We Are Dying Before We Are Trying!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are healthy and wealthy physically, as well as mentally. Mental peace is need of the hour, right? This situation is like each of us need counsellor who looks after us in every aspects, on behalf of us. How much one is strong enough, one is feel down when they have to face and defeat their own self!! Getting rid of it is easy but there we people who often made it complicated to go through. Here people are not at fault, completely, sometimes situation and luck also played their respective and pivotal roles in downfall of them. But still question raises, are you unable to tackle down the situation or the situation themselves are more challenging, which one had assumed to be?

Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. The little bit exciting and demanding one. All you got some idea by the title, that what we gonna talk about today, right? Yes, about failures, the other side of life. While discussing with Akshita, on some issues of life, finds it interesting to penned down this topic as many of us suffering from it and to apply half heartedly efforts, which is almost parallel to nullify efforts at all. So, let’s dive into this to get some positive vibes/energy to live the life fullest.


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We are Dying Every Single Second, We are Dying in Every Minute, We are Dying in Every Moment, before we are about start to something New, right? Don’t hesitant to confess it, even I am not except in this case. We are too curious and energetic in starting session but as soon as Sun starts to set, our confidence also start to sunk, right? Yes, definitely we lack confidence but how can one gets it without any attempt? Victory isn’t far from your Reach in beginning, it’s far when you think to give up on that idea in Mid way!!

As a Human we all in-need of something always, like always, that’s the human tendency whether you believe or not. Greed for good is always good and the attempts you gave to conquer it never went unnoticed. To give efforts is the first thing, one can focused before anything else, right? Yes, because if you aren’t prepared well mentally to show the guts, you’ll never back with smile on face. You, only happy if you feel from the bottom of your heart, because from the face no matter how much you pretend to be happy but somewhere your inner half isn’t stand by you at all, maybe you are satisfied by face but not by soul.

Life is not what you achieve from it, it’s all about how you create it. Mainly as we differentiate the people in 3 basic categories, Poor Class – Middle Class and Rich, we made it easy to recognise the people by their status, right? If we go deep down, there’s more class one can identified from it, higher middle class, lower middle class, backward class, impecunious and beggar. In fact, there’s no such class one can find, it’s only theory one blindly follows it. What’s your thinking about the lifestyle of the Rich? They eat good, wore good, looks good and? That’s all? Really? Think about it again, what Rich do that poor deny to do? What about work?

We all do the work as per our accordance, true? Obviously at last that are the source to fulfil our needs/requirement and belly. Have you observe the mindset of the billionaire of the world ever? Are the people who is Rich won’t work at all, did you think like that? Then be alert, very first, you must have to visit some doctor/counsellor as soon as possible. The truth is Wealthier suffer the most, because to reach at the top isn’t their goal, to stay on top is their ultimate goal. For that they have to take some decision, instantly and accurately. If they failed to do so, there would be bigger inverse impact on their business. There’s no point to give up on situation, if it’s unfavourable, then they tried to make it favourable one at any cost. To accept the defeat by giving an efforts is much better than not to appear for the attempt even.

To give efforts must be our sole motto, irrespective of the result. If you succeed there’s no one happy like you by doing so and what if you failed? Don’t worries if you can’t succeed you gain some experience/ formula to crack these types of hurdles, which definitely gonna assist you in your next attempt. Experience is the key to Success, if you failed to have it, you can’t simply differentiate between Success and Failure. For you Success is opposed of Failure and Failure is opposed to Success, where in reality it’s wide concept. Both term have their own chronology, the process, and the different outcome for sure.  

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Confidence, one simply can’t boost it, before they can practically used their hidden weapon. And what’s that? For that you have to write it down, at least 10 times, Yes, I can do this; whenever you feel like to give up on particular idea. Then fold that paper and put it in your wallet or there where you find it easily. Read it when you about to give up, it’ll never let you allowed to do so. It reminds you that you made the promise to do that, now you have no way out except to try again. Instead of to die with regret of not taking the chances, sounds better to die with satisfactory efforts that you give.

Look every coin has two a side, if one is for your opponent then the other would be sure for you, no doubt in that. You know, we all scarce one thing for sure, the confidence booster, while beginning, in mid-way and in finishing too. In beginning we scared to do something as we already new at somewhere, in middle of the path, we scared by the barriers we face, the upcoming hurdles and in finishing we scared of the result. In this whole process we dies so many times on regular basis, even one themselves doesn’t know about their DAILY DYING – DAILY CRYING before one confident TRYING.

You don’t need long lectures on motivation, hour long inspirational speech and all to try something. All you need is to have complete yourself with you, who can walk with you – side by side. To die is too easy, you know. There are many causes to die but there you have to find that one reason which never let you down, shut you down. Scared of Height? Scared of Water glitch? Scared of Evil? Scared of Dreams? All your scar are victorious if you are there, so does the new beginning. In eyes of World, you are alone, but you know you aren’t, make them believe you solely enough to make the changes, you saw, you follow.  

“Do not Die before You Try and Do not Try before You Cry, Cry after Try and Die after Try.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like this small dose of confidence booster. Share your viewpoints, suggestions, opinions and thoughts regarding today’s post in comment section will replied yoo soo over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tatta, BByee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!! Stay safe, Stay healthy!!

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7 Road Hacks to Follow While Driving!!


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this pandemic. I know it’s early today, but as I’ve hectic upcoming Sunday, so hope you won’t mind. Days are really flying, that we have already entered into the last quarter of the year, 2020. The quarter of happiness, festivals, new beginnings. After having a stressful year, something good is on its way, I guess. So, let’s hope for the best, and also wish you the best for your endeavours.

Anyways, let’s quick start our session with one more interesting topic of the day. In every year at least 1 Million to 1.5 Million people lost their lives in the road accidents all over the world, more than the normal disease. It’s insane, but true. So, think to penned down this topic, which also seems demanding by looking after the current scenario, where people looks depressed and feel the load in their respective lives by whatsoever reason. So just follow the rules mentioned below while driving on the road..


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  1. Keep Calm: – When you are angry, there’s a chance that you may lost control on yourself and end up by messed up everything. Same theory applied while driving too. If you thinks too much, there’s a probability that you smoothly lost control on your driving skills and lost in the thought of Ocean. If you’re angry, don’t give try to drive by yourself, instead use public transportation or wait till you gets control on yourself otherwise you do harm to yourself or either to others. Anger ness, maybe it’s your due but paid by others too. So, skip the driving if possible. So don’t add emotions while driving, put it aside and then try.
  2. Read and Follow Signboards: – Signboards, are really helpful, only, and only if you followed it too, reading it only, won’t works at all. Where to overtake vehicles, is it okay to honking the horns, Speed limits, Direction, Kilometre/Miles to the destination, nearby Hospitals and Petrol Pumps, Speed breakers, all are important, they aren’t just to print and to stick on the board by roadside. If you kindly follow it, you don’t need Google to assist you, to your destination. Most of us, just read it and ignore it, which is later on part of our sole regret. So, it’s better to follow the signboards while driving, especially when you are new to somewhere. Life has no signboard, but paths have!!
  3. Use Indicators: – Many of us, always are in hurry to reach somewhere instead of to start our trip early, right? But in that chaos, we often forgets to use indicators, which causes to unwanted accidents/ slip ups. Just Effectively use the indicators, deepers and blow the horn when seems necessary and while overtaking the vehicles/crossroads. Get an eye on Fuel tank too, when travelling to unknown place, even for a short trip. Do check the Speedometer too whether it’s properly works or not. Break are working properly or not you have to check everything before making your routine journey as well for your safety and safety of others too.
  4. Avoid Talks or Loud Music: – As said, you’ve to be concentrate on one thing fully if you want to avoid some unnecessary incidents and early results of something. Brain has also some limits, if too much load it bears, then be ready to face the consequence of it too. Avoid loud music and unnecessary talks on cell phones, air-pods or use of your devices if possible. There’s a possibility that you became careless for a moment and your whole life gonna be useless for you, for the people you surrounded by. Your life is in your hand, the steering you hold, followed the instruction of yours, so think twice before messed up the things with your own hands.
  5. Handy First Aid Kit: – Life is full of uncertainties so better to step out from the home with necessary handy medical stuff. Don’t forgot to bring Bandages, some medicines and visiting card of your family doctor, so in case you met something bad, then people have some clue to reach you/ family member of yours. Add the number of your parents/siblings in emergency contact of your device. If you live separate from your family, then add the number of people whom you can trust and always pick up the call. In this time, it’s worthy to bring some medical stuffs, if not needed by you then maybe it proves life changing moment for others too, by you.
  6. Don’t Drink and Drive: – Yes, you read it right. Even if you are confident enough to drive by yourself to home, or from home to somewhere, don’t take that type of risk. It’s not just risky but it’s also breach of law, so better to avoid it. Maybe you think you are good enough to drive, but not everyone feels the same, the chances of Accidents gone higher in that cases. You just not take the risk of your life only, there are many other lives too apart from yourself, have you forget it? The moment you close the eye for a second in that hangover, maybe and maybe you don’t need a second chance to open it again, so advice not to do that.
  7. Be Like Tortoise, but not like Rabbit: – In this fast-forwarding life, we all are in too hurry to reach somewhere, in given/schedule time, right? Yes, we do often, no argue in that. Reaching somewhere late is tolerable one or to pay the price of your life, what would you prefer? Listening the hard words of your boss is good or to meet the god in-person is good? We all knew the story of Tortoise and Rabbit, right? What would you to be, Rabbit or Tortoise? The one who is enthusiastic one to reach its destination without knowing the path or the one who is slow but know the path, direction and steady too? If you want to race, don’t do that with your vehicles, instead make race with the time you have, and you want to.

Bonus Tips:

  • Use helmet while driving the two wheelers.
  • Don’t forget to tie the seat belt in Four wheelers.
  • Keep an eye on Oil and other possible maintenance of vehicle.
  • Take care of your vehicle in proper manner and matter.
  • Wash and clean it once in half a month.
  • Maintain at least 10 feet of distance, prior to your vehicle.
  • Vehicles aren’t for race, remember they are for comfort!!

So that’s all for the day, hope you all follow this simple rules and safety measures before starting your trip. Life is precious so why to lose it by our own hand? Penned down your thoughts, suggestions and opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic of the day till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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Tips, Tricks and Trims of Life!!


Hello guys, What’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this pandemic in your respective lives. Life is really challenging now a days, the one who advice others to be better, had lose control on themselves often. Disconnecting from the rest of the world, Workload and ongoing issues makes life harder to live it peacefully. There is difference between Mentally and physically disabled person. The one who is disabled physically still has chance to outshine his/her weakness with help of strong will power but the one who is disabled by mentally, not gets a single clue to edge past his/her weakness.

Giving up on the life isn’t be the option never ever, but still when people lose mentally, finds it best amongst all. Not discouraging you, but sharing you the facts of life that how it will going to consume you slowly. You became victim of yours and no one gonna survive you from there. Life isn’t that what you expect to be happen, it’s all about uncertainty and maybe that’s the beauty of it.


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So let’s quick start our session today. Yes, there’s happening so many things right now in the world, in the life that its very difficult to stay high always. The idea of today’s post is based on that. So here are some of the tips, tricks and trims of life which going to helpful you all;

Tips: Tips, it’s easy to motivate others, but when one tried to get in someone’s shoes, the real transparency of life revealed by that very first moment, which previously not seen, feel or understandable. So following are some quick tips of life which might be assist you all in your hard time.

  • Want to see a smile, then observe the innocent chuckle of toddler.
  • Want to do something, implement without much hesitant.
  • Want to see a beauty, then observe the beauty of Nature.
  • Want to see an unconditional love, then find a mother
  • Want to see an Inspiration, wake up and find the mirror.
  • Want to see improvements, start with yourself.
  • Want to Motivate, first be that.
  • Want to learn something, it’s never too late.
  • Want to give up, give up that idea first.
  • Want to live, don’t look for happiness, first start to believe to be live.
  • Want to Die, don’t find reason, be like season, just think to change that Decision.

Tricks: Likewise Tips, Tricks often works there where tips aren’t allowed to follow. Some tricks are handy enough to adopt and amend the decision whenever and wherever it seems like to be. When one is low, lost and betrayal they put more weight on trick than to Tips. So following are some of the handy tricks to follow and to recommend as well.

  • Don’t understand word, understand people.
  • Don’t be hard to yourself, at last you survive yourself from sinking.
  • Don’t count the numbers, mind the numbers.
  • Don’t ashamed to cry, it’s better than fake laugh, even in public.
  • Don’t give up too early, maybe decision you took proves early.
  • Don’t be right every time, try to be southpaw too.
  • Don’t judge people, know people.
  • Don’t look for peace, it’s within you. If you can’t find in yourself then it’s rare to find anywhere.
  • Don’t find comfort, find the place, and make it comfortable.
  • Don’t solve puzzle, solve the issues you face/you gone through.
  • Don’t copy, make others to do.
  • Don’t boost Confidence, uplift yourself than previous day.
  • Do silly, if you want to famous and known.

Trims: Trims, in general trims means to remove unnecessary stuff from there where it seems like to be needed, for cleanliness, for betterment/improvement or for satisfaction of themselves. So following are some trims which one should implement soon in their respective lives.

  • Trim toxic people.
  • Trim toxic relationship as well.
  • Detox unnecessary social media accounts.
  • Trim negative vibes and grew positive mindsets.
  • Trim unwanted monthly shopping expenditures.
  • Try to Trim screen time.
  • Trim and update Music list as and when feel needed.
  • Trim fear while to do new.
  • Trim unwanted thoughts of brain.
  • Trim evil within you.
  • Trim your feelings, emotions, World isn’t that much kind to handle it.
  • Trim expectations, Grew acceptations.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you all find something from it, and help your respective selves. Share your thoughts, opinions and suggestion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. Share your experience as well, if you implement/adopted something recently, curious to know about it. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic of the day till then Tataa, Bbyye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda hafiz. Stay safe, take care!!

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Make Space for Your Place!!


Hola guys, What’s up? Hope you all are good and well wherever you are in this pandemic. Time is really challenging and so as we, right? Absolutely because as said by the 3rd law of Newton, Every Action has an equal and opposite reaction, we proved it right in many ways. The more Corona tried to pressed us, the more strength we applied, not in defence but to break down the barriers of Corona, i.e. lockdown, social distancing, use of face mask and sanitization process. Not bad though but still as said Prevention is better than Cure.

The last week, as usual not go right in many aspects. Beirut again trembled by fire on the same place that took place month ago. India, suffering most than any other country not because of Corona but because of people of the country itself. Really corona does not scare me but the people like Kangana Ranaut makes life so hard that being a citizen of Democratic nation looks like a curse in itself. I mean how can one use democratic right in this way? Lack of Unity already haunt India in past (Ruling of British Empire in India for about 2 centuries) and now especially when it combat against China, Pakistan, and all neighbourhood countries as lone wolf. So please stop to spread this hatred ness among people and request all Indians to be one, because Maybe corona can be conquered but the fight against jealousy, hatred ness can never be. The bushfire of California is also red-light alert of almighty, to take care of nature.


Anyways let’s comeback to one more interesting topic of the day. Space for the Place or Place for the Space, what you chose? Not get it? Okay right, we will go through it soon but before that if you missed the last post then just follow the link mentioned below,

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Space, you know it matters in lives of all of us. But there are some spaces, some blank spaces which are already reserve for the people. The space reserved in heart of parents for their kid, the space of fiancée in heart of her fiancé, the space of best friend bench, the space of to park vehicle in parking area, the space of Chief guest on Stage, the space of sit while travelling, the space of driver on driving seat, the space of villain/dark character in Movie, etc. What you mean by it? Any idea? No? Yes? Confuse, right?

Whenever the one who is favourable by another by whatsoever reason, shows the interest of that another person in that one person. But is it easy, to impress people by your act? Not at all. Maybe that another person blindfold by an eye, but not the crowd. Crowd notice all even you, forget to judge yourself but crowd never failed to do so. Place maybe you got that, but to stay there is as hard as to combat against invisible enemy. Each n every steps you took, the more enemy you create because Some people don’t need reason to hate you, Jealousy is enough.  

Yes, there’s a difference between Place for the Space and Space for the Place. Place can be earned by hard work, by honour, by respect, by strength, by sense, by some bunch of papers and by power too but for space you need heart, to feel and to be feel. Place can be temporary allocated but the space you made might stay as long as you want. Be like air, lit-bit loophole and your work is done. Just like an air, you don’t need big space to show your status, little space is enough to prove your worth, to prove your existence. Don’t believe it then try to clipped out your nose for just a minute.

Have you ever noticed the Sky? It hide so many emotions and at the same time make space for Stars, for Moon, for Sun, for Birds, and for some human creations too, don’t you find? No one tolerate in the world like the Sky does. It cries, it tempers, and it pampers too. What is in Place? If today is yours then maybe tomorrow will be someone else’s. Look Place does not matter, the matter is that the Space you chose to make it Place. Focus on to make Space rather than to concentrate on Individual Place. If you succeed, you will be remember for long, if you failed, you finds an experience to do it again.

In this time everyone focus on to find right place for themselves, Kid looks for the place where he/she enjoys fully, Youth looks for the job security, Adult looks for the wealth from where he/she can survived happily after retirement. We all coincidentally joins that race which has no end, only one destination, Regret, for not to make call on right time in right direction and in right situation.

The Space you are looking for is in yourself only. To Find a right place is not bad though, but why to find just place why not to make space for yourself, for the people you are surrounded by? If you find the space, you find the place automatically but what if you find the place which is already occupied? Will you wait? All you need to make Space is Courage and trust in yourself. If you believe you can make a difference then go for it without wasting a second, because the dream you saw, maybe seen by someone already too. Maybe thousands were failed, maybe millions were given up already, may be billions were lost in that space, you need to wake up there, to do that.

Place changes often, but the space you made – you create is hard to change. Had you seen God, Almighty? No, right? But still we all believe that he/she is here between us all the time. What is that? It’s the space, we had for them. If you can’t enough to make space for yourself, then find a place equal to space you want to create.

There’s no mean of that, if everything you wish you got without much efforts. There’s different kind of Kick one received while such honoured he/she earned. No matters Who’s your father or Whom you belongs to, the matter is that Who are you? If you are known by your own Name, then don’t you think you have to go for it? Finds a,

“Space for the Solace


So that’s all for the day. hope you all got it what this post is for. Space matters, place also matters but how make space for your place is upmost matters, without any argue, right? Send your suggestions, thought, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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5 Subject Wish to See in Modern Education!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing great and well wherever you are in this pandemic. It’s almost September, the end of 3rd quarter of the year 2020, very soon, seriously??!! Time really flies, we even don’t know when Festival comes, when it goes. Still confused and don’t know that How many people comes and how many left during this pandemic, but whatever happened, happens for the good. Take high notes from it rather than to regret on what we lose and what we were able to do. Just concentrate on what you learned from this pandemic and how much it gonna helpful to you in due course.

Pandemic, as far as we human exist on this earth, it was normal- it is normal, and it will be normal. If we hurt someone/something, then be prepared for the same. How can one think he/she will be pardon by almighty. He is there to justice, no one can escape from it. The topic of the today is also based on this pandemic. Many new changes adopted by us during this pandemic, whether it’s pertaining to Work or Education or Meetings or Interviews, everything changed.


So now let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. As said earlier, due to COVID-19 Pandemic, many changes adopted by us, which are necessary for the benefit of all. As we are heading towards that world, which we all imagine sometimes ago, but in due course it happens swiftly than think. Changes come and history is the proof that we successfully adopted those as well. So below are few subjects, more precisely some topics which should be consider in education for betterment of that respective country/nation. Because the youth of today is the future of tomorrow. What we teach them today will done by them, direct them towards progress.  

Some Subjects don’t need books, modules or prospectus. It’s neither subjective nor objective. It’s the Compulsive, which should be taught to students for well being of their, of the mother nature. Today we are going to see some of that topics which is demand of today or will be demanding topics in nearest future, so let’s start…

  1. Stress Management: – Stress, What is it? Any idea? No, right? Yeah that’s the problem. Because many of us know nothing about it that what is Stress, and how it affects the body type of one’s. The emerge situation like this corona pandemic reveal the face of all hypocrite people. Many Survey also suggest that the people of age group between 18-35, often passed from this transmission of Stress again and again. And more shocking news is that they had no idea about it which later on proves to be life changing moments for their respective lives. So concerned is just to start this process, as soon as possible so that they can be able to know it, to understand it, successfully overcome from this plague and save themselves. Had you thought what if we gave them knowledge about that? The current situation is like we all need a consultant for our mental health, who took care of ourselves on our behalf. So, teach them to identify what stress them, what harms them and taught to fight for themselves.
  2. Sex Education: – Sex education, sounds silly, right? But no, it is not silly though. Likewise, Maths, Science and Social studies how can we forget to teach them that what is good and what is bad? As a teacher, it’s their duty to talk about it with them without any shame because that’s what the necessity of today. If one don’t know what it is then how can you expect as a teacher that your student will never do wrong to anyone in life? Sex isn’t just the satisfaction of one’s hunger. It’s the feeling, emotion, love, and care towards each other. If it won’t then why people married to their love birds, think about it. If as a Child they can be able to understand it, then do it. Make them aware that if Sex is important then the people with whom you were having forcefully sex was also important to someone else too. The topic is maybe new and maybe not, but if as a teacher you able to teach them about this then, congratulations you done a great job. Many people will be hesitant by introducing this subject topic is school, maybe they were going to protest too but that’s the requirement of today. If we serve them this type of knowledge since childhood then and only then the crime rates relating to Sexual harassment, human trafficking and rapes will dip. Because what literate man does is only done by them.
  3. Nature Conservation: – Now a days Social Studies is limited till books only but in real life no one is really care about nature, right? The current situation is perfect illustration for us. There are so many issues raising regarding environment protection. Temperature flexibility, fire in rain forests, earthquakes, floods, storms and so on, list is going on. So better to aware the next generation child about conservation and importance of nature in life. Then why to wait for the moment, why not to start from today onwards? The topic isn’t new but the way to describe it will certainly need some work to do. In starting as a kid its absolute that many will take it granted but among all if couple of kids will take pledge to conserve it then your work won’t wasted at all. As said, for a fire, a little spark is enough. Insist them to do all helpful to environment. Teach them to throw a waste in dustbin only, make proper use of papers, grew more trees by providing them live illustration with showing its benefits and all. Nature is beautiful and so as you, make them believe.
  4. Class of Happiness: – Let us be Kid with Kid. If you can’t give wings to them then how can they fly? If you won’t encourage them then how’s their confidence will boost? A daily one lecture will be like do whatever you like to do. Where everything is free, and everyone is free to smile to laugh to express to explore to impress. Want to sing then do, want to share some story then do, want to do mimic then do, want to crack a joke then do. There will be no denial in anything. Encouragement and Appreciation will take place instead of regular student- teacher talk. This will also going to helpful to hike the relationship between teacher and student. In this fast-forwarding life, many forgets to smile, cheer up them to show guts to stand up. Motivate them that they done a great job. There’s no shy to be kid with kid, because in everyone a little kid is always there to enjoy the present moment, don’t you find?  
  5. Tactical Solution: – Tactics, any idea? What is it? Teach them to find a solution rather than to solve a puzzle. The tactics which are generally follows in Sports, especially in Football where co-operation, alertness and discipline of team member is equally important. It’s the coach whose tactics ensures the victory of their respective team, be that coach of your students. If something bad happens then instantly rectify the error by changing the tactics. The instant decision-making process will definitely be handy in some situation in real life too. Teach them to find the solution of the same problem in different ways. Make them insist that they can do better. Don’t pressure them, assist them to identify the changes and challenges faced by them. Make them Attacker who also knows how to defend, how to dribble past the problems, how to tackle the situation.

If you are modern, but your thoughts are still stuck to conformist then how can you said that you are MODERN? Subjects which taught at School/Colleges/Universities are helpful to crack the examination but what if you failed in the examination of Life? Think about it. We all begs to god that please change the time, but how can one is so sure that the time will come is definitely a good one?


So that’s all for the day, hope this changes will soon applied in education system. Penned down your thoughts, suggestions, opinions and point of view regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tata, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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3 Things One Should Never Beg for, Which They can Earn!!


Hola Guys, How’s you? Hope you all are good and well wherever you are in this pandemic. The fight is definitely long, even the vaccine could available, because it’s not the fight to win. As said Every War isn’t to Win, but it’s to defend as well. The war against this pandemic is just like that, we must have to defend ourselves with support of offensive mode. If we only aim to win then definitely, we have to suffer more. So, let’s ready for the game, because maybe and maybe this is just beginning…

Not to discourage you, but to encourage all of you to ready for the upcoming fights. We all deal with many things at a times but that’s not a big thing. If one has to survive then he/she must have to do it. Situation is worse, but it’ll definitely change whether you believe or not. As a human what we can do? We have 3 options, 1st is to fight against it, 2nd is to wait for improvement and the last is to give up on situation, whatever you chose, don’t forget to ping this answer in comment section.


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Any guess? What we are going to talk about today? No? Okay, no worries, we’ll go through it soon. The idea behind to penned down this topic is also due to sweetness of current situation of COVID pandemic. We all know that due to this pandemic every country has to suffer from economy loss irrespective of quantum. It affects global economy, so many went unemployed, laid off from duties and termination in contracts but today we are going to talk about that which one should never beg, which they are able to earn because Whatever is Beg can’t be Earn ever and Whatever is Earned can’t be Begged. So, which are the 3 things which one should never beg for, if they are in good shape by both mentally and physically, let’s see.

  1. Money: Money, who won’t love it in this world? Me, You, We all are blindfold everything in front of it, right? Absolutely, we are. As said Money is the most powerful inspiration but what if something else outshined it? Is that going to be happened? Everything is possible, but for now just divert from that question lit bit. Who said that to earn money is difficult? If you are skilled, mindfulness and sane then you can earn as much as you want. Then Who said that to earn money is easy? The one who makes money through money. What it means? If you had little money, then it’s enough to make it giant but only n only if you wish. Everyone can earn money. The one who is in need and the one who is greedy will find thousand ways to generate money for themselves. But the one who is lazy, insane will find it hard to possess it. They lost their money and when they are empty, they started begging because their bank balance was over not their need and requirements. But is it good to beg for yourself to others? Are you not enough or capable to weigh off your weight on your shoulder? Keep aside 20% from earning for any kind of emergency, start investing in capital markets or if you have no capital then try to find out skills of yours that will assist you to generate money. Once you start begging, then it’ll never be end.
  2. Fame: – Fame, what did you mean by it? Any idea? When you start living in heart of people rather than to live in actual life is called fame. You are not there but still your hypothesis existence is enough to generate that energy in absence of yours. And how’s that possible? Fame, your that name which earn by you after cleared off the Night of lava where many melted and many halted. The night in which sun rises but not in your life, you work for that, one day that sun will rises in your life too. Unlike Money you can’t beg for Fame. You have to made by yourself, for yourself till yourself. If you beg for it then it never be called fame, it called grant of someone by seeing your seek condition. Maybe you favoured by someone to get that but then how long are you able to handle that hangover of your fame? One need guts to have it, to possess it. If you lacking any of it then only n only God can save you from the unknown storm of your life.
  3. Respect: – Confused? May be you are but Yes, Fame and Respect both are absolutely two different words and they both have their own definition. The one who has fame will get respect as well but the one who is respected, fame isn’t guaranteed. Though many similarities one can find here. Likewise, fame, respect also can’t be begged. You can’t simply ask for respect unless and until you are well played on field (life). Among all the 3, Respect is the most difficult for the people to have it. Respect doesn’t mean to complete the formalities, it can be feel by heart, by both, the host and the person who got respect. Then how can one earn it? Very simple, First Give Respect then ready to be respected. Loyalty/Honesty has the direct relationship with it while greed had adverse relation to it. Respect leads the all the way. The path of Success, the path of Truth, the path of Fame, the path of Wealth. So, focus on to it. In fact, respect is the first step towards your well-being. Your status defines you, really well said.

Be a Negotiator rather than to be a Beggar. Never agreeing on life ethics if you learn that you’ll never ask favour of anyone. Once you tasted any of the above, you’ll soon become addicted to it. Though who won’t loves that after all? The difference between Normal people and beggar is beggar will always go unsatisfied irrespective of what he/she get. What you chose? Chose wisely.

Money, Fame and Respect once you lost, it’s kinda difficult to get back. So beware before making any move. Though Money can be earn again and again but Fame and Respect, once lost, can’t be. Although money can assist you to get that, but for that, you have to HAVE it.


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No One Comes Alone, Left Alone!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are well and good wherever you are. Corona, don’t you think you tried so much to threaten us? On the other hand, we also felt scared from it. It’s human tendency, but at the same time we fought so many fights along with Corona. May be that took our main test, to measure our tolerance, to know our strength. Some clear it with their skills of patience, calmness, humour and maturity. Corona tried full to broke us mentally, even it succeeded in majority parts but it forgotten that there’s already one virus rules on the earth from thousand of years, i.e. A Human Virus. Till the existence of it, no one can outshine it.

Virus kills the Human, but here Human is enough to kill each other, don’t you think? We love to rule so as we always try to be. If not by force then by pretence, if not by trick then by brick (War), if not by emotions then by revenge, we just try to capture everything under our control. Sometimes wonder, why this virus takes this much of stress when we human is enough to spread the fear, threat? There’s nothing much dangerous than person with evil thought. Had you found though? I, never.


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Anyways let’s come back to today’s one more interesting subject. What you think though btw? Any idea by reading the title? Yes, you are right. Today’s post isn’t about human nature, emotion or feeling. It’s of us, of Human. Totally related to each n every human being who born as human and die as human. So, let’s start from beginning,

Human. We all are, right? Absolutely, we. Okay so who made us and what the motto to introduce us, as a human on this earth rather than to introduce like other lively creatures? Had you thought though? No? Okay that’s absolutely fine if you know and even if you not. This post will you all the answers, you are looking for.

Had you thought God had been succeeded in their very first attempt to directly introduced human on earth? Not at all. There’s so much chronology and mindset used behind that. Don’t get it? The history of other lively creatures is more ancient than us. Animals, Birds, Insects were launch on initial stage by God to testify that really the nature they created is good for living or not. After observing the progress of them, God made plans to launch human, to launch us on earth, in this beautiful nature.

They launched the most updated version of his creation as Human. In initial stage, human was also like other lively creatures presented on earth but they possessed one boon from God. The power of Brain. Through using of it time after time, they became the lone superior of the earth and soon started hurting other lively creatures for their selfish purposes, for their greed, for their breed. They believe that this earth is for them only, and forget others. Time passed and they even forget the creator of them too, the almighty. But God knows when to knock the door and when to give signals to human. The one who create something also aware from the consequences and so as they always ready to deteriorate them into that in which they belong to.

How we Human born? We are in womb for 9 months of female breed. In between that God created us and if they find something weird, they soon pause their work and doesn’t allow us second to see the nature, to experience the wonderful creation of it. They stop the production process, though this will happen often. The life they give you is, precious than your whole life treasure.

The One Who Comes as Human on this earth, will come with so many expectations of their family. Not just only human arrives, a lot of dream, responsibilities also on their way. It maybe of their parents or someone else’s. But whoever will be come, never comes alone. If a boy comes, he’ll be star of an eye of his parent and if a girl comes, she’ll be queen of an eye of her parent. There are lots of pre-planned, goals waiting for them. As a human we are good enough in assumption that we finalize so many things before arrival of them in reality.

In the same way, the one who Left us never left alone. If people die, he/she left with their good mark ups and some will leave without making any noise. But the best thing is that the one who left us, left with a good reason to live the life to the fullest. Then soon we knew the real meaning of life if someone close to us left us, alone in the world. We habitual to live with their moments, in absence of the one who left us. We tried to live with their memory, their experience made us strong.

The best part of dying is that we people at last dies as Human, if someone fails to live the life like human. Don’t get it? Okay. During one’s life, they became so powerful, wealthier, get dignity and position in the society, in the world whereas some is not as good as others in life. But when he/she on the verge of Die, that position, wealth, power nothing works. May be those are some sources to live the life happily but not the happiness. The one who born as Human, must Die as Human as well, that’s the law of the World, of the Nature.

In short The one Who comes in this World, will come with so many Pros and Cons of life and the one Who left the World, left with memories, moments and experience he had during his life cycle. If you are good, people will remember you as a good human being, if you aren’t then still people remember you for your bad. In short may be People dies, but actually they aren’t.

“Everything Comes with a Purpose,

Everything Left for a Reason

Everyone Feels the Season

Find your Mission, Vision”

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Experience Matter, For Better!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are in good shape, mentally as well as physically!! Everything is coming back into the shape worldwide even the graph of daily cases rises frequently. Corona, look people habitual to live with you too. What you think, if you come then we stop to live, to think, to stand and to rise? Maybe you forgot, we are human. Even when we dying, we left with our mark ups. Don’t think by consuming some lives, you won us. Yes, you scared us definitely, but that doesn’t mean we are lost. We Human meant to be fight back, not to give up! Maybe you should have to give up after so much trying of yours to threaten us. Did you forgot, the more you press the spring, double it responds?

Hope that dose is enough to encourage you, I know we all are passed through transformation phase, time is difficult so as we. Don’t let allow to know it (Corona), that we are scared from it. Actually, we aren’t scared from it though, we are scared from ourselves, from our future, right? Absolutely, the death of Sushant Singh Rajput reveals so many dark sides of the life. Success doesn’t matter at all, if you aren’t satisfied, if you aren’t happy, if you aren’t good. The idea of the today’s topic is quite relevant to that too. So, let’s move towards it.


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Experience, in simple terms when one practically, personally gone through some task, events or things, we called it by experience, right? Absolutely, we are. We all are experienced one, don’t get it? Your life is the best example, you live it, right? So, You have experience to live the life, in your own way or suggested one. The life is wholly depending on you that how you made it, how you build it, how you live it. You are the lone Constructor of your life.

Experience tells so much about ones, irrespective of matter, betters!! You know the little kid, without falling down, one didn’t know how to walk. Same happens with the adults too. If they can’t go through problems, they even didn’t know the real meaning of Success. Do You know the best teacher of Person, of Us? The Struggle, The Hard work, The Spirit to take the fight against all the odds are the professor of University at Human Behaviour and Psychology.

There can be also types of experiences too.

  1. Good Experience: – What you said about the good one? The experience in which everything happened good or relatively good is good experience. Like you had made planned to go solo trip. You make all the arrangement of yours for the trip and you successfully did it. That’s the good experience, right? Amm, no. Maybe you are wrong. You can’t do always good in all the way, even we people had problem with God too then after all we are human, how can be we perfect at all? There’s always something bad in Good experience too which later amended to be good. Like, in above example of solo travelling you may be lost your Watch, the one which gifted by your close one. But that doesn’t mean your whole trip is meant to be failed, your lost watch couldn’t outshine your joy, your success, your ability, your guts. That mistake could be rectified by the success of the journey!! After all that incident will stand by you when you narrate your first trip to someone in future.
  2. The Bad Experience: – We experience the good one or not, but we all are very familiar to bad experience. Right? Obviously, after all what we are today is just because of that. Bad experience taught us lot about people, events, opinions n our one lit mistake. Though this one is more important than to good one. Because it reveals the truth of world, of people and of yours. We all learnt from mistake, when these mistakes are gathered, it became Experience. We easily remember this too because after all who forgets the shit done with them so easily? The bad experience isn’t bad though, the one who strengthen up their feet will always turn the bad one into memorable one. The one who give up on situation will soon finds no way out.
  3. The Illustrative Experience: – The one who prefer to be practical in life will become role model for others. Their life story, their struggle, their tackling ideas, their dribbling skills to go past the problems became exemplary icon for others. Their practical knowledge becomes source of someone’s success, their chronology changed the life of applicant. Their thinking is crystal clear, either this way or that way but not to give up easily. People with this kind of experience had get control over their Crazy Mind, Emotional Heart and Bonding with Soul. 

So, the main thing is that experience matters at everywhere. In other Words, Experience is sounds Confidence Booster, don’t you find? Just understand it practically. You had given a task by someone to do something. In your very first time, definitely you are low in energy, in confidence, in skills, in everything. But as soon as you done it twice or thrice you get the idea behind the process. That’s enough, you are on right way. Even if you aren’t good in 10th attempt too, don’t be upset. You had learned something new, feel proud on that. In each n every attempt of yours, if you noticed, you do slightly better than your previous attempt. What’s that? That’s the experience, maybe you are slow but steady. Improvement, experience made it in yours, in your behaviour, in your sense of humour, in your talk, in your walk.

Each n every experience teaches something new and that’s what life meant to be. Just arrange the cards, your castle is inches away, made it concrete strong by your experience. It’s fully and wholly depends on us that how we consider it. Each experience learnt something new, teach something new. Though by bad one, people change their opinion and by good one, change their Decision. Thus, it’s matters for betterment, for improvement of one, who experienced it.

We all are New at something, at somewhere, at some point. If we assumed it to be wrong, then obviously it goes wrong. Always remember without making a step, you can’t succeed in jump! So, let’s First gain Experience, and then Apply the Experience.

Life is full of Experiences, each n every experience also different as well. The more you experienced, the more stories you have to share with your Grandchild. Make your experience acceptable, applicable. Help Newbies to teach and assist them via your experience. People without Experience is like Book without any Story…


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7 Things You Must Learn To Control in Time!!


Hello Folks, what’s up? Hope you all are good and well in health n wealth wherever you are. Corona, had done enough damages irrespective of Monetary, Non- Monetary. World Economy had been gone already down and we all soon finds it, that’s the monetary damage. The Non-Monetary damages, maybe it hit more than that of monetary ones. Stress, depression, anxiety, fear, future uncertainty and loneliness insist all us to think about us more n more. We could overcome from Monetary crisis but outshined our own self will ask more sacrifice from all of us.

Recently I came across through many people and many blogs, news that people had started assuming their respective lives in danger. And the main thing is that the youth affected badly due to this pandemic. The reason is very simple that they had fear of losing someone or themselves. Sounds weird but that’s the harsh truth of today. Many assumed that future will be uncertain but not this type of. Corona, made us all helpless but how can we forget that we are human. As far as our existence will be on this Earth, how can we remove hope within us? Maybe we are helpless but not hopeless. Will come up on this topic in next blog till that let’s move towards one more interesting subject of the day. So let’s start,


Today we are going to see which would get control for better future and for better us, hope this will find helpful to all of us. So, let’s Start,

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  1. Control your Emotions:Had you thought where we lose? No? Okay so here we go. We all know that we human are bundle of emotion and where there comes emotion between us, between our decision, between our choices, we start thinking from heart and there starts the real panic. We couldn’t control our emotions, not bad though but as said be emotional not emotional fool!! There are lots of people who is available to take advantage of your emotions, if you give them chance then they will definitely gonna piece you off. Consider both the opinion of Heart and Mind if you want to control anything, it gonna works. Lack of anyone will enough to destroy you, destroy your whole life. Show emotions, but never reveal what your Heart wants over your Mind.   
  2. Control Your Hunger:Hunger, not related to food only. There are so-so many types of hunger whether it’s of earning money, fulfilment of requirements, to be perfect in everything or of getting everything in quick succession, which one has to control in time. Greedy never satisfied their hunger as they remain always greedy. Always believe that your brain, has also some limit like your belly. The one who failed to get control on their hunger ness will always go half stomach. Even a life treasure isn’t enough to satisfy their hunger, often they ended up in satisfaction of others hunger; like hunter haunt down itself. Satisfaction is a big thing, if you jealous by someone then you ended up losing your lit hut in search of Mansion.
  3. Control Your Anxiety:Anxiety, how would you define it? Any guess? Yes, you are right. It’s the prediction of Future Danger but how can be you fool enough to ruined your today for that which not happened in reality? We all know well that the whole world is based on assumption, people had strong belief that tomorrow will come but who said that tomorrow will only bring bad? The Sun never forgets to shine in less or more manner then how can you forget to rise up? Did you forget that you are Human? Don’t think so, it’s obvious that we scared from danger but even in danger we aren’t meant to be lose every time. We would overcome from it, but only n only if you believe that Yes, I can do.
  4. Control Your Mind:There are plenty of thoughts playing in one’s head, in that small power house known as Brain. In those thoughts we don’t know when and how we started to forecast our life events so rapidly, ended up losing control on ourselves. It’s never easy task to control Mind as it does what it wants and did accordingly. The cycle is simple of your downfall. First you start assuming something which leads to overthinking, which leads to anxiety, which leads to stress, which leads to depression and finally leads you to there where you find one way, Give up on your life. Mind has power that forces you to do that which you actually don’t want to but as it’s not in your control you gonna follow it. So in time learn to control your Mind, before someone gets rid of it.
  5. Control Your Heart: – Off course, If you learn to control your Mind then how can you forget to control your Heart? At last each n every decision is parallel to this both, don’t you think? Look here too a cycle works, very first Mind thought something, then that thought goes towards Heart to know its concern. If it approve then mind works accordingly, but if it denies then, human body betrayal within itself. Heart, itself never took decision but enforced Mind to take the decision on behalf of it. Heart wants so much which is nearly Impossible, which n how many wishes you would able to complete of your Heart? If Mind is an Ocean of thought then Heart is Pond, which produce so many rays, so many ways.
  6. Control Your Spending: – Spend, we all like to spend on thing, right? Whether it’s off on Clothes, Accessories, Electronics, Shoes or others stuffs like that. But really you need that or just to fulfil your mule demands? Not saying or stop you to spend but alert you to navigate your budget. Looks every time isn’t the same, one should have to do some savings from their respective earnings, like this corona pandemic has learn so much about it. Emergency funds would always be there if something bad happens in all of a sudden. Don’t buy that which just fulfilled your requirement, instead of that invest your money and make more money from that money.
  7. Control Your Screen time: – Last but not the least, Learn to Control your screen time. Yeah, sounds crazy but you should have to control your screen time sooner. Your eyes had to tolerate so much just because of you. Had you seen a Blind people? Just try to blind fold for some time. Even 5 minutes you can’t imagine your life without your eyes then how can you punish your eyes like this? Give it proper rest time to time. The world is so beautiful but for that you need an eye. Had you thought though, what if you lost it just because of your own shit?

Bonus Tips, Control Your Words: – Yes, you read it right. You must learn to get control on your words. If not then Mahabharat is the best possible Example, the word enough of Draupadi for the War. One has to know that how to use, when to use, where to use and which to use otherwise your value will be like that which acceptable by all but not applicable at all. Rather than put weight on your action. Believe in to do, not just to speak. Speak less, show more. Made your work recognisable one, you don’t need an identity.


So that’s all for the day, Hope you all like it. Send your suggestion, thought, opinion, tips in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday, till then Tata, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!!

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I Can’t Be You, You Can’t Be Me!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are Healthy and well wherever you are. I think Corona couldn’t scare us more now, we all experienced the fear of it but now it’s time to fight back. Sounds crazy but that’s what one crazy person think about. We all resect it, in less or more by following the norms and routine precautions for at least 3 months. Really glad to be back again in work and comes to know about the value of freedom in more depth. Hope you all too, now know the real meaning of Freedom. After all who doesn’t love it?! We are Freebies, so obviously we love to roam freely but, on the other hand, we also love to capture beauty!!! Aren’t We?


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Anyways Let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Just wants to assure you all, if you read till the end you will never go upset by it. It not relates to any particular community, gender, group or something like that. It relates to us, Human. All of us, all living creatures, all the human being. So, are you ready for one more roller coaster ride for the today? So just first tell me, what you think from the title of the post? No idea? Okay. Don’t worry, that’s why I am here. Try to give you all the answer in this post.

So, Let’s first understand the first part of the post. i.e. I Can’t be You. We human always loves to copy others, Right instead of looking for our own Inspiration? Obviously, we find others Garden more Greenish than of ours, that’s human tendency. Don’t feel ashamed about it, there are so many who thinks the same. I am also like you, not the exception in this as well. But do you know why we do like to be like Others? Is it easy? Is it hard? You know it’s too, too, too hard to be like others.

We like someone then became fan of his/her. We changed our lifestyle, we started reconstructing ourselves and still we aren’t 10% of them. You know why? Because it’s of Nature. Nature of people never changed. For your information Nature and Behaviour both aren’t similar though. Nature is what actually comes out from your inner self, while behaviour, we changed it like seasons without any reasons. Behaviour is self-made, while nature is Natural like it said.

Is copying others are really easy? Not at all. May be you look like them, may be you live like them, may be you earn like them, may be you spend like them, may be you smile like them, all these possible but to change your nature, you need to forget who you are, which is slightly Impossible. Everything isn’t that simple as one thought. The way others answered, maybe you aren’t succeeded in that. The way others gain Attraction, maybe you failed in doing so. But the Question is Why You be Like others?

Are you not happy with your life? Okay. Then find your problems in your own way. Do Audit of yourself on regular basis. You find the answer within yourself, improve yourself, made some changes accordingly. Had you thought ever though, Why God Made Us Different from each other? If he/she wishes then they made us all same, it’s possible for them then why we constantly tried to prove them wrong?

If you want to follow/admire someone then Go and looks into Mirror. You know the best thing about the Mirror, Even Each n Every pieces of Broken mirror showed your Real and Whole face. Just simply denied yourself to observe someone, follow someone and judge someone. Utters regularly, I can’t be You. I’ll like to fall into my Pond rather than yours Ocean. We all are unique, so there must be some creativity inside us. Finds it and make it happen what you want to see in the World. Don’t be like World, Don’t be like People of the World, Be You.

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Now, Let’s move towards the next part of the topic. i.e. You can’t be Me. It’s not the opposite of the first part like many of you thought. What we want isn’t always necessary, we achieve it or let me say we succeeded in each n every attempt of ours. If something or someone isn’t yours then it’ll never be yours. People will gonna stretched that out from your hand by slap even if that in your reach, even if that in your possession. If something or someone is yours then it’ll be yours even millions of efforts of others wouldn’t stop you to succeed in your endeavour. What it means though?

That means we have learnt to satisfies ourselves. If something wants to go then allow them to leave, if something bad happened then forget it, but never enforced yourself to stuck with past event. Everything isn’t performed as you thought, as you plan, that’s what Life mean to be. Give up, many compared this act to it but hello guys wait. If we take 2 steps back then who said we are done, maybe it’s the real starting. The Rise of new You!! If you can’t be me then I’ll try to make it happen and tries fully to be mine, the spirit works more than your act. Maybe I’m fail, Maybe I’m Tired, Maybe I’m lost but Still I am Alive!! That’s enough to make a comeback, don’t you think?

We people often finds the reason of our Failures, don’t we? Absolutely we are. We just can’t sit and regretting all the time. Rather than to stuck with failure, get up and find alternatives. For example, You had assumes to score in football match but you ended up making an assist, which is almost equivalent to get on the scoresheet and to win the match. You can’t get the ball back into the net but you contributed to get the ball back into the net. Maybe Goal isn’t count in yours but how that Assist go unnoticed? Had you forgot even King is also nothing without it’s Troops?

So, intension is just to find the ways to celebrate, not directly then indirectly, not actively then passively, not by you then some of your acts, not you then someone of you. Always remember life never ends by leaving of someone. Believe If something happens then happens for Good.

If something or someone not belongs to you then never be upset. May be something good and better is awaits you. Never cry in little matters, be mature enough to let go things which isn’t in your control. Always believe and appreciate your soul, Yes I’d get better today than what I Yesterday.


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it. Send your suggestions, thoughts, opinion on today’s post in comment section. Will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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