ENTREPRENEURS: The New Age PROFESSION!! Part-6


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing well and good in your respective life. So this past week I experienced a new rising crime towards girls of this generation, a social harassment, have you came across or heard anything about the same? In fact, it’s more surprising that the platform like LinkedIn isn’t safe at all. Yes, you are witnessing the Hard truth of today’s world. In last week, I went through almost every single day that most of the girls were getting some pathetic demand in DM on LinkedIn. Like seriously, it is not only vulgar but insane demand of such a crazy people. I don’t understand how one can be so shameless and demand like that, even you don’t know that girl(s). A campaign was running towards this, to stop social harassments! Isn’t it sound weird? What you say?

Anyways let’s have a quick eye on major news updates from the past week around the corner! In Myanmar a 7 year old girl was shot dead in ongoing protest against the government, becomes youngest victim! In Niger, 137 dead in village attack near Mali. The former US president Donald Trump is about to launch his own new social media platform soon. Pakistan PM Imran Khan Tested Positive, just after the day he took doze of Chinese Vaccine. New “Double Mutant” COVID variant found in India. Kenya orders closure of two refugee camps, gives ultimatum to UN Agency. Britain’s Queen delighted at birth of 10th great grand child. It was First time in 900 years, sleeping volcano erupts in Iceland, crowd flock to Iceland volcano for closure glimpse of Lava.


So in previous session we came across different kind of people and strategy adopted by them in achieving their goal, right? We understood each and every aspect of it very well, isn’t it? So can you able to find out, who you are? Which group are you belongs to? No, no. Don’t look anywhere, I am talking about you. Yes, you. Because You know better yourself than anyone else who you are and what you want to be, so whom you wait for this long? Get up, now it’s your time to make the change in the world. For how long, you would be dependent on another? Even the bird who wants to fly, must learnt to fly first, otherwise there is no use of its wings. So today we are going deeply assess the situation of risk in the session later on. But before that if anyone who had by any of the reason missed the last sessions, please go through links mentioned below:


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So yeah today We are going to talk about a risk one may definitely came across during their journey to be an entrepreneur. As said Risk is nothing but a ability to overcome from particular situation successfully by assuming all the factors, pros and cons of the same. Apart from that risk also shows how much a people is optimistic to take it, and subsequently adopting specific precautions to mitigate it. Always remember risk can never be avoided, either it can be mitigated or can be controlled in more/less manner. Though it’s not wrong to say that risk can never be control by human being.

What is Risk? It can be defined as a “Situations or Conditions which are neither in control of people, place or party of the particular transaction.” All one can do is to take necessary steps to reduce it. It is said that there are always risk in everything, right? But does that mean that there is only a risk and no return at all? A big No. If there is risk then one can always expect a return from it. Not guaranteed return but a systematic approach towards execution of plan will definitely generate something for people. Bit difficult to understand? Don’t worries at all, we will take one appropriate illustration and try to find out the meaning of it.

Life. People said that Life is full of risk, okay? Absolutely Life has so many risk. In fact, Life itself is a big risk. How? We’ll never know what and which kind of issue is awaiting for us. Life is being so unpredictable at the time and literally no one would never gets a chance to react in time. The people who reacted in time often considered as an Expert, known as Risk Analyst. Though it can’t be said that they can be able to avoid risk. The only thing they can do better in comparison to others is that they can Analyze the whole process of risk and find out the way to make best out of Risk, more or less parallel to return.

So have you heard anytime that people who finds risk in their life, left their life? In very less scenario that could be possible. Besides all the risk, they are tried to live the best of their life. Not just best life but also try to make best out of their life in any possible manner. Above all they are enthusiast enough to break down any barrier of their path. They are scared in first sight but they are fueled which keeps them on the right direction. Sometimes they also becomes too much aggressive and just because of that they are able to survive till last. In exchange they are rewarded with a life treasure.

“From HOW to NOW and From NOW to WOW!!”

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As said fate also supports them who are courageous to step out from their comfort zone. It never helps coward because coward neither knows the comfort zone and nor the limit of it. If somehow he/she tries to shattered down their comfort zone, they often falls down in the trap of heart heartedly efforts. And that’s create more trouble for them rather than helps. There is one rule of risk that one can never be under or overestimate the Risk factor. If you want return, then expect a loss first. Because to get something in return, it never comes free.

The same lies for the Entrepreneurs as well. There is wide of scope of risk in this field, instead of return and one can’t ignore the said truth. Often it seems that Risk brings more Return. Because as soon as Entrepreneurs identifies the possible areas of risk they becomes more defensive in that and adopts offensive steps for long term. They can’t afford short term benefits in shake of aggressive approach for short term. As their vision is for long term goal, they try to avoid such mistake as there is very small margin of error. They can override the short term benefit as they know they can recouped it in later stages if established well.

There will be chance of Return if there is a Risk factor. Because Risk and Return, both are side of coin. One just tossed it up and hope that it’ll be in their favor. But at the same time, it’s not easier as think, no doubt luck plays a major role but How can be one so much optimist that it will be in their favor only? What if it goes wrong? That’s the risk. You never know what will be final outcome, all you can do is just to give an efforts in right direction while considering all the possibilities whether favorable or adverse. You can be decisive but only and only you know the right decision making!!

There’s a solution of Risk apart from mitigating the same. Just assume a lit bit risk from now and reshaped yourself in that position. By doing so, You can able to live the future, in present. Not tough and at the same time not easy to execute. If one failed to measure the risk, maybe it bluffed the whole game and enough to ruined your plan consequently. Patience and persistence creates a magic and that works best for entrepreneurs. Often they find to expect risk in short position rather than expect return in short position and vice a versa.

“Uncertainty of Surety is Risk, Uncertainty of Purity is Risk!!”


So that’s all for the day. Please don’t skip any part of the Series, ENTREPRENEURS: The New Age Profession. There’s so much for you all. Just try to think in different ways. Don’t hesitate to put your idea forward because the World of Today won’t wait for the late comers. So be on Time and Catch the Right Train at Right Time. Otherwise if you missed the Train, then maybe there’s a No Train then after. Send all your thoughts, suggestions, recommendation and opinion regarding today’s post in Comment section, will reply you soon over there. See you all next Sunday till then Taata, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz! Stay Happy, Keep Smiling!!!

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ENTREPRENEURS: The New Age PROFESSION!! Part-5


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well in your respective life. Some days ago I’d thought that Now in couple of months we’ll be in normal as we are before last March but feel really pity to make this kind of request to you all. Maybe COVID and People of the earth are too much in love with each other. We doesn’t want to let it away from us and on the other hand COVID, also loves to roam here on the earth. Isn’t it? Joke apart, but like seriously we all people are equal and sole responsible for whatever happens right now in the world. Why we people don’t understand that there are really few precautions we blindly have to follow whether we like it or not. But no, we want to roam, that too without any precaution, is it really necessary to go outside (Expect in some emergency)? If we take it for granted then really if COVID will become insane paramour of us, then it’ll going to be very difficult for us to deal with it. And after all Who like to have beloved like that? Please stop all your outing if not urgency, by doing that you’ll going to do such a kind act and that’ll definitely noted down in the right hand side of your balance sheet. Consider it as request or plea.

Anyways let’s have quick eye on major updates of the from the past week. COVID become ruthless again and started havoc of it gradually. Brazil records hike in daily cases and so does the rest of the world. Dutch PM Rutte claims fourth term in election win. Spain has passed a law to legalise euthanasia, becoming just fourth country in Europe to allow people to end their own life in certain circumstances. Tanzania’s Samia Suluhu Hassan about to make history as first Female President of the country after death of John Magufuli. NASA reveals first sounds of perseverance rover driving on Mars. At least 58 killed by gunmen on motorcycles in Niger. Biggest sandstorm in a decade turns Beijing skies yellow. North Korea ignores US offer for talks, citing its hostile policy. Real Madrid make it to the Last 8 for the record breaking 33rd time in Champions League and only team from Spanish top flight to make it to Quarter Finals of this year.


Till now we have completed 4 sessions of the series, Entrepreneurs: The New Age Profession. Don’t know really that how many sessions are still left there, but one thing is sure that it’ll cover major aspects of the life alongside the challenges one will going to face in the path of becoming an ENTREPRENEUR. Sometime a small effort is enough to build a strong community. Isn’t it? Absolutely, Sometimes we just scared to execute something which often opens up so many doors for the proceedings. So today we will see how failure works as a hidden boon for Entrepreneur. But before that, anyone who by any of the reason missed the previous session kindly visit the following links for sneak peak of our lessons we learned till now,

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2021/02/21/entrepreneurs-the-new-age-profession-part-1

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2021/02/28/entreprenuers-the-new-age-profession-part2

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2021/03/07/entrepreneurs-the-new-age-profession-part-3

https://bedvyang.wordpress.com/2021/03/14/entrepreneurs-the-new-age-profession-part-4


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Who does like failure? After all we are meant to WIN, right? Absolutely we are made to Win, but the term, we had exaggerate in some or other manner. In this world, if you going to ask anyone, what would you like to be, an Ordinary Men with an Ordinary Dreams, an Extraordinary Men with an Extraordinary Dreams or an Ordinary Men with and Extraordinary Dreams? What is common in all 3 terms here, can you able to find it? The Word ORDINARY, right? That means you have to start with bare hands and gradually raise your efforts in predetermined directions. As we saw, “ORDINARY” term is Mandatory in all situation, one can also say that without Losing one can’t Win. One has to face failure first then and only then they can able to taste Success.

Basically there are 3 types of Human in this world as mentioned above. The Ordinary one, whose Dreams are also ordinary like their life. They scared to break down the box and at the same time refuse to go outside of that box. They are seems like Satisfactory people. Less is enough for them and they won’t go hard to achieve their dreams if they failed in something. They simply give up and starts believing that it’s their destiny, that’s all. In addition to that due to their raise in that kind of atmosphere, no one, literally no one comes to them, to boost their confidence, because they all are same by heart, just a dissimilarity of face.

Then there comes an Extraordinary Human with their Extraordinary Dreams. They are exactly contrary to Ordinary Human. Where Ordinary Human believes there will be no Days anymore, Extraordinary Human Comes to their Rescue, to make them believe that yes, There will be Day, and I, You, We all are going to witness the same. Why to give up when we have not actually started yet? They are analytical people who had strong belief that they can find some clues if they are able to reach its root. They start their efforts in that way and anyhow able to find the solution from it. They are Ordinary but their extra efforts and positive result made them Extraordinary People with an Extraordinary Dreams.

“Think Out of the Box, If you can’t, then Think about the Box!!”

Finally Comes the Human Who broken many times, but still looks Pretty in Pieces due to their inner Beauty. Maybe they are broken badly by Outer self, but their inner self is still energetic, enthusiast and optimist to fight against any adverse condition/situation of the life. They aren’t Unbreakable but they trained themselves to mussel every tussle, either tactically or technically. They are Ordinary and Simple looking but their dreams are as high as to reach SKY. Even though they aren’t able to reach to SKY, at least they gain experience of Flying. And as said Falling Doesn’t matter if you already know how to handle yourself and how to direct in oppose wind.

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The Difference is quite genuine here. In first case we saw that People who plays less risky game often ends up less, nearest to ZERO. Because they are raise in ordinary situation, where the thinking of all people are same. Instead of to motivate someone, they try to pull their leg and enforced them to group with them. Mob tries their best, that no one from group leave them. One thought prevailing there, “They are for Mob and Mob is for them.” Nothing else than that and Nothing More than that. If you are born Poor then believe you will be Poor till your Death. But how much fair that if you won’t give them wings to fly and idea to follow?

In Second case, we saw that People who gamble everything to achieve, succeed in Short term but in Long term they will face some kind of issues. If we formulate Extraordinary People = Extraordinary Dreams, then Extraordinary(People=Dreams). That means the formula of success is dependent on that people and dream they saw. Because the effect of Extraordinary is already nullified. Too much Offensive strategy leads them to forget about Defense. In that case, one will be in two opinion, either to go for Ordinary Life with Extraordinary Dreams or Extraordinary life with Ordinary Dreams. Majority of the people ends up with second option. i.e. Extraordinary life with Ordinary Dreams.

The third case, the most impactful and fruitful in among all. Yeah it will ask many typical questions at regular time, but for Ordinary People who are ready to propose extraordinary efforts can crack them strategically. They calculate the return factor in happening of particular risk. They know it won’t going to easy for them when they are Ordinary and expects no support from others as well. But they used the same as weapon. They know they have “X Factor” in form of their Dreams. The extraordinary dreams. The dream they saw in an open eye. And as said,

“Dream saw in an Open Eye isn’t Just Dream, It is Life.”

Many People Separate in two ways that Entrepreneurs’ can’t be segregated in these terms, but they are. Because to start something, one need a proper vision and how that vision comes? By Dreaming, right? So why not it can’t be divided into above mentioned term? Yeah, no doubt, the situation of human themselves or issues they have faced till now, guide them to do something Unique, an ultimate solution which possibly affects the life of current generation and upcoming generation.

As far as your Vision will be Clearer, there’s nothing in the world which stops you to move ahead. One will be automatically on the way of WINNING, once they start facing Failure/Issues/Problems. It encourage people to do something, with right efforts in right manner. There maybe many issues in the world but who said that Solution isn’t there though? You don’t have to pick each and every opportunity, you have to pick an appropriate one and same should be followed till the final Destination.

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So that’s all for the day. Please don’t skip any part of the Series, ENTREPRENEURS: The New Age Profession. There’s so much for you all. Just try to think in different ways. Don’t hesitate to put your idea forward because the World of Today won’t wait for the late comers. So be on Time and Catch the Right Train at Right Time. Otherwise if you missed the Train, then maybe there’s a No Train then after. Send all your thoughts, suggestions, recommendation and opinion regarding today’s post in Comment section, will reply you soon over there. See you all next Sunday till then Taata, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz! Stay Happy, Keep Smiling!!!

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Set a Limit of Your Anger!!!


Hello guys, what’s up? hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this world. As we are heading towards the restart the rest proceeding of our life, after COVID pandemic, good things started taking place. For me, Institute Schedule to resume the offline classes from tomorrow, I got the little bit exposure in the field of content writing along with some bucks, Granny is also back to home after suffering a heartache and Pulmonary edema last week. It’s not easy to cope with so many things at a time but as a Human we can’t do anything against the law of nature and maybe it’ll remind us each and every time when we omit the said truth that Yes, We are just a HUMAN!! No more than that, No less than that. When we try to forget it, God Knocked the door of us in disguised and we reckon it as an Problem of the Life aren’t we? Rather we all knew the Truth, we try to amend it by false sympathy. So just always remember, We are Human, that’s all!

So before starting the topic of the day, let’s have an eye on major news around the World from the past week. On Sunday, near Chamoli area of Uttarakhand in India, a glacier burst, near 50 were dead and more than 100 are missing, rescue operation is still under way on sixth day. New Zealand imposes lockdown in Auckland after 3 new local cases of the virus. Powerful earthquake rocks Fukushima, Japan on Saturday and reminds the massive quake of 2011. China refused access to key COVID data for WHO and also tries to break down into the Japanese Territory like they did in India. The Couples around the World is celebrating Valentine’ Day in most fascinated ways. DR Congo reports 3 Ebola Cases. Microsoft approach Pinterest about a possible takeover. In Football, Bayern Munich beat Tigres to win the FIFA Club World Cup, overall claiming their 6th Title of the year.


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Anyways now let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day of our Sunday School!! The subject matter is quite relevant to all of us, right? That’s what one can simply assume it from the title of the post! Anger, we all gets angry on some kind of things or when someone tries to tease/ irritate/ frustrate us, neither we? Absolutely that’s what we human are made of. The Emotion of Happiness, Sorrow, Sympathy- Empathy, Anger ness, Calmness and Patience. As we all knows that opposition is always there for everything, For Good there’s Bad, For Light there’s Dark, For Sky there’s Land, For Success there’s Failure and so does for Happiness there’s Anger ness too, right? We got angry on little issue and upset our mood, in which later on we regret too but can anyone try to find out the solution of anger ness here or even give a single attempt to control it. Anyone? No, right? That’s what we are going to learn today from scratch, so let’s start!

Angry, so what is the actual meaning or definition of it? When People have some or other kind of expectation from other people in any mode (either Direct or Indirect) and when those person not fitting in the assumption of that people or incurs some kind of loss (either Monetary or Non- Monetary) to that people, whether intentionally or unintentionally, the people who found someone at fault, for that loss often ends with some hard words on them and ditching out the conversation in between without attempting to given a chance of being heard. Technically there’s no any profound meaning of the word, Anger ness but it is also varied by the people, by the event and by the circumstances. Anyone can be angry on anyone but you know the irony here is that sometimes a simple prank goes wrong and leads to permanent divorce between the friends/people.

It is said that one can only be angry on someone if he/she cares much of you than you do of yours, is that right? Then why the situation like Separation, break up and Divorce is there? Is the understanding between the people isn’t strong or mutual consent of bonding is weak, don’t know. Though one thing is clearly identical that the one who really care others can never try to dominate others by raising their voice. It’s a pure sign of dominance or say insanity. It shows that he/she will definitely try to suppressed your voice and not provide a single chance to others regarding understanding the perception of counter part or the situation they went through. Rather they only focus their opportunity cost. (the loss they incurred by assuming the slight profit.) Many studies prove that the small quarrel often starts with a misunderstanding between the people and gradually one of them start losing control on themselves, raise their voice and do unnecessary(Violent) act which leads to separation.

Although Do you know when we People are angry on something/someone then what they can do? Or on which limit will one go in Anger ness? The question might sound silly or foolish but there we lost the path. We even don’t know the limit of our Anger, right? Absolutely, we don’t. We act as per the situation without anticipating the consequences of Slight over reaction on some issue. When we don’t know limit of ourselves then we can’t say we are in control of ourselves. We are handcuffed of our misconception. We are handcuffed of our own Emotion barrier. We are handcuffed of our failure to get control on ourselves. We are handcuffed to false belief that we are right by agreeing on someone because fault is that people. But how can you judged yourself right even if not giving a chance of being heard to others?

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See, there’s no wonder that sometimes people lost control due to adverse situation or condition of their life’s roller coaster ride but how much that fair, to not apologize for your mistake later on? Are you not Guilty? Why you not shown a grit – courage to go after people and explained them calmly about what’s going on in your life rather than to scream and scarp them out? Study also proves that The BOSS, who often habitual to raise their voice on their employee not much likeable among the people he/she surrounded with. At the time all will going to left him/her due to maintain the self respect. Self respect is the big thing in corporate culture, and ethics works there perfectly.

If you aren’t want to break your business ethics then how would you expect that employees works for you will break their ethics either? Always remember Employees aren’t works under you, they are work for you, for your company/organization! Look you paid them for their work not to hear your bullshits. The successful leader is the one who understand the employees, their situation, their difficulties and try to figure it out in mean time. They can raise their Voice to encourage people, How’s the Josh? Rather than screaming loudly Did you get it? You know some changes you have to brought in, how long would you stuck to some old and rigid ideas and practices?

The same goes in the personnel life as well. All can present their views and opinions. In fact it’s not wrong to say that we all have assumed that anger ness is our life long right. We completely misconceptualize it. Look Anger ness is necessary as we are human being but we have to measure it that how deep one will go in that mood? There’s always limit of everything and once you find that you are about to breach that LOC (Line of Control), try to stop yourself from doing that. The problem of every people is that they will find the escape by putting their anger on someone else. It’s never been a solution. People says that LOVE is Blind, but No. Love isn’t Blind, People becomes blind when they are angry. They can’t able to identify that who is Right and who is Wrong, What is Good and what’s Bad? That happens because we are Blind even we have an eye to see.

Once we able to Identify the limit of our anger ness, we can start controlling it but for that one has to recognize what angers them and what kind of ideas play in their mind in that particular situation? Always keep in mind Anger ness should be temporary one, don’t count it in your permanent behavior. Once you find out some valid reasons of Anger ness, find counter attacking strategy. Think what limit would you breach in your Angry Mood? It’s possible but only if you try! What would do the worst in Temper? Would you Kill Someone? Would you Harm/Hurt Someone badly? Would you Destroy the Career of them? Or Would you Control yourself? Just try to find out those answer, you’ll definitely find best solution to get over of you anger!!

“Anger ness is the New Management Subject”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like the concept. Put down all your thoughts, suggestions, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section will soon replied over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz! Stay Safe, Keep Smile!!

Topic for the Next Sunday: Entrepreneur, The New Age Profession!!

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Problems: The Amended Version of Failures!!


Hello Guys, What’s up? Hope you all doing good and well wherever you are in this world. A big virtual high 5 by my side from India. So, let’s first start with the news from the last week before deriving to the subject matter of the day. Greta Thunberg, Rihanna and some other lawmakers from the UK and US comes to the support of Farmer who Protesting against the Government of India regarding implementation of Amended Farmers Bill Act. Facebook suspends Israeli PM Benjamin Netanyahu linked chatbot for breaking its privacy rules. Myanmar blocks Twitter Instagram for undisclosed period. Iran’s Foreign Minister Mohammad Javad Zarif urges Joe Biden to return to nuclear deal. Russian man drinks 1.5 Liter Vodka on livestream and dies as views watch in horror. Iran conducted surgical strike in Pakistan, frees border guards held by Baloch terrorists. The price of a Bitcoin is staggering high and traded nearing to 40K Dollars!! So that’s all from the news of the week.


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting subject of the day. The topic of the day is lit bit related to all of us, and maybe many of us come into contact of it on day to day basis. In fact it’s nothing wrong to say that we all face it in more or less manner in our respective life, right? Yes, so the topic of the day is Problems or Say Issues of life, of us, Human. As said earlier we human may have many problems in the life but that’s what the life is meant to be. Without Problems one can’t progress in their life, they all stopped as it is and never thought about the solution of it. So the Problem isn’t Problem it is hidden boon which often unveiled the path of opportunity, the path of conqueror which finally leads us to the path of Success!! So let’s start from the scratch and understand the True and Whole meaning of Problem.

Problem, How can one going to Define it? Think, think from the depth of your mind. Which Condition or Situation will leads you to the Problem? Or say How can you identify the Problem you are faced? Is there any way? NO? Yes? These are some very basic Question if you really faced Questions like these while you stuck in some queries or issues of life, right? Look it’s very easy to say that I am facing the problem(s) in something while attempting it but if you really don’t know what kind of Problem you are facing then how can you identified that? How can you assess that and How can you mitigate that? This is important to know because many of us really don’t know the chronology behind the process of Problem. If one really know the whole process then he/she will definitely finds some solution of it.

Let us assume that we have Problem in everything, right? Yes absolutely. If we don’t find solution or possible answer of some query/problem then we just put it into the bucket of an Issue. Rather to solve the problem we wait of someone to solve it on behalf of us, right? Yes, we all do. In fact We are feared to give the efforts, and the irony is we even don’t think about the result. Efforts are enough to scared us!! Though do you know Why it scared us? Yes, it scared us because we don’t even completely understand where we are going? Where we are facing problems? Where we left the loopholes? Where we loose the grip? These question itself sounds horrible. Isn’t it? If No, then try to answer it whenever you are stuck somewhere. The one who don’t know the answer we’ll go through it.

Problem is nothing but a lower of confidence in one to attempt something by just assuming the false consequences about the same. When we people are pessimist to do something, there are chances that they were back with bare hands. When Problems creates in anything or say facing problem, we people often becomes defensive and start thinking to amend the path or left it in mid way. Why we become Pessimist or Defensive? If Problem arises then definitely there’s some way out. One can’t simply say that Just because of the Problem Occurred, he/she left something/someone. Is that the solution?

“Don’t ever try to Amend Problem to Failure, Try to Amend the word Solution to Success!!”

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Half hearted efforts always brings bad result. If you done by any doubt in Mind then maybe there’s some chances that you were able to find the way out but if you done by any doubt in Heart then there’s 99% chances that you were back with sad face. Did you able to find the difference here? Okay let’s understand. When you are deciding to do something by Mind, then it execute it in its inner side and ready to take some calculated risk whereas when you are deciding to follow heart then it will only implement the decision by blind/fake emotions. It will never calculate any risk factor and there starts the propaganda. If you can’t able to assess your risk then how can you going to identify problem you are facing?

Problem isn’t the Problem if you closely observe the spell of it. Problem is only there if you won’t be able to find the solution of it. Look if Day is there then there’s night too. If White is there then Dark is also present there. If Good is there then Bad also exist in between it. If God is there then no doubt the Evil is also there. The same way if Problem is there then definitely there is some solution of it. Opposition is the New Law of Nature. We can’t say that Problem stopped us, How can Problem stop us to do something? Isn’t it sound weird? Instead it looks more appropriate We are stopped because of Problem. We are scared to confess that we are facing problem and subsequently finds the solution of the same. If you left something because you feel that it’s not your cup of tea then which cup would you like to have? A Cup of Poison? A Cup of Humiliation? or A Cup of Satisfaction after giving a courageous effort to make some steps towards the query you face, to resolve it?

Problem, just mind it, You are handcuffed of your own. There’s no one who can stop you unless and until you stop your own. You faced the Problem and soon you became defensive to change the way instead of trying to go out to its root. Have you give efforts to find out the actual query? No, right? We feel that we can’t do that, if we do then problem arise and we Failed. So don’t you think we had just Amend the word FAILURE with a word Problem? Absolutely see, because of Possible fall out we ready to change the way. We can’t always run just because we face Problem. It’s not the solution. And let us just assume if we decided to run away every time then how far we will go? Are we either trained to in Marathon? So what will be the solution of it?

There is so many solution of it, depending on the Problem you are facing. But let’s start by the Problem itself. First try to identify what is the Problem you are facing? Then give efforts to recognize why problem arises? Is there anything to improvise in yourself or in the attempts you are giving in continuous flow. Then assess the factors affecting your efforts like Risk factor, Thinking Process, Opinion Matters, Decision Making or Procrastination of your own. Find possible way out by implementing mind tricks and effective strategy. Then try alternative ways to lend on some specific solution of your query in quantum. Pick a right solution from it and then apply the same in the real issues. So that’s all, Your Problem is solved. It’s not that much tough or easy. Queries should be there to Improvise Ourselves otherwise what will be the difference between us and others?

“Problem isn’t Problem. It’s Just Opposite to Solution. Try to Find out Solution rather than to Focus on the Query!!”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like the content of the day. So here we conclude the topic of our Sunday School of the day. Mentioned all your memorable moments if you find something relatable. Your all thoughts, Opinion and Suggestions are welcomed in the Comment Section, share it without any hesitation. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!! Stay Safe, Keep Smiling!!

P.S. Always Remember, “Don’t be a Problem yourself, in Finding out the Solution of Problem.”

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If You are RIGHT, then it Doesn’t mean Others are WRONG!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you are doing good and well wherever you are. One month has been passed of 2021, anything new happen to you or start something new recently? For me it’s good start of the year. I’d just completed 2 Months as a Content Writer with Online College Reviewing Company. Study is going well and also done some Online certification courses pertaining to my study background, i.e. Accounting. So in short life is gradually getting back on track. Good time will definitely come if you are able to survive from bad time. Still there’s a long way to go, can’t expect a good time always. Life should be mixture of it which we can experience through many good and bad moments, memories of it, right?

Now turning back to weekly news around the corner from the past week. The incumbent Portugal President Marcelo Rebelo de Sousa reelected for the second term to serve as a President. Peru Orders Lockdown due to emerge rising of the Cases, Possible Threat of the second wave. While on the hand Lockdown in the England set to last until at least March, indicates PM Boris Johnson. Space-X set a record by launching 143 satellites on a single shot with latest Falcon 9 Mission. India Celebrated its 72nd Republic Day on 26th January. Italian PM resigns over handling of COVID crisis. Nepal Supreme Court summons PM Oli in Contempt cases. Poland is nearing to implement Total-Ban on Abortion. Estonia Becomes the first country which is Led by Female Prime Minister and Female President at the same time.


” The more You believe Only You can be Right, Ready for being Wrong;

On every Single Second, Every Single Minute and on Every Single Passing Moment”

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Anyways now let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. The title is enough to convey that what will be the subject matter of the day, isn’t it? Okay so what you understood by the term Right and Wrong? Right is that which isn’t Wrong and Wrong is that which isn’t Right, right? In simple terms it is correct, without an argue because We don’t need Proof for Right, We need Proof to Prove Wrong!! The irony of Truth is that it consist the word Ruth in its spell. And what about Wrong? Any guess? We will go through it sooner from its root and understand the whole process.

So before we could Start the topic let’s better understand the term RIGHT and WRONG. The definition of Right and Wrong can be differ by People to People, Place to Place and Time to Time. So may be it is varied by the People, Place, Price, Time and Consequences. There is no any fix definition for the abovementioned duo terms though one can be defined it as, “The Things which are Proven Correct by all the means, following all the manners in the books of law, irrespective of the how much suffer others will be, by judging something true, later on leading to some outrageous consequences can be termed as Right.” As mentioned earlier it can be differ and depends on the understanding of one. Right isn’t just right but many also believes it to be the RIGHT of Life. When someone pronounce right, it generates three or more meaning altogether. It creates hype and curiosity at the same time but let it be as it is.

The Second Term, WRONG, how can one identify that something is wrong? There is only one way, you know what is that? We can’t recognize the wrong unless and until we don’t do/face something False or Experience something wrong. This is the fact that you can’t say that you can’t be Wrong, because you haven’t sufficient proof to justify your thought. Here Proof works/trust more than the people to prove wrong a FALSE. If somehow one is able to even prove that, then the next propaganda takes place Does WRONG can be RIGHT or RIGHT can be WRONG? Is it really possible? How it is Possible? Why it is Possible when Truth is Proven True and Wrong is also Proven True? SO the Answer is Yes. All is possible, between the fight of True and False, Right and Wrong, Correct and Incorrect.

How many of you have consider the opinion of others while planning or organizing something? Many of you, right? But how many of you have successfully executed the same in real life? Very few, right? Yes, Absolutely when we talk about real life experience we all become defensive in more or less manner and planned accordingly which is possibly going to best for us, for the people surrounding to us. Though this isn’t wrong or unethical but to ignore the importance of others completely, isn’t it sound half hearted efforts? Okay, when we ignore the opinion of others? So the answer is, When they are outsider or say when they are betrayal/traitor one or say when they are too Offensive. Any other reason to leave the opinion of them? Maybe there are and maybe there is no other reason except the above.

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“If you are Right then Don’t Change the People Who are Wrong;

Just Try to Change the Perspective.”

Corporate World, Political Cold Wars and Local House Ministry(among family members), are some of the places where conflict of decisions or opinions generally takes place in direct or indirect manner. In Corporate World, Higher Management often ignore the importance of Lower level or say give very less importance equivalent to almost null. They took the decision and inform the employees of their Company or Organization. In Politics, Party Member who have some connections to progress ahead in his/her career joins the other Parties and may betray the current party for another. Everyone focuses on the betrayal of that member but no one really cares or gives an attempt to know what reasons led him/her to that? In Local House Ministry (Among Family Members), everyone is busy now a days that they couldn’t spare some time for their own Family. Everyone in Family founds other busy with someone/something. Sometimes it becomes the sole reason to fall for another. A small quarrel leading to the downfall of them.

In all the above 3 situations one thing is common among them, did you find it? The lack of Importance and Understanding. In Corporate World, if Manager communicate the feedback of employees to higher management and if higher management consider it in time then they can survive for long for sure. If current party consider the importance of party member then maybe he/she won’t betray. In Family, rather to find excuse of each other, if one had try to understand each other, they can find solution for it. Everyone feels that there is no mean to stay, even if they are right in all the manners and have right to be there. When one is try to succeed by overriding the VALUE of others then they just forget that the actual PRICE will be paid by themselves, not by the one who went.

Look, True doesn’t mean that it will be Correct for the all. One have to Consider the opinion of others and execute them in mean time, in most effective manner so that the Interest of all the stakeholders will be safeguarded. One can’t be selfish enough to ignore such a fact that collective strength prove too strong for the any opposition. If you left any loopholes by doing so then it will have definitely some disastrous result. Maybe you are Right in your Way, but how can you just put a full stop or question mark on others perspective? The leader isn’t that who finds the solution of query, Leader is the one who utilize the power of collective efforts. Because he/she knows that it will sure generates some output sooner or later. One must have to learn to trust others, have respect others’ point of view and joins them in the decision making. This works and works efficiently.

“You are Right, then Others also have RIGHT to be Right!!”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like the content of the day and more than that the topic of our Sunday School. Mentioned all your memorable moments if you find something relatable. Your all thoughts, Opinion and Suggestions are welcomed in the Comment Section, share it without any hesitation. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!! Stay Safe, Keep Smiling!!

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LIKE is the More UNLIKEABLE Now!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this world. Let’s start from the main events of the past week. Joe Biden had started new chapter of his life, as a 46th US President, also becomes just a second catholic President after John F Kennedy. Along with Him, Kamala Harris also becomes the First South Asian Vice President of United States. India beat Australia is most famous way by conquering the fortress of Gabba, retained the Border- Gavaskar Trophy Successfully. No fall in COVID-19 infection, even though strict lockdown in the UK. Some study proves that the Scientist of Wuhan lab, had been bitten by the Bats, later on leading to spreading the infection in the world. A suicidal attack in Baghdad, after 3 years at least killed 32 people. Indian Share market first time breached the ceiling of all time high 50K Points. Chinese multi billionaire Jack Ma appears for the first time since last November, after accusing/ alleging the Chinese Government. Sri Lanka reopens for tourist after 10 Months.


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day, of our Sunday School!! Any guess? What we are going to talk about today? No? Alright, we’ll soon discuss it in depth. So how many of you using the Social media? Almost all of you, right? So let’s amended that question to how many of you aren’t available on Social media platform? Very few, right? We can say that we all are surrounding with so Social Media platform, such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, WhatsApp, LinkedIn, Pinterest, Snapchat, etc. but forget to act Socially. Isn’t it? The topic of the day is the outcome of structural thinking process of my mind when sometimes ago I read that Facebook/Instagram will disable like button from it due to some really logical and sensible reasons. So before start putting opinion here let’s start from the roots itself.

FACEBOOK, the very first Social Media of the Modern Day or say the Revolution of Social Connecting. In February, 2004 a University going Student namely Mark Zuckerberg along with other Harvard College students/roommates initially launched the Facebook. The main aim of this website is to connect the long distance friend with each other so that communication process become easier and smooth. One can catch up with their friends and by that mean they can all maintain Social get to gather in most possible way. In starting phase of Facebook, the people who attending 13 years of Age only can able to registered themselves on this so called Social Media Platform, but as soon as it becomes popular among the people of 13 to 18 years of age group, their family members, their younger siblings becomes so much attractive to this new Revolutionary Social Connection.

The primary features of Facebook includes, to share Personal Images/Photo/Videos, to give/receive Like by other friend, Comment on the same, Share it with other friends and all. Subsequently other Social media platforms join the race with each other as mentioned above. They all started the rat race to provide best services to their clients and launched many other features on the same. They started providing Free Voice/Video call Services, Location sharing to their users by time being in force in early decade of 2010s. Then enters the big Players like Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn in the market and brings a unpredicted storm in the world of Social Media. At the time, Social Media isn’t remained a Social Media Anymore, it becomes a Medium of Fun, Happiness, and good time. But no one is able to know that one thing is swiftly takes place there in hidden mode, The Greed which leads to Lust, which leads to the Jealousy!!

Justin Rosenstein, Assistant Developer of the Like button of Facebook, opened up in public regarding misgiving of it in late 2019. At the time he told that Social media becomes too addictive that one people can do anything for it. The words aren’t wrong in anyways, if you don’t believe please watch Social Dilemma, at least once, the mirror image of ourselves truly reflecting there. He said in the documentary too that we Human lost control on ourselves, and can breach any limit for that mule. Social Media is just a medium to connect with each other but no one really no ones care about the consequences of it. We never ever try to reveal the dark side of it. It is Harmful but we find Peace there, right?

“Sometimes Dark side isn’t Dark, We just Amended the Dark to Spark!!”

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Like, Comment, Share. These are some basic features of any Social Media Platform. Everyone starts giving and receiving lots of likes and comments over pictures/posts of their or of others, at this point of time everything looks good and well planned strategy of different Social Platforms but no one give an attempt to recognize the real shit behind that Like, Unlike game. People becomes Jealous by seeing the less likes on their post compared to the likes received by their friends. They feels tense, unsecured and went into depression by not getting enough likes on their post. They start judging themselves which creates the highest level of soreness into one. The platforms which are created for Fun becomes the Deadly Nun!!

Over the year ago, Mark Zuckerberg, CEO of Facebook make a statement (Not in Public in Private) that sooner like button will be disappeared from the Facebook, in Instagram subsequently. After one year, i.e. January 2021, Facebook rolls out new designed pages and drops the LIKE button from it. The initial process was start in US, then it will cover all over the world, isn’t it Good? See late is good than Never. No doubt it’s like to bridge a Pool after Rain, but at least from now the like-unlike game will going to stop. On the other side it will definitely adversely impact on Social media Influencer, but for the sake of whole community one can’t simply Grow!!

Look, Like Matters but always in right Manners!! If you wish that, which is almost impossible then No matters Who You Are, chances are more that you’ll be sink if you madly follow something or already became insane. There are certain rules, norms of social media to follow, if you are really using the so called SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORM!

  • Don’t go crazy after Likes, Comments and Connections. They all are Marketable!
  • Don’t believe everything is True if it possess high volume of Likes.
  • Likes for Likes then what for Unlike? Is there any option except Leaving?
  • Like only what you Like, not what other forces you to Like either Directly of Indirectly.
  • Remain Social Media, just a Medium of Fun and Entertainment.
  • One Like is enough to ruin your whole Social Status, you made on those platforms.

Solution: So Much talk about the good and bad effects of using the Social Media Platform’s feature but in the end we all are looking for the solution, aren’t we? And any guess what is that Solution? So the solution here is that, Like Button should be there but the No. of likes only visible to the person who post/publish something. By this way the effect of possible Jealousy can be sorted out and influencers too can perform well through organizing in best way.

“LIKE is just a SOCIAL Illusion, Stop it, before it makes Delusion of the LIFE!!”


So that’s all for the day. The motto here is to convey that Like is not Always matter. It is Perishable, don’t make it an argue of your downfall. Share your all thoughts, opinions and suggestions regarding the LIKE in comment section will replied you soon over there. See you all Next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!! Stay Home, Stay Safe. Keep Smiling!!

P.S.: What you Choose, LIKE Over LIFE or LIFE over LIKE?

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How Long Should be the GRIEF?


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this world. Wow, finally the last week of the year, can’t express how much happy and optimist I am, not because it’s ending, but in hope of something New and Fresh is on its way. Whatever, let’s see what’s going on, we all are here in bad times and in good times too, right? Not Expect always, sometime just learn to Accept as it is. Life is Risky or Uncertain? Can anyone have answered it? Maybe it’s hybrid version of it, Risktain, which surprises all of us in regular intervals. It’s risky as well as uncertain, because certain risk we known but not able to act accordingly and some are unknown, which apparently goes unnoticed and their starts the roller coaster ride of it, the hanging garden of Life and Death. But really that’s the real fun of life, if we already know the risk then we would never try to go ahead on that path, right? Some risk we take just to prove that we are fearless, but in fact there’s no one scared and kindhearted than us, who stuck between True and Lie, Life and Death.  


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. More precisely, It’s continuance of the last topic, the inevitable truth of Life, The Death. We would start from there, okay. In last topic we see with illustration that No one here is come with a boon of Immortality, everyone passed their respective life and say goodbye to life and all. Grief, there should be existence of it, everywhere right? Because we human made for that. Is it true? Yes or No? Maybe Yes and Maybe No. But Yes, will be overruled No here. Until and Unless we aren’t sorrow or feel bad from heart, we won’t get satisfactory sleep. Can understand that it’s heartbreaking to lose someone who is close to us, but the real question is How Long should be the GRIEF here? Are we made to stuck there for remaining days of our whole life? No, right? Then Wake up, Gets up and Fetch up.

Life isn’t mean to take unnecessary pause. Look Life is like marathon among all of us. The difference is that No Victory flag is here. Many comes, many performs and left, that’s all. So if some left in between  somewhere, means to stop all others? No, not at all, others should have to keep running till the last breath. No Referee here, all are equivalent to each other. No doubt there will be so many hurdles in between that but you must have to go through it, because if you don’t, you’ll probably going to stop, and unnecessary stop not acceptable in any manner here. Though that doesn’t mean one can’t stop, they only stop if they can resume it again, if they won’t be able to resume then possibly it should be their last DESTINY.

So if someone left you in between, what you choose? To Stop with them and also accept the DESTINY of them for yours too or to run until you reached to your DESTINY? Apparently, many will go with second one, but you know what the problem here is? The problem here is we wants to resume but some unnecessary power forced us to stay with them for long, and what’s that unnecessary power? The Grief, to lose someone in mid-way and false hope of them to coming back to you. Yes, we will obviously hurt but we just can’t get over that situation to us and gently becomes one of them. As discussed above there will be so many hurdles awaits you to slow you down so why to gear down and be the sole reason of downfall of us?

If we lose somewhere, whether in Love or Game, definitely hurts us a lot, we cried out heart. We feel shamed and stressed. So yeah, we will definitely have some bad time, But the real question here is that for how long time we should take to outshine that situation, which already handcuffed us from upside down? It’s up to us how we takes things, make, and maintains the relations, share, and care the feeling of others, so why we are not able to take decision of our UPLIFTING? Nothing will change, situations like this will always just try to stretch you to down, if you are EMOTIONAL COOL. We aren’t Emotional Fool anymore; we are upgraded ourselves from that to EMOTIONAL COOL. From outer side we very well pretend that we don’t care at all but from inner side we know the real truth, isn’t it?

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Likewise if someone left us, we surrendered ourselves to GRIEF. Slowly it starts its work to make us physically Weak and mentally Leak. The moment we lost both, WE aren’t remained WE. And how can we forget ourselves, sacrifice ourselves? Is it any mean of? Not at all. You should have to get up, you should have to unleash the blanket of GRIEF. Remember your goal, you are about to compete it and you are about to complete it. If you want to cry then finalize the frame of it, it is possible. It’s difficult to remove the memory of them from ours, but you should have to otherwise it will control you. Look you have whole and sole right to mourn, on leaving of close ones, but you just can’t mean that destiny for yourself too.

GRIEF, the more time you are mourning, the more you becomes weak gradually. We know that we all have certain time limit then why not this GRIEF? It must have. Your heart beating for numerous counts, but what if it forgets to beat for just ONCE, just think about it. Your Soul will obviously in pain but how much fair is that your Heart will feel the same pain? It needs pamper when Soul isn’t under control of body. Mind knows it but here it’s unable to do anything because in such kind of situation we all becomes BRAINDEAD for some moments. Make schedule of GRIEF, and act accordingly. You’ll definitely find peace. You have to RUN, You have to FUN!

We should learn to Move On, For how long we wait for someone? That’s what Life really meant to be, to chase it without any long pause. Pain is part of Healing, because it tries to realize you that Yes, you are Hurt but not Lost. Get Up and Chase it down. You aren’t mean for lose too soon, you are more than that. Just break all the barriers which stops you, if you don’t that it’ll definitely breaks you! Time and Life Never Stop, it’s Directly Connected. If any of it stopped, another one will automatically stop working.

“GRIEF Should be in BRIEF”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like the content, please share your thoughts, opinions and suggestions regarding today’s post in comment section will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz. Stay Safe, Keep Smiling!

Topic for the next Sunday: Don’t want to Defeat Anyone, Just wants to WIN for Myself.

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Head over Hand or Hand over Head?!


Hello guys what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this world. December, the most beautiful and cheerful month of the whole year. Not because it comes in end of the year, it is because sooner there will be start of the New beginning, something fresh. Yes, pandemic is still with us, but we all experienced something new, or say we saw almost face worst situation of life all together, right? As said Issues won’t make us weak, it reshaped us for the all new changes of life. If we aren’t capable enough for that, then how can we develop? How can one grow? Definitely sometimes it’s become too extreme because it happens so quickly, that one fails to adopt it in time and succumb to death. It’s the Law of Nature, If you can’t accept the change then how can you expect the world will going to accept you as you are? Being rigid don’t work at all, be flexible and try to be shaped yourself in that particular situation as per need of the condition/need of the hour.


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. By the title, it seems lit-bit confused one, right? Most of you finds that this topic will be related to human body, right? As it comprises two indivisible parts of it, i.e. Hand and Head. Maybe you are right in that guess and maybe you’ll be wrong at the same time. Just Try to recite the Title, It is combination of Two Sentence itself, Head over Hand, and Hand over Head. Did you find the differences between them? Did you get what it tries to convey through? No? Okay, let’s understand it. We go one by one so more clarification one can find here. So let’s start first by,

Head over Hand. The very first question rises here is that What is mean by Head over Hand? Let’s understand. One has so many friends and is popular among them. Due to bigger network he/she reaches everywhere by using the sources available to him/her. In short, he/she made his/her own Big Image in public eye, but he/she fails to maintain very basic thing of life, The Relation. He/she used other’s mind only but fails to establish the necessity of life, The Human Relationship. He/she start the race to become one of the best but ending on losing the back support. He/she choose head over hand means they try to use brain of people for their own benefit and forgets everyone way too far from their reach. Their success won’t last long. Is it really called Success?

Now let’s understand Hand over Head. One has smaller network, resources availability is also low, but their reliability and level of optimism is too high. In addition to that they know if others are there then and only then their success is meant. One thing is crystal clear in their mind, that they will going to rise together if they fell together. Here he/she works for the people and wants to achieve the height of Success with them. When he/she is appreciable, he/she wants that their team also be part of their success as a group. Maybe Success route is Slow but it’s Steady one.

“If you want to walk fast, walk alone

But If you want to walk far, walk together.”

                                                          -Ratan Tata

Hope, now you are able to identify the differences here. The very basic question right now is what one choose in between, Head or Hand? Hand all the way, right? Absolutely, because one can’t simply grow if they forget or lapse the importance of others in their career/success. Look people comes and people go but the real one stays till the end, why? Because they know you, they believe in you, they understand you. If they are able to know you, to understand you then how can you be one be so selfish and forgot them easily? The issue seems genuine but if you closely observe it, it doesn’t.

We all know that All coins have two side, So let’s start from Scratch. One side of coin is good, and another one is bad. If we talk about bad side, then it will include all the stories of Struggle – Hard work /Smart work – Give up and Rising of One’s on their own feet.  Now let’s try to reveal the other side of coin, i.e. Good side. When the people who suffers through all ups and downs, he achieves success and what it brings along with it? Money, Dignity and Ego also follows. Yes and they all played their respective part in the life of successful people, right? Absolutely and there starts the real troubles without any doubt.

Though here people isn’t at fault. It’s the Situation, Consequences and surrounding of them, which often lead them to unwanted ways of life. What is done to him, exactly the same done by him, still we can’t expect that they should behave accordingly. If someone uses him/her and then trash them down to somewhere then it’s not the same one can follow with others. When people stuck somewhere, they starts to think from heart which always creates propaganda and leads to biased decision, slant opinion and all. Maybe by that way they gets the solution they are looking for but for short term. For any long term benefit you have to think about others as well and include them in your plans too. Which creates the layer of trust gently and beginning of your dynasty.

Helping hand is always preferable over some bucks. Try to help someone, maybe you forget that but the one who is beneficial due to you, will always remember you. Don’t use people, Be people for People. Value them to be better human. Sounds silly but it isn’t. In this preach world, everyone use everyone for either of the matter. If you choose Head, then You can start Sprint but for Marathon, You must have to choose Hand. One only pick your hand if they Believes in you, with that their mind also going to assist you.

Hand Attracts more Head but Head Attracts only Head.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all get it what message it wants to convey. If people choose Head then they only able to get Physical benefit of others, but if they choose Hand then they able to get Physical and Mental benefit of them as well. Whatever you choose, choose wisely. Share your thoughts opinions and suggestion in comment section. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz. Stay Safe, Keep Smiling!!

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Prepare for the WAR!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well in your respective life wherever you are in this world. It’s almost November and we are nearing to close starting year of the decade that too in most dramatic way. Who thought that we all passed this whole year almost in our respective home, Mask becomes The Savior and affect all of us in either ways! We all are witness of this nightmare, aren’t we? Many Succumb due to this pandemic, some able to survive and some learn something from this or that way, right? But still we are alive, that means we had given a strong fightback. It’s just matter of time. Don’t you hear that phrase, Time waits for none? Good or Bad, any time does not stay for longer; Just remember that. Let’s hope for the best, we successfully overcome from this situation soon.


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Social Media is a Marketplace that Trades in Human.

– Courtesy: The Social Dilemma

Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Any idea about today’s lesson that what we are going to learn today? What have you thought by the title of the post? Let me guess what you thought, We are going to talk about some fights, probable war scenes, some blood shots, some casualties and after war world right? But no, You are absolutely wrong, though we aren’t going to talk about any of that. This WAR is within ourselves, sounds crazy, right? Then you must have to watch The Social Dilemma. The Documentary revealing the truth of so-called Modern Humanity. Yes, the topic of today is fully based on it. So, let’s start the topic without wasting much time and understand its hazardous effect on us, i.e. humankind; as soon as possible because This WAR is definitely thousand time more Dangerous than this Pandemic, just think about it now.

Not scared you but try to unveil the truth which is forbidden for so long. In February 2004, when Facebook officially launched by Mark Zuckerberg, at the time no one has never thought about the potential consequences of it. They can only see the brightest side of it and just forget to draw their attention to the other side of coin. Same trend followed by the Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, Snapchat and Pinterest as well. All joined the rat race to provide the best services to their latent customer. They all started to boost their user base, experience, and entertainment for them. In starting, the growth was low as it was new for all of us, but as soon as it started to spread its popularities, they all becomes the necessity of every human being on the Earth, right?

Just take an Instance, The 2 old day child of today also changes its expressions/moods just by seeing the Smartphone, isn’t it? What’s in that Smartphone? Have you noticed that ever? A barely 6/7 inches box, containing all the flavors of life in it, is that the reason? Maybe yes and maybe no. Many opinions in that, right? So, what we can do now? Are we in any position to do something now? The answer of first question is we can do if we WANT. And the answer of second one is No; we aren’t in position to do anything now. Because we all lost control on our respective selves, aren’t we? Absolutely we lost it since we start using it. If you can focus on first answer you get the answer of second by default. It only going to happen if we really feel by heart that yeah, we are on wrong path, whose chances are very- very- very low. It’s like we all are on same Ventilator and don’t know when it going to stop, but the thing which is sure is that the ventilator won’t last long.

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If You aren’t Paying for the Product, then You are the Product.

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Look at the time when whomsoever created the Different Apps, the aim of them is to connect the people, connect the countries, connect the World with one another, right? So, what had happened that we people make so much distance within ourselves? We are connecting in virtual world, but in reality, we lose contacts. The like button, why they created that? To appreciate others, their work and like kind, right? Then why we downgrade yourself by not getting desired likes? Are those some likes proves who you are in real life? Not at all. Like for like, some plays good games here as well. You can buy the likes, just pay for it and be happy for some moments. In fact, whatever on WEB, has Price actually. Not just likes you can also buy Followers/Connections, Comments, and all. But what happens next if you aren’t able to pay for it anymore?

Why Social Media Apps Founded, had you thought? No, Because we all found trapped in so called free entertainment. Because we forget the simple rule of life, Nothing is free here. One must have ready to pay something in exchange of something/someone. And here we makes the mistake, unamendable mistake. We are like, how it harms us? After all the creator of these apps are also Humans, right? But no, they hunt down you gently, without your knowledge you’ll be knocked down after sometime. Very first it becomes our habit to use these social media apps daily and then we swiftly attracted it in no time. It affects us Indirectly, so that you aren’t in position to get rid of it. The termite of a Mankind!

We are sad but we don’t the reason behind it, we are depressed as well but we are frightened to confess it, we are happy but for limited edition, Mood Swings like in a moment we are the happiest person in the whole Universe and in another we are deeply found in some shock. If someone not gives the reply us in time, we started to worrying about it. If someone stops following us, we found in stress. If someone not like the picture we posted on social media, we started doubting on ourselves. Isn’t that sound crazy? Yes, it’s, that’s what we all do here. We aren’t human anymore, happiness is thing of time only. WAR is already Began, Survive if you can.

Just Remember,

“If there is a Social Media, then It’s not Necessary that We all must have to USE it, Use others!!”


So that’s all for the day. As I said earlier post, All War isn’t too Win, Sometimes it’s for Defence too. The WAR against us is the same one here. It’s up to us now, How we make a way out of it. Be ready for the Worst situation. Because neither I nor you have any Idea who’s Enemy is here. Send your suggestion, thoughts and opinion regarding today’s post in comment section will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Taata, BByee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz. Stay Safe!!

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We Are Dying Before We Are Trying!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are healthy and wealthy physically, as well as mentally. Mental peace is need of the hour, right? This situation is like each of us need counsellor who looks after us in every aspects, on behalf of us. How much one is strong enough, one is feel down when they have to face and defeat their own self!! Getting rid of it is easy but there we people who often made it complicated to go through. Here people are not at fault, completely, sometimes situation and luck also played their respective and pivotal roles in downfall of them. But still question raises, are you unable to tackle down the situation or the situation themselves are more challenging, which one had assumed to be?

Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. The little bit exciting and demanding one. All you got some idea by the title, that what we gonna talk about today, right? Yes, about failures, the other side of life. While discussing with Akshita, on some issues of life, finds it interesting to penned down this topic as many of us suffering from it and to apply half heartedly efforts, which is almost parallel to nullify efforts at all. So, let’s dive into this to get some positive vibes/energy to live the life fullest.


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We are Dying Every Single Second, We are Dying in Every Minute, We are Dying in Every Moment, before we are about start to something New, right? Don’t hesitant to confess it, even I am not except in this case. We are too curious and energetic in starting session but as soon as Sun starts to set, our confidence also start to sunk, right? Yes, definitely we lack confidence but how can one gets it without any attempt? Victory isn’t far from your Reach in beginning, it’s far when you think to give up on that idea in Mid way!!

As a Human we all in-need of something always, like always, that’s the human tendency whether you believe or not. Greed for good is always good and the attempts you gave to conquer it never went unnoticed. To give efforts is the first thing, one can focused before anything else, right? Yes, because if you aren’t prepared well mentally to show the guts, you’ll never back with smile on face. You, only happy if you feel from the bottom of your heart, because from the face no matter how much you pretend to be happy but somewhere your inner half isn’t stand by you at all, maybe you are satisfied by face but not by soul.

Life is not what you achieve from it, it’s all about how you create it. Mainly as we differentiate the people in 3 basic categories, Poor Class – Middle Class and Rich, we made it easy to recognise the people by their status, right? If we go deep down, there’s more class one can identified from it, higher middle class, lower middle class, backward class, impecunious and beggar. In fact, there’s no such class one can find, it’s only theory one blindly follows it. What’s your thinking about the lifestyle of the Rich? They eat good, wore good, looks good and? That’s all? Really? Think about it again, what Rich do that poor deny to do? What about work?

We all do the work as per our accordance, true? Obviously at last that are the source to fulfil our needs/requirement and belly. Have you observe the mindset of the billionaire of the world ever? Are the people who is Rich won’t work at all, did you think like that? Then be alert, very first, you must have to visit some doctor/counsellor as soon as possible. The truth is Wealthier suffer the most, because to reach at the top isn’t their goal, to stay on top is their ultimate goal. For that they have to take some decision, instantly and accurately. If they failed to do so, there would be bigger inverse impact on their business. There’s no point to give up on situation, if it’s unfavourable, then they tried to make it favourable one at any cost. To accept the defeat by giving an efforts is much better than not to appear for the attempt even.

To give efforts must be our sole motto, irrespective of the result. If you succeed there’s no one happy like you by doing so and what if you failed? Don’t worries if you can’t succeed you gain some experience/ formula to crack these types of hurdles, which definitely gonna assist you in your next attempt. Experience is the key to Success, if you failed to have it, you can’t simply differentiate between Success and Failure. For you Success is opposed of Failure and Failure is opposed to Success, where in reality it’s wide concept. Both term have their own chronology, the process, and the different outcome for sure.  

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Confidence, one simply can’t boost it, before they can practically used their hidden weapon. And what’s that? For that you have to write it down, at least 10 times, Yes, I can do this; whenever you feel like to give up on particular idea. Then fold that paper and put it in your wallet or there where you find it easily. Read it when you about to give up, it’ll never let you allowed to do so. It reminds you that you made the promise to do that, now you have no way out except to try again. Instead of to die with regret of not taking the chances, sounds better to die with satisfactory efforts that you give.

Look every coin has two a side, if one is for your opponent then the other would be sure for you, no doubt in that. You know, we all scarce one thing for sure, the confidence booster, while beginning, in mid-way and in finishing too. In beginning we scared to do something as we already new at somewhere, in middle of the path, we scared by the barriers we face, the upcoming hurdles and in finishing we scared of the result. In this whole process we dies so many times on regular basis, even one themselves doesn’t know about their DAILY DYING – DAILY CRYING before one confident TRYING.

You don’t need long lectures on motivation, hour long inspirational speech and all to try something. All you need is to have complete yourself with you, who can walk with you – side by side. To die is too easy, you know. There are many causes to die but there you have to find that one reason which never let you down, shut you down. Scared of Height? Scared of Water glitch? Scared of Evil? Scared of Dreams? All your scar are victorious if you are there, so does the new beginning. In eyes of World, you are alone, but you know you aren’t, make them believe you solely enough to make the changes, you saw, you follow.  

“Do not Die before You Try and Do not Try before You Cry, Cry after Try and Die after Try.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like this small dose of confidence booster. Share your viewpoints, suggestions, opinions and thoughts regarding today’s post in comment section will replied yoo soo over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tatta, BByee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!! Stay safe, Stay healthy!!

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