Smile is an Art, Creat as You Want it!!


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all doing good and well wherever you are. Are we pretend to be normalized or we just become fearless, don’t know, right? Some of us had no fear of infection but still if you don’t want to take care of yourself then please don’t infect others. There are some countries in which Second wave had already began, and this time the speed of the infection had increased rapidly, in United States alone, around 1M cases recorded in past week, China also noted some new fresh cases and so does the rest of the world. Even if we able to vaccinate it, the fight is still on and even worse condition is waiting for all of us. Stay home and avoid getting out if not necessary. Always, Remember You surely get second chance to roam the world but not the second life, for now just focus on to survive, good days will be come but for that you have to be there to see, to feel and to believe. This fight will ask many sacrifices than one had think, be ready for it. Not scared you but tried to put down some reality to you. Songbird, you must have to see the trailer of the Movie, Starring KJ Apa (Archie Andrews of Riverdale), Sofia Carson and Alexandra Daddario based on the same content. Rest will be on yours, whether to follow government guidelines or not.


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The topic of the day is quite contrasting to the situation of today. In this pandemic many lost their jobs, become shelter less and some gets depressed too, right? So, in that means just give an effort to read the whole post till the end, will surely generates some positive vibes in you. Being happy nowadays become serious issue, right? On other hand we became sad, dive in grief and feel stress often, right? In between those happy and sad moments, joyous and grief moments, positive and stress life, one thing gently disappeared from our lives, what’s that? Yeah, The Smile!! So, let’s learn to smile, with smile. Yeah, it’s not hard though, just try it.

Smile, you know, there’s no sense to think that where we must have to smile, when to smile and how to smile, right? It can be in any random moments, with friends, with lovebird, in nap of mom, while capturing moments, in happiest/crazy scenes, doing some nonsense with friends, replying to friends online, while teasing someone, in sarcasm, we all find that moment where we forgot to care that what people gonna think that how we smile. That’s the biggest benefit of Smile. If we think what others think then what others gonna do? Smile as much as you can, as much as you want. Life isn’t mean to live with so much load, some moments are precious, live in that moment and make it memory. That memory which in future brings smile on your face when you are low.

Have you seen the Smile of toddler? How innocent it is!! Enough to melt anyone’s heart, right? Yeah, because there’s no preach in it, it’s pure like 24K Gold. Why? Because they are happy from bottom of their heart, eyes testified it. No matter how many times you see that it remains the same. Sometimes it’s rare to find that kind of smile. As a Kid, they don’t care what world gonna talk about them. In fact, they don’t know the world either. Be like them, just forget what the fuckin world is, Smile like who cares. They smiled like there’s no one exist except what they see. But why we can’t do the same? Does the age gap make difference here, that too thwarted one!!

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Smile isn’t Science, neither Commercial one, it’s proper an Art! And you, yes absolutely You Are the Artist of it. Why only you, We all are the Artist here, right? We can create it as we want it. The Art which One can See, One can Feel and tried to resemble it too, no matter fake or real but at least we people try. What do you do if someone cheat you? What if someone teases you? What if someone pulling your legs constantly? What if someone try to irritate you? The only answer one can give properly is to reply with Smile, a reply with wide (baggy) smile. Let them do what they want to, just don’t forget to smile in most difficult situation of the life. Maybe they can’t change their behavior, but you can, so just smile and make them ashamed by your kind act. You know there’s a limit of everything, sooner or later they will understand it for sure.

The day, you can’t Keep smile on your face in whatsoever matter, isn’t the only Bad Day, it’s Bad You too. Remember, it’s your Life and moreover it’s your choice after all, that what makes you happy. If you want to dwell in your illusive happy moments, then nobody helps you to rescue you. You had better idea that what makes you happy and what makes you sad. Smile not only happies you, but it also helps you to overcome your failures, struggles and stress. It fully and wholly depends on people whether to live happily with smiley face or stay like fucked ass. Just remember how happy you seem to be when you smile, smile automatically would appear on your cheeky face, it works really, just give a try.

Smile Goes Miles. Won’t believe? Click a photo of yours with a weird Smile and upload it to social media. It’s been gone long, where you won’t be able to reach, it reaches there. It touches heart and feels by many. Smile is like that memory, which is enough to create another one, like subsequently. The more you practiced it, the master you will be in. In other words, it’s free of Cost, so why not to take benefit of it? As we have to paid something in exchange of something or someone then why to ruined this sole opportunity of happiness? Always remember there is nothing free in this life, not even the air, you breath in and exhales.

Some Benefits of Smile:

  • Helps in Reducing Stress.
  • Starts Living in Moments.
  • Feels Happy from Bottom of the Heart.
  • Helps in Good Sleep.
  • Improves Metabolism.
  • Reduce Disease relating to Heart and Liver.
  • Helps to Keep Social Relations up.
  • Feel Joyous and Satisfactory.
  • Helps in Gaining Weight.
  • For better Pictures of Ones.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you all like the lesson of the day. It’s easy to implement in regular life. Practice now for Perfect Tomorrow. Share your opinions, thoughts and suggestions regarding today’s post in Comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz. Stay Safe, Be happy!! Say Cheese…😁

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7 Road Hacks to Follow While Driving!!


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this pandemic. I know it’s early today, but as I’ve hectic upcoming Sunday, so hope you won’t mind. Days are really flying, that we have already entered into the last quarter of the year, 2020. The quarter of happiness, festivals, new beginnings. After having a stressful year, something good is on its way, I guess. So, let’s hope for the best, and also wish you the best for your endeavours.

Anyways, let’s quick start our session with one more interesting topic of the day. In every year at least 1 Million to 1.5 Million people lost their lives in the road accidents all over the world, more than the normal disease. It’s insane, but true. So, think to penned down this topic, which also seems demanding by looking after the current scenario, where people looks depressed and feel the load in their respective lives by whatsoever reason. So just follow the rules mentioned below while driving on the road..


In chaos of Destination, Don't Forget to Enjoy the Journey!!
  1. Keep Calm: – When you are angry, there’s a chance that you may lost control on yourself and end up by messed up everything. Same theory applied while driving too. If you thinks too much, there’s a probability that you smoothly lost control on your driving skills and lost in the thought of Ocean. If you’re angry, don’t give try to drive by yourself, instead use public transportation or wait till you gets control on yourself otherwise you do harm to yourself or either to others. Anger ness, maybe it’s your due but paid by others too. So, skip the driving if possible. So don’t add emotions while driving, put it aside and then try.
  2. Read and Follow Signboards: – Signboards, are really helpful, only, and only if you followed it too, reading it only, won’t works at all. Where to overtake vehicles, is it okay to honking the horns, Speed limits, Direction, Kilometre/Miles to the destination, nearby Hospitals and Petrol Pumps, Speed breakers, all are important, they aren’t just to print and to stick on the board by roadside. If you kindly follow it, you don’t need Google to assist you, to your destination. Most of us, just read it and ignore it, which is later on part of our sole regret. So, it’s better to follow the signboards while driving, especially when you are new to somewhere. Life has no signboard, but paths have!!
  3. Use Indicators: – Many of us, always are in hurry to reach somewhere instead of to start our trip early, right? But in that chaos, we often forgets to use indicators, which causes to unwanted accidents/ slip ups. Just Effectively use the indicators, deepers and blow the horn when seems necessary and while overtaking the vehicles/crossroads. Get an eye on Fuel tank too, when travelling to unknown place, even for a short trip. Do check the Speedometer too whether it’s properly works or not. Break are working properly or not you have to check everything before making your routine journey as well for your safety and safety of others too.
  4. Avoid Talks or Loud Music: – As said, you’ve to be concentrate on one thing fully if you want to avoid some unnecessary incidents and early results of something. Brain has also some limits, if too much load it bears, then be ready to face the consequence of it too. Avoid loud music and unnecessary talks on cell phones, air-pods or use of your devices if possible. There’s a possibility that you became careless for a moment and your whole life gonna be useless for you, for the people you surrounded by. Your life is in your hand, the steering you hold, followed the instruction of yours, so think twice before messed up the things with your own hands.
  5. Handy First Aid Kit: – Life is full of uncertainties so better to step out from the home with necessary handy medical stuff. Don’t forgot to bring Bandages, some medicines and visiting card of your family doctor, so in case you met something bad, then people have some clue to reach you/ family member of yours. Add the number of your parents/siblings in emergency contact of your device. If you live separate from your family, then add the number of people whom you can trust and always pick up the call. In this time, it’s worthy to bring some medical stuffs, if not needed by you then maybe it proves life changing moment for others too, by you.
  6. Don’t Drink and Drive: – Yes, you read it right. Even if you are confident enough to drive by yourself to home, or from home to somewhere, don’t take that type of risk. It’s not just risky but it’s also breach of law, so better to avoid it. Maybe you think you are good enough to drive, but not everyone feels the same, the chances of Accidents gone higher in that cases. You just not take the risk of your life only, there are many other lives too apart from yourself, have you forget it? The moment you close the eye for a second in that hangover, maybe and maybe you don’t need a second chance to open it again, so advice not to do that.
  7. Be Like Tortoise, but not like Rabbit: – In this fast-forwarding life, we all are in too hurry to reach somewhere, in given/schedule time, right? Yes, we do often, no argue in that. Reaching somewhere late is tolerable one or to pay the price of your life, what would you prefer? Listening the hard words of your boss is good or to meet the god in-person is good? We all knew the story of Tortoise and Rabbit, right? What would you to be, Rabbit or Tortoise? The one who is enthusiastic one to reach its destination without knowing the path or the one who is slow but know the path, direction and steady too? If you want to race, don’t do that with your vehicles, instead make race with the time you have, and you want to.

Bonus Tips:

  • Use helmet while driving the two wheelers.
  • Don’t forget to tie the seat belt in Four wheelers.
  • Keep an eye on Oil and other possible maintenance of vehicle.
  • Take care of your vehicle in proper manner and matter.
  • Wash and clean it once in half a month.
  • Maintain at least 10 feet of distance, prior to your vehicle.
  • Vehicles aren’t for race, remember they are for comfort!!

So that’s all for the day, hope you all follow this simple rules and safety measures before starting your trip. Life is precious so why to lose it by our own hand? Penned down your thoughts, suggestions and opinion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic of the day till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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Tips, Tricks and Trims of Life!!


Hello guys, What’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this pandemic in your respective lives. Life is really challenging now a days, the one who advice others to be better, had lose control on themselves often. Disconnecting from the rest of the world, Workload and ongoing issues makes life harder to live it peacefully. There is difference between Mentally and physically disabled person. The one who is disabled physically still has chance to outshine his/her weakness with help of strong will power but the one who is disabled by mentally, not gets a single clue to edge past his/her weakness.

Giving up on the life isn’t be the option never ever, but still when people lose mentally, finds it best amongst all. Not discouraging you, but sharing you the facts of life that how it will going to consume you slowly. You became victim of yours and no one gonna survive you from there. Life isn’t that what you expect to be happen, it’s all about uncertainty and maybe that’s the beauty of it.


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So let’s quick start our session today. Yes, there’s happening so many things right now in the world, in the life that its very difficult to stay high always. The idea of today’s post is based on that. So here are some of the tips, tricks and trims of life which going to helpful you all;

Tips: Tips, it’s easy to motivate others, but when one tried to get in someone’s shoes, the real transparency of life revealed by that very first moment, which previously not seen, feel or understandable. So following are some quick tips of life which might be assist you all in your hard time.

  • Want to see a smile, then observe the innocent chuckle of toddler.
  • Want to do something, implement without much hesitant.
  • Want to see a beauty, then observe the beauty of Nature.
  • Want to see an unconditional love, then find a mother
  • Want to see an Inspiration, wake up and find the mirror.
  • Want to see improvements, start with yourself.
  • Want to Motivate, first be that.
  • Want to learn something, it’s never too late.
  • Want to give up, give up that idea first.
  • Want to live, don’t look for happiness, first start to believe to be live.
  • Want to Die, don’t find reason, be like season, just think to change that Decision.

Tricks: Likewise Tips, Tricks often works there where tips aren’t allowed to follow. Some tricks are handy enough to adopt and amend the decision whenever and wherever it seems like to be. When one is low, lost and betrayal they put more weight on trick than to Tips. So following are some of the handy tricks to follow and to recommend as well.

  • Don’t understand word, understand people.
  • Don’t be hard to yourself, at last you survive yourself from sinking.
  • Don’t count the numbers, mind the numbers.
  • Don’t ashamed to cry, it’s better than fake laugh, even in public.
  • Don’t give up too early, maybe decision you took proves early.
  • Don’t be right every time, try to be southpaw too.
  • Don’t judge people, know people.
  • Don’t look for peace, it’s within you. If you can’t find in yourself then it’s rare to find anywhere.
  • Don’t find comfort, find the place, and make it comfortable.
  • Don’t solve puzzle, solve the issues you face/you gone through.
  • Don’t copy, make others to do.
  • Don’t boost Confidence, uplift yourself than previous day.
  • Do silly, if you want to famous and known.

Trims: Trims, in general trims means to remove unnecessary stuff from there where it seems like to be needed, for cleanliness, for betterment/improvement or for satisfaction of themselves. So following are some trims which one should implement soon in their respective lives.

  • Trim toxic people.
  • Trim toxic relationship as well.
  • Detox unnecessary social media accounts.
  • Trim negative vibes and grew positive mindsets.
  • Trim unwanted monthly shopping expenditures.
  • Try to Trim screen time.
  • Trim and update Music list as and when feel needed.
  • Trim fear while to do new.
  • Trim unwanted thoughts of brain.
  • Trim evil within you.
  • Trim your feelings, emotions, World isn’t that much kind to handle it.
  • Trim expectations, Grew acceptations.

So that’s all for the day. Hope you all find something from it, and help your respective selves. Share your thoughts, opinions and suggestion regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. Share your experience as well, if you implement/adopted something recently, curious to know about it. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic of the day till then Tataa, Bbyye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda hafiz. Stay safe, take care!!

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5 Subject Wish to See in Modern Education!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing great and well wherever you are in this pandemic. It’s almost September, the end of 3rd quarter of the year 2020, very soon, seriously??!! Time really flies, we even don’t know when Festival comes, when it goes. Still confused and don’t know that How many people comes and how many left during this pandemic, but whatever happened, happens for the good. Take high notes from it rather than to regret on what we lose and what we were able to do. Just concentrate on what you learned from this pandemic and how much it gonna helpful to you in due course.

Pandemic, as far as we human exist on this earth, it was normal- it is normal, and it will be normal. If we hurt someone/something, then be prepared for the same. How can one think he/she will be pardon by almighty. He is there to justice, no one can escape from it. The topic of the today is also based on this pandemic. Many new changes adopted by us during this pandemic, whether it’s pertaining to Work or Education or Meetings or Interviews, everything changed.


So now let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. As said earlier, due to COVID-19 Pandemic, many changes adopted by us, which are necessary for the benefit of all. As we are heading towards that world, which we all imagine sometimes ago, but in due course it happens swiftly than think. Changes come and history is the proof that we successfully adopted those as well. So below are few subjects, more precisely some topics which should be consider in education for betterment of that respective country/nation. Because the youth of today is the future of tomorrow. What we teach them today will done by them, direct them towards progress.  

Some Subjects don’t need books, modules or prospectus. It’s neither subjective nor objective. It’s the Compulsive, which should be taught to students for well being of their, of the mother nature. Today we are going to see some of that topics which is demand of today or will be demanding topics in nearest future, so let’s start…

  1. Stress Management: – Stress, What is it? Any idea? No, right? Yeah that’s the problem. Because many of us know nothing about it that what is Stress, and how it affects the body type of one’s. The emerge situation like this corona pandemic reveal the face of all hypocrite people. Many Survey also suggest that the people of age group between 18-35, often passed from this transmission of Stress again and again. And more shocking news is that they had no idea about it which later on proves to be life changing moments for their respective lives. So concerned is just to start this process, as soon as possible so that they can be able to know it, to understand it, successfully overcome from this plague and save themselves. Had you thought what if we gave them knowledge about that? The current situation is like we all need a consultant for our mental health, who took care of ourselves on our behalf. So, teach them to identify what stress them, what harms them and taught to fight for themselves.
  2. Sex Education: – Sex education, sounds silly, right? But no, it is not silly though. Likewise, Maths, Science and Social studies how can we forget to teach them that what is good and what is bad? As a teacher, it’s their duty to talk about it with them without any shame because that’s what the necessity of today. If one don’t know what it is then how can you expect as a teacher that your student will never do wrong to anyone in life? Sex isn’t just the satisfaction of one’s hunger. It’s the feeling, emotion, love, and care towards each other. If it won’t then why people married to their love birds, think about it. If as a Child they can be able to understand it, then do it. Make them aware that if Sex is important then the people with whom you were having forcefully sex was also important to someone else too. The topic is maybe new and maybe not, but if as a teacher you able to teach them about this then, congratulations you done a great job. Many people will be hesitant by introducing this subject topic is school, maybe they were going to protest too but that’s the requirement of today. If we serve them this type of knowledge since childhood then and only then the crime rates relating to Sexual harassment, human trafficking and rapes will dip. Because what literate man does is only done by them.
  3. Nature Conservation: – Now a days Social Studies is limited till books only but in real life no one is really care about nature, right? The current situation is perfect illustration for us. There are so many issues raising regarding environment protection. Temperature flexibility, fire in rain forests, earthquakes, floods, storms and so on, list is going on. So better to aware the next generation child about conservation and importance of nature in life. Then why to wait for the moment, why not to start from today onwards? The topic isn’t new but the way to describe it will certainly need some work to do. In starting as a kid its absolute that many will take it granted but among all if couple of kids will take pledge to conserve it then your work won’t wasted at all. As said, for a fire, a little spark is enough. Insist them to do all helpful to environment. Teach them to throw a waste in dustbin only, make proper use of papers, grew more trees by providing them live illustration with showing its benefits and all. Nature is beautiful and so as you, make them believe.
  4. Class of Happiness: – Let us be Kid with Kid. If you can’t give wings to them then how can they fly? If you won’t encourage them then how’s their confidence will boost? A daily one lecture will be like do whatever you like to do. Where everything is free, and everyone is free to smile to laugh to express to explore to impress. Want to sing then do, want to share some story then do, want to do mimic then do, want to crack a joke then do. There will be no denial in anything. Encouragement and Appreciation will take place instead of regular student- teacher talk. This will also going to helpful to hike the relationship between teacher and student. In this fast-forwarding life, many forgets to smile, cheer up them to show guts to stand up. Motivate them that they done a great job. There’s no shy to be kid with kid, because in everyone a little kid is always there to enjoy the present moment, don’t you find?  
  5. Tactical Solution: – Tactics, any idea? What is it? Teach them to find a solution rather than to solve a puzzle. The tactics which are generally follows in Sports, especially in Football where co-operation, alertness and discipline of team member is equally important. It’s the coach whose tactics ensures the victory of their respective team, be that coach of your students. If something bad happens then instantly rectify the error by changing the tactics. The instant decision-making process will definitely be handy in some situation in real life too. Teach them to find the solution of the same problem in different ways. Make them insist that they can do better. Don’t pressure them, assist them to identify the changes and challenges faced by them. Make them Attacker who also knows how to defend, how to dribble past the problems, how to tackle the situation.

If you are modern, but your thoughts are still stuck to conformist then how can you said that you are MODERN? Subjects which taught at School/Colleges/Universities are helpful to crack the examination but what if you failed in the examination of Life? Think about it. We all begs to god that please change the time, but how can one is so sure that the time will come is definitely a good one?


So that’s all for the day, hope this changes will soon applied in education system. Penned down your thoughts, suggestions, opinions and point of view regarding today’s post in comment section, will replied you soon over there. See you all next sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tata, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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7 Ways to Deal with Depression!!


Hello guys, What’s up? Hope you all are good and well in this pandemic. Stay safe and adopt necessary precautions to contain its spread. If we are healthy then we can do anything but if we aren’t then we do nothing. This time is challenging, we must have to cleared it off with flying colours. As recently quoted by Mr. Ratan Tata, the Chairman of Tata Sons, “Don’t mind what you lose, Don’t look what you achieve, Just think about to survive for now. This is the storm, The one who’ll survive would have definitely bright future waiting for them.”

Not easy at all but at least we should try. Even if we don’t then end is near, then why not to die with satisfaction of to do something. Just survive, time will definitely change. So, think twice/thrice before making any stupid move. Now, Let’s move towards the last point of our topic, i.e. Depression. We already going through What’s the Depression, Causes of Depression and Symptoms of Depression. The one who missed kindly follow below link. 

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Following are the ways to overcome from Depression. It actually works, if you give try. So, the one who feels low by any of the reason kindly follow it.

  1. Find Inner You and Conserve it: – Had you thought, why we got depressed? Yes, exactly. When we started forgetting our inner half, we started to believe to be nothing left in the world for us. In most of the cases of depression, the one for whom it’s never easy to forget that which rarely happened with them, often finds themselves lonely and believes to be no one stand by them. But how can you forget your inner half? Finds what happened to it, and reason behind feeling low of your inner self. Your heart is too sensitive, pamper it time n again, conserve it for your betterment. Even when you see no hope to live, never upset your inner half, if it hurts, you got no chance to overcome from it. Just believe, You aren’t alone, you have your confidence, through it you can do anything, keep burning that flame of heat in your heart.
  2. Learn to Fightback: – You must have to learn to fightback. You simply can’t give up, even all odds stand against you. The winner isn’t that who won, but that who digest the winner’s attitude and loser’s gutted efforts parallelly. If someone tried to brings you down, feels low then just do one thing. Increase lit-bit your efforts to be good to them too. Be sarcastic by nature and answer them in their way. You just can’t deny that I can’t do that. You must have to otherwise that little torture of them, one day turns out to be major headache. As said Good always win Over Bad, Feel them shameful by your goodness that they will never try to screw anyone in future. Always remember, conditions aren’t always favourable, you must have to take some kind of risk. The day you give up, you started gave up on your life soon. Roar like you are still alive even when you are on the edge of Fall.
  3. Watch Funny Videos: – As said, When you smile, you can’t be sad at the same time. But the condition is that you smile from heart not fake. When you laugh, you forget for sometime that you are stressed. So prefer to watch comedy/funny videos to overcome from the plague. Made your routine to watch comedy videos at least half n hour and laugh like who cares after all. Never erase smile from your face. Another best way is, To look at the old photographs of yours, in which how happy you seem, just remind that beautiful moments of past for some time, you were definitely ended up by baggy smile on your face. Smile is the antidote of Depression, so never remove that from you.
  4. Listen Music: – Music, when it starts, we started living in that moments, aren’t we? Obviously, as said Music is the hidden boon for those who are broken by someone because it relates them to that from which they going through. Listen your favourite song on loop mode, you definitely feel energetic and confident. Sing with it, lost in it and find a new you. Revive the Music, Relieve the Life. If Smile won’t cured everything then Music can and if music won’t then Smile would definitely. Music is like a confidence booster, one would simply can’t deny to lip sync that lyrics which once they heard on repeat. Listen it, how long you want to be.
  5. Be a Killer of Overthinking: – If you want to successfully overcome from depression then be ready to cross out the knife through your mind. Just forget what happened to you and what will happened to you in nearest future. Just Take care of your today, and let it washed out all unnecessary thoughts from it. As far as you thinking beyond your capacity you will trapped in your own trick. Thinking is good but overthinking is that much bad that, it actually outshines every good moment of yours. It removes your smile, it removes your feeling, it removes your joy. In short it made you Dry like Desert, which had no end except one. If you reach there, even by mistakenly then it’s very hard to get back on track.
  6. Stay in Touch with Close Ones: – We human must have some people with whom we can share anything without any shame, without any doubt, without any hesitant and without any fear. When one is surrounded by them, one feel safe and secure, one finds world beautiful and liveable one. It’s always helpful that when people talk to them, they believe to be there are someone who listen to their word, who understand their feeling, who valued their emotions. When one shared their words, well-wisher always tried to guide them to light from darkness, but for that you have to be that One of someone too, are you? Just try to be loyal to at least one, at least with your heart.
  7. Cry: – Sound funny, right? One finds it crazy that we already learn to smile to overcome from this issue then how can cry helpful in it? But how can one forget that, When we cry, not only tears but the forbidden pain of ours also comes out gently and gradually. Cry, as long as you want. It isn’t the sign of weakness but it is sign of that now you are stronger to face the world because the pain is already vanished and you are refill with your confidence. The one who consider cry as weakness, will definitely weak by mind. Cry release the stress stayed in ones; it also helps people to vanishes the all bad memory with flowing tears.

Apart from that various kind of Physical exercise, Meditations, Routine hangout with friends, exploring the nature are some handy suggestions to overcome from this issue. Psychiatrist, only helpful when you really need them otherwise some home remedies are enough to get superiority over your depressed self. Stay safe, stay healthy both Mentally n Physically!!

So that’s all for the day. Put out your thoughts, suggestions, tips, opinion regarding today’s post in comment section will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday with one more interesting topic till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

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No One Comes Alone, Left Alone!!


Hello folks, what’s up? Hope you all are well and good wherever you are. Corona, don’t you think you tried so much to threaten us? On the other hand, we also felt scared from it. It’s human tendency, but at the same time we fought so many fights along with Corona. May be that took our main test, to measure our tolerance, to know our strength. Some clear it with their skills of patience, calmness, humour and maturity. Corona tried full to broke us mentally, even it succeeded in majority parts but it forgotten that there’s already one virus rules on the earth from thousand of years, i.e. A Human Virus. Till the existence of it, no one can outshine it.

Virus kills the Human, but here Human is enough to kill each other, don’t you think? We love to rule so as we always try to be. If not by force then by pretence, if not by trick then by brick (War), if not by emotions then by revenge, we just try to capture everything under our control. Sometimes wonder, why this virus takes this much of stress when we human is enough to spread the fear, threat? There’s nothing much dangerous than person with evil thought. Had you found though? I, never.


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Anyways let’s come back to today’s one more interesting subject. What you think though btw? Any idea by reading the title? Yes, you are right. Today’s post isn’t about human nature, emotion or feeling. It’s of us, of Human. Totally related to each n every human being who born as human and die as human. So, let’s start from beginning,

Human. We all are, right? Absolutely, we. Okay so who made us and what the motto to introduce us, as a human on this earth rather than to introduce like other lively creatures? Had you thought though? No? Okay that’s absolutely fine if you know and even if you not. This post will you all the answers, you are looking for.

Had you thought God had been succeeded in their very first attempt to directly introduced human on earth? Not at all. There’s so much chronology and mindset used behind that. Don’t get it? The history of other lively creatures is more ancient than us. Animals, Birds, Insects were launch on initial stage by God to testify that really the nature they created is good for living or not. After observing the progress of them, God made plans to launch human, to launch us on earth, in this beautiful nature.

They launched the most updated version of his creation as Human. In initial stage, human was also like other lively creatures presented on earth but they possessed one boon from God. The power of Brain. Through using of it time after time, they became the lone superior of the earth and soon started hurting other lively creatures for their selfish purposes, for their greed, for their breed. They believe that this earth is for them only, and forget others. Time passed and they even forget the creator of them too, the almighty. But God knows when to knock the door and when to give signals to human. The one who create something also aware from the consequences and so as they always ready to deteriorate them into that in which they belong to.

How we Human born? We are in womb for 9 months of female breed. In between that God created us and if they find something weird, they soon pause their work and doesn’t allow us second to see the nature, to experience the wonderful creation of it. They stop the production process, though this will happen often. The life they give you is, precious than your whole life treasure.

The One Who Comes as Human on this earth, will come with so many expectations of their family. Not just only human arrives, a lot of dream, responsibilities also on their way. It maybe of their parents or someone else’s. But whoever will be come, never comes alone. If a boy comes, he’ll be star of an eye of his parent and if a girl comes, she’ll be queen of an eye of her parent. There are lots of pre-planned, goals waiting for them. As a human we are good enough in assumption that we finalize so many things before arrival of them in reality.

In the same way, the one who Left us never left alone. If people die, he/she left with their good mark ups and some will leave without making any noise. But the best thing is that the one who left us, left with a good reason to live the life to the fullest. Then soon we knew the real meaning of life if someone close to us left us, alone in the world. We habitual to live with their moments, in absence of the one who left us. We tried to live with their memory, their experience made us strong.

The best part of dying is that we people at last dies as Human, if someone fails to live the life like human. Don’t get it? Okay. During one’s life, they became so powerful, wealthier, get dignity and position in the society, in the world whereas some is not as good as others in life. But when he/she on the verge of Die, that position, wealth, power nothing works. May be those are some sources to live the life happily but not the happiness. The one who born as Human, must Die as Human as well, that’s the law of the World, of the Nature.

In short The one Who comes in this World, will come with so many Pros and Cons of life and the one Who left the World, left with memories, moments and experience he had during his life cycle. If you are good, people will remember you as a good human being, if you aren’t then still people remember you for your bad. In short may be People dies, but actually they aren’t.

“Everything Comes with a Purpose,

Everything Left for a Reason

Everyone Feels the Season

Find your Mission, Vision”

P.S.: These are some of the personnel thought of Writer, not necessary to be right in each n every aspects. Breach of Copyright of the content, leads to violating the rules and regulations of the Copyright and Trademark act.


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I Can’t Be You, You Can’t Be Me!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are Healthy and well wherever you are. I think Corona couldn’t scare us more now, we all experienced the fear of it but now it’s time to fight back. Sounds crazy but that’s what one crazy person think about. We all resect it, in less or more by following the norms and routine precautions for at least 3 months. Really glad to be back again in work and comes to know about the value of freedom in more depth. Hope you all too, now know the real meaning of Freedom. After all who doesn’t love it?! We are Freebies, so obviously we love to roam freely but, on the other hand, we also love to capture beauty!!! Aren’t We?


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Anyways Let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Just wants to assure you all, if you read till the end you will never go upset by it. It not relates to any particular community, gender, group or something like that. It relates to us, Human. All of us, all living creatures, all the human being. So, are you ready for one more roller coaster ride for the today? So just first tell me, what you think from the title of the post? No idea? Okay. Don’t worry, that’s why I am here. Try to give you all the answer in this post.

So, Let’s first understand the first part of the post. i.e. I Can’t be You. We human always loves to copy others, Right instead of looking for our own Inspiration? Obviously, we find others Garden more Greenish than of ours, that’s human tendency. Don’t feel ashamed about it, there are so many who thinks the same. I am also like you, not the exception in this as well. But do you know why we do like to be like Others? Is it easy? Is it hard? You know it’s too, too, too hard to be like others.

We like someone then became fan of his/her. We changed our lifestyle, we started reconstructing ourselves and still we aren’t 10% of them. You know why? Because it’s of Nature. Nature of people never changed. For your information Nature and Behaviour both aren’t similar though. Nature is what actually comes out from your inner self, while behaviour, we changed it like seasons without any reasons. Behaviour is self-made, while nature is Natural like it said.

Is copying others are really easy? Not at all. May be you look like them, may be you live like them, may be you earn like them, may be you spend like them, may be you smile like them, all these possible but to change your nature, you need to forget who you are, which is slightly Impossible. Everything isn’t that simple as one thought. The way others answered, maybe you aren’t succeeded in that. The way others gain Attraction, maybe you failed in doing so. But the Question is Why You be Like others?

Are you not happy with your life? Okay. Then find your problems in your own way. Do Audit of yourself on regular basis. You find the answer within yourself, improve yourself, made some changes accordingly. Had you thought ever though, Why God Made Us Different from each other? If he/she wishes then they made us all same, it’s possible for them then why we constantly tried to prove them wrong?

If you want to follow/admire someone then Go and looks into Mirror. You know the best thing about the Mirror, Even Each n Every pieces of Broken mirror showed your Real and Whole face. Just simply denied yourself to observe someone, follow someone and judge someone. Utters regularly, I can’t be You. I’ll like to fall into my Pond rather than yours Ocean. We all are unique, so there must be some creativity inside us. Finds it and make it happen what you want to see in the World. Don’t be like World, Don’t be like People of the World, Be You.

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Now, Let’s move towards the next part of the topic. i.e. You can’t be Me. It’s not the opposite of the first part like many of you thought. What we want isn’t always necessary, we achieve it or let me say we succeeded in each n every attempt of ours. If something or someone isn’t yours then it’ll never be yours. People will gonna stretched that out from your hand by slap even if that in your reach, even if that in your possession. If something or someone is yours then it’ll be yours even millions of efforts of others wouldn’t stop you to succeed in your endeavour. What it means though?

That means we have learnt to satisfies ourselves. If something wants to go then allow them to leave, if something bad happened then forget it, but never enforced yourself to stuck with past event. Everything isn’t performed as you thought, as you plan, that’s what Life mean to be. Give up, many compared this act to it but hello guys wait. If we take 2 steps back then who said we are done, maybe it’s the real starting. The Rise of new You!! If you can’t be me then I’ll try to make it happen and tries fully to be mine, the spirit works more than your act. Maybe I’m fail, Maybe I’m Tired, Maybe I’m lost but Still I am Alive!! That’s enough to make a comeback, don’t you think?

We people often finds the reason of our Failures, don’t we? Absolutely we are. We just can’t sit and regretting all the time. Rather than to stuck with failure, get up and find alternatives. For example, You had assumes to score in football match but you ended up making an assist, which is almost equivalent to get on the scoresheet and to win the match. You can’t get the ball back into the net but you contributed to get the ball back into the net. Maybe Goal isn’t count in yours but how that Assist go unnoticed? Had you forgot even King is also nothing without it’s Troops?

So, intension is just to find the ways to celebrate, not directly then indirectly, not actively then passively, not by you then some of your acts, not you then someone of you. Always remember life never ends by leaving of someone. Believe If something happens then happens for Good.

If something or someone not belongs to you then never be upset. May be something good and better is awaits you. Never cry in little matters, be mature enough to let go things which isn’t in your control. Always believe and appreciate your soul, Yes I’d get better today than what I Yesterday.


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it. Send your suggestions, thoughts, opinion on today’s post in comment section. Will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

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Numbers: Don’t Lie At All!!


Hello Guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. Many countries of the world had given relief in lockdown or let me say they had given relaxations after cynic try to containment of Coronavirus. Offices and Transport resumed again after pause of almost 60 days with lesser capacity, vehicles started running on the road and Shops, factories continued their respective operation. That’s necessary after all, how many days we captured the Men into their own house? May be to captured the Men is easy, but to captured the Mind of Men isn’t been. It’s never been easy to get control over the brain of people, as it’s working without any break. Excited to be back again in routine and to see the mother nature.

I know we all are excited but never think that lockdown had impacted badly on our life. After all it’s for our life, it saved my life and thousands of like me. Yeah economy affected badly, but as far as we youth is there we could also overcome from this situation. We aren’t Prisoners, We are Future of the World. What we do today, will get tomorrow. If 2020 is the dark spot, then let’s try to make 2021 to Illustrative one by giving efforts. Someday ago I read one article published in my local newspaper that 30% of my countrymen think to buy Four Wheelers at the end of this year and in that 30%, 70% are from age group between 20-35. I know this is just probability or study but we youth had power to do so, to do it possible. Collective efforts go long!!


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Now let’s comeback to today’s one more interesting topic i.e. Numbers. Numbers louder than Words, really is it? There should be two opinion in this regard. First one, the one who habitual to be punctual and discipline whole life and Second one, the one who believes that numbers are nothing but just parameter to judge others. So just tell, In which category, are you belongs to? Don’t get any idea? Okay we start from origin of numbers.

Aryabhata, the Indian Mathematician who had Invented the Zero. Everyone is aware from that right? But what after that? There were many Mathematician of different regions from Greek, Roman, European and Miser. They had given different theories and thesis on the basis of their experience and experiment. Pythagoras, Euclid, Einstein, Newton, Thales, Archimedes, Pascal, Ramanujan were some famous mathematician of the world. Though today we don’t focus into thesis or something like that but understand how much influence of the numbers on our daily lifestyle and all. So, let’s start,

24 Hours, we all have in a single day, right? Or let me say more precisely 1,440 Minutes/86,400 Seconds/ 51,84,000 Milliseconds. From waking up in Morning at 7 till we made our way to bed in the night we came across numerous times with numbers in whole day, don’t you think?

Don’t you think numbers had Taken up supremacy in our daily lifestyle? Obviously, it has. From having birth as a human till the journey of Graveyard, numbers never forgets to follow us or let me say more precisely numbers are loyal friend of us. Wherever we goes, it always with us. The very first day of ours on this mother nature, earth is celebrated by us every year namely as Birthday celebration. We remember that day and parallelly excited to celebrate it, aren’t we? From there we enters into School, a 12-year long journey where we almost learn everything, Good-Bad-Plus-Minus-Lessons, and all. Though in School life Percentage is upmost everything. If someone get goods then each n every wish of them satisfied unconditionally and the one who get worst often punished by their parents, really this is the system of education?! This is education!! Level of Education never compared by Numbers.

So, after completing schooling at around 17-18, we enters into college life, right? Where some becomes Sincere/discipline and others make their own way. After completing degree from recognised college/university all started/joined race to get the highest packages in Campus Placement.

Earning, the new criteria to recognise people rather than by their real identity. The more zeroes in your package, probability to get a good girl is also high, that’s what some believe. Really is it? Dignity, Reputation and Position are the steps of stairs which leads you to wealthier but that do not reveal your real face.

Age, the next criteria to judge others, right? Yeah, We saw many people who encourage less and taunted more. The one who criticize also knows how to answer it and dribble down the situation. If you are getting an older, you can’t do anything new, that’s what they say, and Abraham Lincoln had given them proper answered after facing lots of failure in the life.

From Purchasing Daily needs to the Score of Sports to the Wealth of Person to the Temperature to the Speed/Mileage of Vehicles to the Turnover of the Company to the Age/Weight/Height of People everything is measured in Numbers or Something parallel to numbers.

But still the question plying in the mind, is these Number lie? Not at all. If you are good in study and secure good package, then what’s bad in that? It’s the proof of your achievement. The one who is 90 years old and still manage rank in richest people in the world is really honourable. The one who had won 6 Ballon d’or isn’t anyone’s cup of tea, the one who had 1 Billion Dollar lifetime agreement with Nike is not an easy thing to do.

From Birth to Death, number won’t unfollow you unless and until you won’t go mad. It’s the harsh reality that we are surrounded with Numbers, Really. From taking birth to Earning Money to Spending on Requirement to do anything. We even don’t know when and how our Digits on social media finalize our status by likes to comments to followers to followings!! But yeah, we’ve to admit that they don’t lies at all. Maybe we lies but Numbers they, never ever. If We are 70 then maybe, we tried to hide from the world but that numbers never fib.

Numbers, Really matters likewise words. If Words are the Medium of understanding to each other then Numbers are the medium to connect with each other, not agree? Okay let me explain with the Best possible Example, Your cell number. For people it’s easy if they wants to connect with you, don’t you think?

“Concern is just to aware you all that Numbers never lies. We are scared to accept the reality, rather we find delusionary peace. Number aren’t for Dumber; We have to collectively remove this biased line.”


So that’s all for the Today. What’s your thoughts though? Sent your opinions, suggestions, tips, experience to comment section will replied you soon over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz….

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