Head over Hand or Hand over Head?!


Hello guys what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are in this world. December, the most beautiful and cheerful month of the whole year. Not because it comes in end of the year, it is because sooner there will be start of the New beginning, something fresh. Yes, pandemic is still with us, but we all experienced something new, or say we saw almost face worst situation of life all together, right? As said Issues won’t make us weak, it reshaped us for the all new changes of life. If we aren’t capable enough for that, then how can we develop? How can one grow? Definitely sometimes it’s become too extreme because it happens so quickly, that one fails to adopt it in time and succumb to death. It’s the Law of Nature, If you can’t accept the change then how can you expect the world will going to accept you as you are? Being rigid don’t work at all, be flexible and try to be shaped yourself in that particular situation as per need of the condition/need of the hour.


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Anyways let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. By the title, it seems lit-bit confused one, right? Most of you finds that this topic will be related to human body, right? As it comprises two indivisible parts of it, i.e. Hand and Head. Maybe you are right in that guess and maybe you’ll be wrong at the same time. Just Try to recite the Title, It is combination of Two Sentence itself, Head over Hand, and Hand over Head. Did you find the differences between them? Did you get what it tries to convey through? No? Okay, let’s understand it. We go one by one so more clarification one can find here. So let’s start first by,

Head over Hand. The very first question rises here is that What is mean by Head over Hand? Let’s understand. One has so many friends and is popular among them. Due to bigger network he/she reaches everywhere by using the sources available to him/her. In short, he/she made his/her own Big Image in public eye, but he/she fails to maintain very basic thing of life, The Relation. He/she used other’s mind only but fails to establish the necessity of life, The Human Relationship. He/she start the race to become one of the best but ending on losing the back support. He/she choose head over hand means they try to use brain of people for their own benefit and forgets everyone way too far from their reach. Their success won’t last long. Is it really called Success?

Now let’s understand Hand over Head. One has smaller network, resources availability is also low, but their reliability and level of optimism is too high. In addition to that they know if others are there then and only then their success is meant. One thing is crystal clear in their mind, that they will going to rise together if they fell together. Here he/she works for the people and wants to achieve the height of Success with them. When he/she is appreciable, he/she wants that their team also be part of their success as a group. Maybe Success route is Slow but it’s Steady one.

“If you want to walk fast, walk alone

But If you want to walk far, walk together.”

                                                          -Ratan Tata

Hope, now you are able to identify the differences here. The very basic question right now is what one choose in between, Head or Hand? Hand all the way, right? Absolutely, because one can’t simply grow if they forget or lapse the importance of others in their career/success. Look people comes and people go but the real one stays till the end, why? Because they know you, they believe in you, they understand you. If they are able to know you, to understand you then how can you be one be so selfish and forgot them easily? The issue seems genuine but if you closely observe it, it doesn’t.

We all know that All coins have two side, So let’s start from Scratch. One side of coin is good, and another one is bad. If we talk about bad side, then it will include all the stories of Struggle – Hard work /Smart work – Give up and Rising of One’s on their own feet.  Now let’s try to reveal the other side of coin, i.e. Good side. When the people who suffers through all ups and downs, he achieves success and what it brings along with it? Money, Dignity and Ego also follows. Yes and they all played their respective part in the life of successful people, right? Absolutely and there starts the real troubles without any doubt.

Though here people isn’t at fault. It’s the Situation, Consequences and surrounding of them, which often lead them to unwanted ways of life. What is done to him, exactly the same done by him, still we can’t expect that they should behave accordingly. If someone uses him/her and then trash them down to somewhere then it’s not the same one can follow with others. When people stuck somewhere, they starts to think from heart which always creates propaganda and leads to biased decision, slant opinion and all. Maybe by that way they gets the solution they are looking for but for short term. For any long term benefit you have to think about others as well and include them in your plans too. Which creates the layer of trust gently and beginning of your dynasty.

Helping hand is always preferable over some bucks. Try to help someone, maybe you forget that but the one who is beneficial due to you, will always remember you. Don’t use people, Be people for People. Value them to be better human. Sounds silly but it isn’t. In this preach world, everyone use everyone for either of the matter. If you choose Head, then You can start Sprint but for Marathon, You must have to choose Hand. One only pick your hand if they Believes in you, with that their mind also going to assist you.

Hand Attracts more Head but Head Attracts only Head.”


So that’s all for the day. Hope you all get it what message it wants to convey. If people choose Head then they only able to get Physical benefit of others, but if they choose Hand then they able to get Physical and Mental benefit of them as well. Whatever you choose, choose wisely. Share your thoughts opinions and suggestion in comment section. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz. Stay Safe, Keep Smiling!!

Topic for the Next Sunday: Clap Won’t Sound, With a Single Hand!!

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15 thoughts on “Head over Hand or Hand over Head?!

  1. Nice. But some changes can’t just be accepted. You don’t stand there and watch someone be murdered or assaulted and say, well, change has to be accepted, and you can’t just accept tyrrany and fascism. And censorship. Sometimes you have to take stands.

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  2. Great post. I always believe in being genuine in my actions, speak my mind and be around people I truly care. Being fake might help some people in the short term but for the long run they might have to face a life full of loneliness and misery.

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