you upset or disagree on my thoughts then please pardon me or let shut off your fucking mouth. This will be going to one of the fierce posts. Abused words also used in it so made your mind bearable one to tolerate it, especially Men like me. The post is fully dedicated to Girls/Women present here, present in the World, present anywhere in the Galaxy.

Dangerous Animal, the word Pankanzy, my dear friend had used to describe the Men hood, to describe people like me. I totally agree on that after reading the post of him but then I think this is inappropriate use of word to describe people like me, Men. Why to insult the breed of Animals, for the shake of people like me, Men? At least they won’t rape of other animals by misusing the name of God that too in those holy places like Temple, Mosque, Churches etc… Had you read any news at any time that Animal caught while raping of another animal at Mosque? Had you read any news at any time in the life that Lion raped his own kid? I hadn’t, never ever.

The intention is just to say that the one who is mature enough never done this kind of act, more precisely non forgivable crime. If that become forgivable then everyone habitual to forget and doing rape became usual/routine activity for men like me. Animals, I remember something from that. It is said that We are updated version of Monkeys, right? Yes, we are. But as fast as we updated, our thoughts at the same time and at the same speed our thoughts were became more n more lower graded or let me say deteriorate. Is this the real development or growth of brain of people like me? Men, if we born as Men then who said that We have all the rights to do anything with anyone?

People said that we are Social Animal, right? But can you find the difference between Animal and Social Animal? Animal, they have their own feelings, emotions, care for others while what we have on the other side? Yes, we are so called Social Animal forget to behave Socially. The never satisfied Hunger ness of Sex, Greed of Money and how to do wrong with others, qualities of men like me. Yes, I am Men, Social Animal. People call me by that but just forget the meaning of Socialize itself.

Priyanka Reddy, the nearest possible case I could remind of Hyderabad. A Doctor by profession belongs to good family background. But what had happened to her? Majority of People knows that Convicts of crime were Encountered by the Police Officials but had anyone thought Is the real justice delivered? The convicts had first followed her then brutally raped her one by one, followed by burying the body of her. What if the same procedure will follow to give the justice of late Priyanka Reddy? First raped of all convicts, enforced them to run nudes/naked on the street and then bury them all Basterds. (Here raped of convicts means to cut out that fucking dick of them, that they used as weapon.) This case reminds many of us to Nirbhaya Kand of Delhi, 2012. 7 Years to that horrible incident and still daily one Nirbhaya lost her life because of this kind of Creature, Social Animal.  

In addition to that this kind of Creature lodged Mercy petition to the President and their family members also doing best possible for their bailment. Like how? Are you not human? Is there any kind of humanity in you? First you raped and then files mercy petition. Have you given chance to that girl for the same? Had you Mercy on her before raped? Fuckers, you ruin someone’s life. There are so many red-light areas, go there and satisfied your hunger but why you spoiled life of her? If you aren’t ready to made expense on that then do masturbate, had you forgotten you had hands too??

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You even not seen her age fucker. She’s not in position to bear the pain. Even if she is in position to bear the pain you had no right to satisfy your hunger on her. What you get after doing that? Your second of enforced, enough to spoiled her whole life!!! Have you forgotten; you are also from her? Men, why you forget to respect the Women?

These Creatures are so mentally unbalanced that even they won’t let out their mother, daughter, cousin, niece, the list goes on. Some says the cloths wore by girls enough to seduced us, Men. Like how? What you see in that dress wore by that 4 years old? What she has to wear, is also chosen by you? It’s her choice, it’s her selection that what to wear and what not to. And yeah more over it’s her life after all, who given you right to interfere in her matter? Creepy People – Creepy thoughts!!!

She is Female, not a Free Male…

We Men thought that if we have dick, we can do anything with it, right? Learn to Control your dick. If it tightens then do something good. Be a Sperm Donor, but please don’t do this. In addition to that by doing so you also got some money. If she is Female, and you are Male then it’s your duty to save her. Before Lose your Pants, Ready to see yourself in Grave soon.

If She is for Love then it doesn’t mean she is for Enjoyment. 

If She is for Sex, then it doesn’t mean she is for Enforcement.

Always Remember If she is, then and only then You are!!

Aware from the Creature resides you, Men. Learn to control it in time, otherwise you won’t get a second to Revive. Before going to rape her, always remember you also gonna be fucked up sometime, somewhere maybe more brutally and more ridiculously.

“If She is Bleeding

Because of your Enforcement

Then prepared yourself

To Exhales Bloody Tears.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it. Send your suggestions, thoughts, opinion on today’s post in comment section. Will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

Topic of Next Sunday:- I Can’t Be You, You Can’t be Me!!

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