Don’t Ever Try to Defeat Anyone, Just give an efforts to WIN for Yourself!!


Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this world. Happy New Year, just this embrace the moment and try to create memory from it. 2021, definitely going to be ours, at last the digit behind 20 is also in increasing manner then how can we downgrade ourselves, right? It’s the time to start from scratch, just forget what had happened to you in 2020, convinced yourself to move ahead in your life. We all had perpetual succession, if someone dies, then someone also took birth, therefore it’s almost nullify effect. No regret at all, just a hope to do good, for good. Just carried forward all your resolutions to this year with little bit upgradation in it. Never Expect too much from life, Just Accept what it feels to live the life as it is.

Following are some points I noted, while experience some truth of life throughout the year. (Please refer the Accounting Terms if you confused somewhere or do comment for clarifications.)

  • Make Investment in yourself, You’ll receive the Dividend soon.
  • Don’t regret on Losing Job, Regret on Losing a Client.
  • You are your Biggest Asset, Enough to Set off any Liability against it.
  • Income of One will Expense of another for sure.
  • In the World, We all are Debtors, the only Creditor here is GOD.
  • Just Believe You aren’t Depreciated; You are Appreciated in all the manners.
  • Nothing is Permanent.
  • Keep Updating yourself, that’s the Whole and Sole Truth of Happy life.
  • The people who can Advertise themselves, can SELL Anything.

And Yeah, Last but not the least,

  • Everything is Possible If you are Surviving.

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Anyways let’s move towards another interesting topic of the day. The topic of the today is little bit different as it was starting of the new year, tried to penned down something new. Though it’s not completely new but it is something which will definitely going to encourage you, after you read it. It’s like to make upgradation in ourselves, from Defeater to Accepter, from Coward to Mature, from Human to Being Human. Any guess? What Santa has in his bag for you? Okay, no more secret and no more wait, let’s just unwrapping what he has for us, so let’s start.

What we Human want in our life? So much, One simply Can’t be able to Measured it in Quantity, right? Even thousand of Santa isn’t enough to fulfil our wishes, isn’t it true? Absolutely we are always go unsatisfied in all the matters. That’s the truth, the one who is Rich, wants more n more money, the one who is poor, wants something which prove enough for live the life, but in fact they don’t get that. The one who has Food, don’t have sleep; The one who has Sleep, don’t have Dream; the one who has Dream, don’t have Memory and the one who has memory don’t have an eye. All have some scarce but in finding of to fulfil that scarce they forgot who they are actually. And the irony here is that when People able to know Who they are, they were already lost somewhere.

People start something for betterment or improvement of themselves but ending in motto of defeating someone. They forget that they aren’t mean to defeat anyone. In fact, you are far too good even when you won’t defeat them. Defeat isn’t just one way to outshine another. When you aim to Beat someone, remember you are also conquerable one by someone, somewhere. That thinking when you are about to do anything to outshine another, isn’t just WAR against them, it’s WAR against YOU as well. As you have to prepare yourself well if you lose in that Game, because sometimes for RESULT you have to play, or have some prior experience of playing. The rule is very simple Here, If You Wants to Play, First Learn to Play.

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When you think you have to beat someone, it’ll definitely not an easy procedure to follow. You can do it but for that you have to ready for sacrifices as well. Sacrifice will be in any manner, and totally uncertain, one really don’t know how and when situation go against them instead of people. Though not an act of Coward, but you have to keep in mind certain things when you decided to defeat anyone. In this situation, all the times one things will roll up in your mind continuously, you have to do that and defeat them. Pressure will build up gradually and you have no way except rethinking on your decision. You did it because you have to do it, because of your ego, because of your narrow thinking.

But had you think, how happy you are after defeating someone, by satisfying your wrong ego? Probably you won’t be happy, and you shouldn’t have to be. Because the fight you fought is to defeat someone, not for you. Maybe you were happy for some time and that happiness will be vanished too in short period, right? Obviously, you are not happy or maybe pretend to be like happy but somewhere your soul isn’t with you. Some Fights are within ourselves, don’t stretch it to outside. Just remember why you started? If you got the answer from bottom of your heart, you’ll definitely not choose that evil way.

Learn to Fight For Yourself, that is the WAR. Stay Strong on your feet, no matter how many obstacle tried to get you down. When you fight for yourself, you are more optimistic regarding result as you have combination of your strength among Mind, soul and Heart. For how long you’ll follow others to outshine themselves? It’s time to follow you and WIN Something for yourself. You’ll be happy for sure that you have done something good for yourself too. In propaganda of leaving someone behind, you yourself believed that you are already behind them.

When you worked for yourself, it generates different kind of energy which can be reflected in your positive attitude also. When you have to beat someone, make sure you have Double Thinking Capacity of them. As they are already ahead from you, you have to gear up in no time which often seems like suicidal way. Just try to do for yourself, you’ll definitely make WIN out of it for yourself.

“WINNING for YOURSELF is 100 TIMES Better Than DEFEATING SOMEONE.

Just WIN Yourself, You Don’t Need to LOSE Anything Then.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all Fight for Yourself not for others. Please comment down all your thoughts, suggestions, recommendations and opinion regarding today’s post below. See you all next Sunday with one more Topic till then Tatta, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.

And a Once again wishing you Very Happy New Year, May you all fulfilled all your wishes!!

Topic for the Next Sunday: Love Jihad: The Black Spot!!

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26 thoughts on “Don’t Ever Try to Defeat Anyone, Just give an efforts to WIN for Yourself!!

  1. Ha yes – it’s not about being better than someone else but about being better than the person you were yesterday. That’s always enough! Great post 🙏

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  2. Great post! Could totally relate to: “Obviously, you are not happy or maybe pretend to be happy but somewhere your soul isn’t with you!” If only we could let go of that false happy face, we could actually be so much happier! Or find it in in ourselves to smile from the heart because we are confident In our own ability to achieve success for ourselves as well, be it 10years later 🙂 (although that would require a lottt of patience :P). Thank you for the post!

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  3. Love this post! And I agree! Focusing on beating someone else takes more effort than simply aiming to win for yourself only. I think it’s because there are evil undertones in trying to beat someone.

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