7 Causes/Reason and Symptoms of Depression!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. Corona, I sometime amazed that really are you exist or the threat of yours threaten us more? Your Hypothecated existence haunted us more than anything else. The lives that you consumed, will definitely won’t go unnoticed but there is something still in our hand but we are not scared of you anymore. Look we are roaming freely on streets without mask, look we are preferred to avoid social norms notified by Government, look we are still live with you. If you killed us, then we still able to find one more reason to blame God, not our own deeds.

So, let’s start from there, where we last stopped. Depression, the word, itself shows its cruelty. Don’t you find it? The state of mind, in which one has Mind but won’t able to think properly, one has Heart but won’t able to feel that there’s something in their life too, one has eyes but their tears are evaporated, one has emotions but they were dried at somewhere – sometimes. They have lot to say but the main issue is that they believe it to be shameful to express. If you can’t let out your words, then it became hard to regain your control on your body, on your engine (Mind).


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So, following are some of the Causes/Reasons of Depression:

  • Atmosphere: – Absolutely, Atmosphere that you surrounded with is highly affected on your mindset. There are always some people who likes to see you suffer, they like to see your failure, they prefer to see you give up on your goal. Sometimes their weird source of happiness is you. So, they start pressing you and tried to make indirect superiority over you. If you trapped in any of their trick, soon your life became living hell. They tried their best to get control on your life and when you find it, it’s too late. So always stay alert from those, they are in any form (Gender), in no time will enough to make you Zero from Hero.
  • Friend Circle: – We already learn about how the atmosphere will affect your Mindset, so the next point is that the people, which you considered into your friends. It’s noted that in most of the cases, the close friends are found out to be Convicts. The Jealousy, the Money, the Show off Trends proves to be judgemental in such scenarios. How much do you know him/her before putting out your secret to them? Later on, that secret will be used as weapon by them so first confirm before serving your dark to them. “Enemy aren’t born, we create them”; enough to enlighten the truth behind the True Friends and Truth of Friend.
  • News: – Sometimes we act normally, naturally and sometimes paranormally as well. As a human, we are full of emotions so whenever we got some shocked news, spontaneous event occurrence, we soon find ourselves into dwell of sorrow. We don’t know the reason but somewhere in inner we are broken fully and wholly. We aren’t in position to bear the shock and soon started feeling low because of that. Though initially it should have not impacted on our mind but as far as our heart will cry, we couldn’t say that we are okay. May be by Face you can smile fake, but Heart doesn’t do the same. Your life indirectly affected by that and you too believe to be nothing in life. So be aware from that and don’t allow it to get control on you.
  • Relationship: – When it broken, it’s obvious that it’s not possible for everyone to successfully overcome from it, right? The unexpected end of love life leads people to think about them more n more that Really, they aren’t able for him/her or Really, I am this much bad that he/she left me in middle? They are surrounded with questions and end up with big question mark on their Face and Heart as well. Cheating, new normal in relationship. So, one of them comes to know about it that their love isn’t solely their but it’s betrayal, one finds themselves into cloud of anxiety and showering their tears from it. Tears comes but pain remain same it is, until n unless they won’t find peace, a Real Peace!!
  •  Failures: – As a human we all facing failure sometimes, at some point in life. It’s part of life, but it’s not easy for everyone at all. You had guts but not courage, to stand on your scrambling feet then you couldn’t fight back. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, to try, to fail, to stand, to try again, to fail and to stand again. If you are kind hearted, then be ready to live with daily dying. World is so cruel, they can’t accept as you are, instead they made you like them. If you protest or not matched with them then will torture you till your last breath. You find death more reasonable than it. Be ready to be criticize.
  • Financial Insolvency: – Money, the primary need of everyone. But all aren’t lucky to have everything in life. They tried full to achieve and satisfy their need/requirements. Their situation is like if they tried to stitch one, another two gets released. In this fast – forwarding life, it’s hard to manage everything but not impossible. When EMIs gets dues, when Debts hikes daily, when needs also rise sharply it’s became hard for them to survive. They are screwed up by others too, So when the weight of Debts & Dues is increase by the certain limits, one couldn’t stay long in the race. They were outshined by finance. Tense leads them to there, where they even don’t find themselves too!!
  • Overthinking: – Yeah, this becomes serious issue day by day that people started assuming soon that which is far away from reality. They ruin their today, just by thinking about that which isn’t happened in real life. Their small puzzled question one day becomes headache of their own. You know Mind is too sensitive, even more than Heart. Won’t believe? Then try to screw your mind sometime, it will be responded doubled. So just stay alert before muddle it, you might think it as small issue but that small issue one day becomes that much big, that you never imagine it to be.
  • Miscellaneous: – There are so many more reason which are enough to destroy one’s life through depression. Failure in relationship, less grade in examination, sexually harassment, indirect act of someone, inability to secure the job, lack guts to face the world, insolvency and cheating of partner, etc. Though these are few examples of how person feel depression and trapped into others trick.

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Symptoms: –

  • Weight loss.
  • Becomes Hyper in small matters.
  • Find Alone in crowd.
  • Prefer to stay lonely.
  • Rigid Mindset.
  • Cry in no matter.
  • Fear of Insecurity.
  • Feels tense over their future.
  • Often Try to Harm themselves.
  • Avoid talks.
  • Gradually becomes Monotonous.
  • Gently Decrease Get to gather with others.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you like the post. Depression isn’t the feeling, nor a story to describe. We all passed through it, some survived, some sink. The one who survive, will definitely becomes inspiration for others and the one who won’t, becomes illustration for others. What you want to be, Inspiration or Illustration?

See you all next Sunday, with the last chapter of topic till then Tataa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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7 Things You Must Learn To Control in Time!!


Hello Folks, what’s up? Hope you all are good and well in health n wealth wherever you are. Corona, had done enough damages irrespective of Monetary, Non- Monetary. World Economy had been gone already down and we all soon finds it, that’s the monetary damage. The Non-Monetary damages, maybe it hit more than that of monetary ones. Stress, depression, anxiety, fear, future uncertainty and loneliness insist all us to think about us more n more. We could overcome from Monetary crisis but outshined our own self will ask more sacrifice from all of us.

Recently I came across through many people and many blogs, news that people had started assuming their respective lives in danger. And the main thing is that the youth affected badly due to this pandemic. The reason is very simple that they had fear of losing someone or themselves. Sounds weird but that’s the harsh truth of today. Many assumed that future will be uncertain but not this type of. Corona, made us all helpless but how can we forget that we are human. As far as our existence will be on this Earth, how can we remove hope within us? Maybe we are helpless but not hopeless. Will come up on this topic in next blog till that let’s move towards one more interesting subject of the day. So let’s start,


Today we are going to see which would get control for better future and for better us, hope this will find helpful to all of us. So, let’s Start,

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  1. Control your Emotions:Had you thought where we lose? No? Okay so here we go. We all know that we human are bundle of emotion and where there comes emotion between us, between our decision, between our choices, we start thinking from heart and there starts the real panic. We couldn’t control our emotions, not bad though but as said be emotional not emotional fool!! There are lots of people who is available to take advantage of your emotions, if you give them chance then they will definitely gonna piece you off. Consider both the opinion of Heart and Mind if you want to control anything, it gonna works. Lack of anyone will enough to destroy you, destroy your whole life. Show emotions, but never reveal what your Heart wants over your Mind.   
  2. Control Your Hunger:Hunger, not related to food only. There are so-so many types of hunger whether it’s of earning money, fulfilment of requirements, to be perfect in everything or of getting everything in quick succession, which one has to control in time. Greedy never satisfied their hunger as they remain always greedy. Always believe that your brain, has also some limit like your belly. The one who failed to get control on their hunger ness will always go half stomach. Even a life treasure isn’t enough to satisfy their hunger, often they ended up in satisfaction of others hunger; like hunter haunt down itself. Satisfaction is a big thing, if you jealous by someone then you ended up losing your lit hut in search of Mansion.
  3. Control Your Anxiety:Anxiety, how would you define it? Any guess? Yes, you are right. It’s the prediction of Future Danger but how can be you fool enough to ruined your today for that which not happened in reality? We all know well that the whole world is based on assumption, people had strong belief that tomorrow will come but who said that tomorrow will only bring bad? The Sun never forgets to shine in less or more manner then how can you forget to rise up? Did you forget that you are Human? Don’t think so, it’s obvious that we scared from danger but even in danger we aren’t meant to be lose every time. We would overcome from it, but only n only if you believe that Yes, I can do.
  4. Control Your Mind:There are plenty of thoughts playing in one’s head, in that small power house known as Brain. In those thoughts we don’t know when and how we started to forecast our life events so rapidly, ended up losing control on ourselves. It’s never easy task to control Mind as it does what it wants and did accordingly. The cycle is simple of your downfall. First you start assuming something which leads to overthinking, which leads to anxiety, which leads to stress, which leads to depression and finally leads you to there where you find one way, Give up on your life. Mind has power that forces you to do that which you actually don’t want to but as it’s not in your control you gonna follow it. So in time learn to control your Mind, before someone gets rid of it.
  5. Control Your Heart: – Off course, If you learn to control your Mind then how can you forget to control your Heart? At last each n every decision is parallel to this both, don’t you think? Look here too a cycle works, very first Mind thought something, then that thought goes towards Heart to know its concern. If it approve then mind works accordingly, but if it denies then, human body betrayal within itself. Heart, itself never took decision but enforced Mind to take the decision on behalf of it. Heart wants so much which is nearly Impossible, which n how many wishes you would able to complete of your Heart? If Mind is an Ocean of thought then Heart is Pond, which produce so many rays, so many ways.
  6. Control Your Spending: – Spend, we all like to spend on thing, right? Whether it’s off on Clothes, Accessories, Electronics, Shoes or others stuffs like that. But really you need that or just to fulfil your mule demands? Not saying or stop you to spend but alert you to navigate your budget. Looks every time isn’t the same, one should have to do some savings from their respective earnings, like this corona pandemic has learn so much about it. Emergency funds would always be there if something bad happens in all of a sudden. Don’t buy that which just fulfilled your requirement, instead of that invest your money and make more money from that money.
  7. Control Your Screen time: – Last but not the least, Learn to Control your screen time. Yeah, sounds crazy but you should have to control your screen time sooner. Your eyes had to tolerate so much just because of you. Had you seen a Blind people? Just try to blind fold for some time. Even 5 minutes you can’t imagine your life without your eyes then how can you punish your eyes like this? Give it proper rest time to time. The world is so beautiful but for that you need an eye. Had you thought though, what if you lost it just because of your own shit?

Bonus Tips, Control Your Words: – Yes, you read it right. You must learn to get control on your words. If not then Mahabharat is the best possible Example, the word enough of Draupadi for the War. One has to know that how to use, when to use, where to use and which to use otherwise your value will be like that which acceptable by all but not applicable at all. Rather than put weight on your action. Believe in to do, not just to speak. Speak less, show more. Made your work recognisable one, you don’t need an identity.


So that’s all for the day, Hope you all like it. Send your suggestion, thought, opinion, tips in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday, till then Tata, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!!

The topic of Next Sunday: Experience Matter, For Better!!

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Aware From Creature Resides in You!!


Hello folks what’s up? Hope you all are well and healthier wherever you are. After long 2 months stay at home Finally, able to see the mother nature, following norms of Social Distancing, and use of face mask. Don’t know but it Feels weird when walking on the streets, working in the shifts. After coming back to home one question constantly played in my Mind Should I changed or the World? The Sun still shined at bright, the Moon also spread its magic, the Nature too was good as before the pandemic so what changed, really don’t know. Did you feel the same? If yes, had you succeeded to find the answer what changes made in the world? May be this is just starting. Something Strange or something worst is yet to come!!!


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Anyways let’s move towards today’s topic. The topic is something different rather than rest of the topics. Many awaits to knew what it is after all. But let me aware you guys This is in reply to my fellow blogger Pankanzy’s Post. i.e. She Interviewed the Most Dangerous Animal. So, all the men hood, brotherhood present here if you upset or disagree on my thoughts then please pardon me or let shut off your fucking mouth. This will be going to one of the fierce posts. Abused words also used in it so made your mind bearable one to tolerate it, especially Men like me. The post is fully dedicated to Girls/Women present here, present in the World, present anywhere in the Galaxy.

Dangerous Animal, the word Pankanzy, my dear friend had used to describe the Men hood, to describe people like me. I totally agree on that after reading the post of him but then I think this is inappropriate use of word to describe people like me, Men. Why to insult the breed of Animals, for the shake of people like me, Men? At least they won’t rape of other animals by misusing the name of God that too in those holy places like Temple, Mosque, Churches etc… Had you read any news at any time that Animal caught while raping of another animal at Mosque? Had you read any news at any time in the life that Lion raped his own kid? I hadn’t, never ever.

The intention is just to say that the one who is mature enough never done this kind of act, more precisely non forgivable crime. If that become forgivable then everyone habitual to forget and doing rape became usual/routine activity for men like me. Animals, I remember something from that. It is said that We are updated version of Monkeys, right? Yes, we are. But as fast as we updated, our thoughts at the same time and at the same speed our thoughts were became more n more lower graded or let me say deteriorate. Is this the real development or growth of brain of people like me? Men, if we born as Men then who said that We have all the rights to do anything with anyone?

People said that we are Social Animal, right? But can you find the difference between Animal and Social Animal? Animal, they have their own feelings, emotions, care for others while what we have on the other side? Yes, we are so called Social Animal forget to behave Socially. The never satisfied Hunger ness of Sex, Greed of Money and how to do wrong with others, qualities of men like me. Yes, I am Men, Social Animal. People call me by that but just forget the meaning of Socialize itself.

Priyanka Reddy, the nearest possible case I could remind of Hyderabad. A Doctor by profession belongs to good family background. But what had happened to her? Majority of People knows that Convicts of crime were Encountered by the Police Officials but had anyone thought Is the real justice delivered? The convicts had first followed her then brutally raped her one by one, followed by burying the body of her. What if the same procedure will follow to give the justice of late Priyanka Reddy? First raped of all convicts, enforced them to run nudes/naked on the street and then bury them all Basterds. (Here raped of convicts means to cut out that fucking dick of them, that they used as weapon.) This case reminds many of us to Nirbhaya Kand of Delhi, 2012. 7 Years to that horrible incident and still daily one Nirbhaya lost her life because of this kind of Creature, Social Animal.  

In addition to that this kind of Creature lodged Mercy petition to the President and their family members also doing best possible for their bailment. Like how? Are you not human? Is there any kind of humanity in you? First you raped and then files mercy petition. Have you given chance to that girl for the same? Had you Mercy on her before raped? Fuckers, you ruin someone’s life. There are so many red-light areas, go there and satisfied your hunger but why you spoiled life of her? If you aren’t ready to made expense on that then do masturbate, had you forgotten you had hands too??

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You even not seen her age fucker. She’s not in position to bear the pain. Even if she is in position to bear the pain you had no right to satisfy your hunger on her. What you get after doing that? Your second of enforced, enough to spoiled her whole life!!! Have you forgotten; you are also from her? Men, why you forget to respect the Women?

These Creatures are so mentally unbalanced that even they won’t let out their mother, daughter, cousin, niece, the list goes on. Some says the cloths wore by girls enough to seduced us, Men. Like how? What you see in that dress wore by that 4 years old? What she has to wear, is also chosen by you? It’s her choice, it’s her selection that what to wear and what not to. And yeah more over it’s her life after all, who given you right to interfere in her matter? Creepy People – Creepy thoughts!!!

She is Female, not a Free Male…

We Men thought that if we have dick, we can do anything with it, right? Learn to Control your dick. If it tightens then do something good. Be a Sperm Donor, but please don’t do this. In addition to that by doing so you also got some money. If she is Female, and you are Male then it’s your duty to save her. Before Lose your Pants, Ready to see yourself in Grave soon.

If She is for Love then it doesn’t mean she is for Enjoyment. 

If She is for Sex, then it doesn’t mean she is for Enforcement.

Always Remember If she is, then and only then You are!!

Aware from the Creature resides you, Men. Learn to control it in time, otherwise you won’t get a second to Revive. Before going to rape her, always remember you also gonna be fucked up sometime, somewhere maybe more brutally and more ridiculously.

“If She is Bleeding

Because of your Enforcement

Then prepared yourself

To Exhales Bloody Tears.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it. Send your suggestions, thoughts, opinion on today’s post in comment section. Will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

Topic of Next Sunday:- I Can’t Be You, You Can’t be Me!!

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