We Are Dying Before We Are Trying!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are healthy and wealthy physically, as well as mentally. Mental peace is need of the hour, right? This situation is like each of us need counsellor who looks after us in every aspects, on behalf of us. How much one is strong enough, one is feel down when they have to face and defeat their own self!! Getting rid of it is easy but there we people who often made it complicated to go through. Here people are not at fault, completely, sometimes situation and luck also played their respective and pivotal roles in downfall of them. But still question raises, are you unable to tackle down the situation or the situation themselves are more challenging, which one had assumed to be?

Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. The little bit exciting and demanding one. All you got some idea by the title, that what we gonna talk about today, right? Yes, about failures, the other side of life. While discussing with Akshita, on some issues of life, finds it interesting to penned down this topic as many of us suffering from it and to apply half heartedly efforts, which is almost parallel to nullify efforts at all. So, let’s dive into this to get some positive vibes/energy to live the life fullest.


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We are Dying Every Single Second, We are Dying in Every Minute, We are Dying in Every Moment, before we are about start to something New, right? Don’t hesitant to confess it, even I am not except in this case. We are too curious and energetic in starting session but as soon as Sun starts to set, our confidence also start to sunk, right? Yes, definitely we lack confidence but how can one gets it without any attempt? Victory isn’t far from your Reach in beginning, it’s far when you think to give up on that idea in Mid way!!

As a Human we all in-need of something always, like always, that’s the human tendency whether you believe or not. Greed for good is always good and the attempts you gave to conquer it never went unnoticed. To give efforts is the first thing, one can focused before anything else, right? Yes, because if you aren’t prepared well mentally to show the guts, you’ll never back with smile on face. You, only happy if you feel from the bottom of your heart, because from the face no matter how much you pretend to be happy but somewhere your inner half isn’t stand by you at all, maybe you are satisfied by face but not by soul.

Life is not what you achieve from it, it’s all about how you create it. Mainly as we differentiate the people in 3 basic categories, Poor Class – Middle Class and Rich, we made it easy to recognise the people by their status, right? If we go deep down, there’s more class one can identified from it, higher middle class, lower middle class, backward class, impecunious and beggar. In fact, there’s no such class one can find, it’s only theory one blindly follows it. What’s your thinking about the lifestyle of the Rich? They eat good, wore good, looks good and? That’s all? Really? Think about it again, what Rich do that poor deny to do? What about work?

We all do the work as per our accordance, true? Obviously at last that are the source to fulfil our needs/requirement and belly. Have you observe the mindset of the billionaire of the world ever? Are the people who is Rich won’t work at all, did you think like that? Then be alert, very first, you must have to visit some doctor/counsellor as soon as possible. The truth is Wealthier suffer the most, because to reach at the top isn’t their goal, to stay on top is their ultimate goal. For that they have to take some decision, instantly and accurately. If they failed to do so, there would be bigger inverse impact on their business. There’s no point to give up on situation, if it’s unfavourable, then they tried to make it favourable one at any cost. To accept the defeat by giving an efforts is much better than not to appear for the attempt even.

To give efforts must be our sole motto, irrespective of the result. If you succeed there’s no one happy like you by doing so and what if you failed? Don’t worries if you can’t succeed you gain some experience/ formula to crack these types of hurdles, which definitely gonna assist you in your next attempt. Experience is the key to Success, if you failed to have it, you can’t simply differentiate between Success and Failure. For you Success is opposed of Failure and Failure is opposed to Success, where in reality it’s wide concept. Both term have their own chronology, the process, and the different outcome for sure.  

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Confidence, one simply can’t boost it, before they can practically used their hidden weapon. And what’s that? For that you have to write it down, at least 10 times, Yes, I can do this; whenever you feel like to give up on particular idea. Then fold that paper and put it in your wallet or there where you find it easily. Read it when you about to give up, it’ll never let you allowed to do so. It reminds you that you made the promise to do that, now you have no way out except to try again. Instead of to die with regret of not taking the chances, sounds better to die with satisfactory efforts that you give.

Look every coin has two a side, if one is for your opponent then the other would be sure for you, no doubt in that. You know, we all scarce one thing for sure, the confidence booster, while beginning, in mid-way and in finishing too. In beginning we scared to do something as we already new at somewhere, in middle of the path, we scared by the barriers we face, the upcoming hurdles and in finishing we scared of the result. In this whole process we dies so many times on regular basis, even one themselves doesn’t know about their DAILY DYING – DAILY CRYING before one confident TRYING.

You don’t need long lectures on motivation, hour long inspirational speech and all to try something. All you need is to have complete yourself with you, who can walk with you – side by side. To die is too easy, you know. There are many causes to die but there you have to find that one reason which never let you down, shut you down. Scared of Height? Scared of Water glitch? Scared of Evil? Scared of Dreams? All your scar are victorious if you are there, so does the new beginning. In eyes of World, you are alone, but you know you aren’t, make them believe you solely enough to make the changes, you saw, you follow.  

“Do not Die before You Try and Do not Try before You Cry, Cry after Try and Die after Try.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like this small dose of confidence booster. Share your viewpoints, suggestions, opinions and thoughts regarding today’s post in comment section will replied yoo soo over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tatta, BByee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!! Stay safe, Stay healthy!!

Topic for the Next Sunday: Gratitude is the Best Attitude!!

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20 thoughts on “We Are Dying Before We Are Trying!!

  1. You, only happy if you feel from the bottom of your heart, because from the face no matter how much you pretend to be happy but somewhere your inner half isn’t stand by you at all, maybe you are satisfied by face but not by soul.
    How much I relate to theese lines 💗💗💗💗
    Good one👏👏👏

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  2. “Do not Die before You Try and Do not Try before You Cry, Cry after Try and Die after Try.” loved these lines 👌👌👌

    I agree, with you Divyang, our life is what we create, we are most of the time afraid, we want it but fear about failures and leave halfway, but we forget that, it is not end and we should why we started, why we give it up halfway and all the hard work to goes in vain
    Do your work with sincerely, ok, the result is not what you want, but you still get something, the experience we can say
    And indeed, happiness is from within 😊😊

    Great post😊😊

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  3. A beautiful post with an impressive message. This life is all we have and we ought to make it count! Fear holds us down, but we must free ourselves of it and live.

    Thank you for this post. ❤️✨

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  4. So well penned up divyang. (And yes, thanks for the mention too😌🤭) but, I must say, they were surely your efforts lone.
    This one has come out as such a big inspiration booster.😁
    And obviously, the tag line you chose, dont die before you try, and dont try before you cry..! I loved that point.
    You are so right, actually, we should never give up on our efforts, no matter whatever do they cost us. We chose something, and now we have to remember that all through the path. And yes, that paper thing, I guess this is very much required though, we all need ourselves to remember us why are we actually doing something, or on the first note, why did we actually start that..!!! So, I really liked that paper idea…🤪 (sometimes its imp to remember us why our priority actually is, us, right??)
    Yeass, we really dont need someone to motivate us and anything, others can only come and say, it is who, who have to decide, whether to let it through our ear from the other side, or to light that inspiration within us from that very moment.
    All in all, such an encouraging one. I’m glad to give this a read 🙂
    Stay safe divyang.💜

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  5. How do you always find so catchy titles?!
    This blog is one of the best I read this week Divyang! 😊

    I agree that to give efforts is supposed to be our only motto initially without thinking what would be the result. There is no such thing as a failed person. You can learn from everything, especially the ones that go poorly. (I personally think so!) The magical moment of you getting the output for your trying will be there. All you need to do is start and keep doing.

    Such great reminders by you are so good to read. Keep it up Divyang! 😁

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  6. As always the simplest words made it all clear and it’s deeply felt.
    There is a request. “Can you write your views on how to deal with the past event, “coz sometimes it’s the only thing that keeps us stuck and sad. We die thinking about it! Is there any alternative?

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