Hello guys, what’s up? Hope you all are doing good and well wherever you are. Corona, I sometime amazed that really are you exist or the threat of yours threaten us more? Your Hypothecated existence haunted us more than anything else. The lives that you consumed, will definitely won’t go unnoticed but there is something still in our hand but we are not scared of you anymore. Look we are roaming freely on streets without mask, look we are preferred to avoid social norms notified by Government, look we are still live with you. If you killed us, then we still able to find one more reason to blame God, not our own deeds.
So, let’s start from there, where we last stopped. Depression, the word, itself shows its cruelty. Don’t you find it? The state of mind, in which one has Mind but won’t able to think properly, one has Heart but won’t able to feel that there’s something in their life too, one has eyes but their tears are evaporated, one has emotions but they were dried at somewhere – sometimes. They have lot to say but the main issue is that they believe it to be shameful to express. If you can’t let out your words, then it became hard to regain your control on your body, on your engine (Mind).
So, following are some of the Causes/Reasons of Depression:
- Atmosphere: – Absolutely, Atmosphere that you surrounded with is highly affected on your mindset. There are always some people who likes to see you suffer, they like to see your failure, they prefer to see you give up on your goal. Sometimes their weird source of happiness is you. So, they start pressing you and tried to make indirect superiority over you. If you trapped in any of their trick, soon your life became living hell. They tried their best to get control on your life and when you find it, it’s too late. So always stay alert from those, they are in any form (Gender), in no time will enough to make you Zero from Hero.
- Friend Circle: – We already learn about how the atmosphere will affect your Mindset, so the next point is that the people, which you considered into your friends. It’s noted that in most of the cases, the close friends are found out to be Convicts. The Jealousy, the Money, the Show off Trends proves to be judgemental in such scenarios. How much do you know him/her before putting out your secret to them? Later on, that secret will be used as weapon by them so first confirm before serving your dark to them. “Enemy aren’t born, we create them”; enough to enlighten the truth behind the True Friends and Truth of Friend.
- News: – Sometimes we act normally, naturally and sometimes paranormally as well. As a human, we are full of emotions so whenever we got some shocked news, spontaneous event occurrence, we soon find ourselves into dwell of sorrow. We don’t know the reason but somewhere in inner we are broken fully and wholly. We aren’t in position to bear the shock and soon started feeling low because of that. Though initially it should have not impacted on our mind but as far as our heart will cry, we couldn’t say that we are okay. May be by Face you can smile fake, but Heart doesn’t do the same. Your life indirectly affected by that and you too believe to be nothing in life. So be aware from that and don’t allow it to get control on you.
- Relationship: – When it broken, it’s obvious that it’s not possible for everyone to successfully overcome from it, right? The unexpected end of love life leads people to think about them more n more that Really, they aren’t able for him/her or Really, I am this much bad that he/she left me in middle? They are surrounded with questions and end up with big question mark on their Face and Heart as well. Cheating, new normal in relationship. So, one of them comes to know about it that their love isn’t solely their but it’s betrayal, one finds themselves into cloud of anxiety and showering their tears from it. Tears comes but pain remain same it is, until n unless they won’t find peace, a Real Peace!!
- Failures: – As a human we all facing failure sometimes, at some point in life. It’s part of life, but it’s not easy for everyone at all. You had guts but not courage, to stand on your scrambling feet then you couldn’t fight back. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, to try, to fail, to stand, to try again, to fail and to stand again. If you are kind hearted, then be ready to live with daily dying. World is so cruel, they can’t accept as you are, instead they made you like them. If you protest or not matched with them then will torture you till your last breath. You find death more reasonable than it. Be ready to be criticize.
- Financial Insolvency: – Money, the primary need of everyone. But all aren’t lucky to have everything in life. They tried full to achieve and satisfy their need/requirements. Their situation is like if they tried to stitch one, another two gets released. In this fast – forwarding life, it’s hard to manage everything but not impossible. When EMIs gets dues, when Debts hikes daily, when needs also rise sharply it’s became hard for them to survive. They are screwed up by others too, So when the weight of Debts & Dues is increase by the certain limits, one couldn’t stay long in the race. They were outshined by finance. Tense leads them to there, where they even don’t find themselves too!!
- Overthinking: – Yeah, this becomes serious issue day by day that people started assuming soon that which is far away from reality. They ruin their today, just by thinking about that which isn’t happened in real life. Their small puzzled question one day becomes headache of their own. You know Mind is too sensitive, even more than Heart. Won’t believe? Then try to screw your mind sometime, it will be responded doubled. So just stay alert before muddle it, you might think it as small issue but that small issue one day becomes that much big, that you never imagine it to be.
- Miscellaneous: – There are so many more reason which are enough to destroy one’s life through depression. Failure in relationship, less grade in examination, sexually harassment, indirect act of someone, inability to secure the job, lack guts to face the world, insolvency and cheating of partner, etc. Though these are few examples of how person feel depression and trapped into others trick.
- Weight loss.
- Becomes Hyper in small matters.
- Find Alone in crowd.
- Prefer to stay lonely.
- Rigid Mindset.
- Cry in no matter.
- Fear of Insecurity.
- Feels tense over their future.
- Often Try to Harm themselves.
- Avoid talks.
- Gradually becomes Monotonous.
- Gently Decrease Get to gather with others.
So that’s all for the day. Hope you like the post. Depression isn’t the feeling, nor a story to describe. We all passed through it, some survived, some sink. The one who survive, will definitely becomes inspiration for others and the one who won’t, becomes illustration for others. What you want to be, Inspiration or Illustration?
See you all next Sunday, with the last chapter of topic till then Tataa, bbyee, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz.
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