I Can’t Be You, You Can’t Be Me!!


Hello Folks, What’s up? Hope you all are Healthy and well wherever you are. I think Corona couldn’t scare us more now, we all experienced the fear of it but now it’s time to fight back. Sounds crazy but that’s what one crazy person think about. We all resect it, in less or more by following the norms and routine precautions for at least 3 months. Really glad to be back again in work and comes to know about the value of freedom in more depth. Hope you all too, now know the real meaning of Freedom. After all who doesn’t love it?! We are Freebies, so obviously we love to roam freely but, on the other hand, we also love to capture beauty!!! Aren’t We?


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Anyways Let’s move towards one more interesting topic of the day. Just wants to assure you all, if you read till the end you will never go upset by it. It not relates to any particular community, gender, group or something like that. It relates to us, Human. All of us, all living creatures, all the human being. So, are you ready for one more roller coaster ride for the today? So just first tell me, what you think from the title of the post? No idea? Okay. Don’t worry, that’s why I am here. Try to give you all the answer in this post.

So, Let’s first understand the first part of the post. i.e. I Can’t be You. We human always loves to copy others, Right instead of looking for our own Inspiration? Obviously, we find others Garden more Greenish than of ours, that’s human tendency. Don’t feel ashamed about it, there are so many who thinks the same. I am also like you, not the exception in this as well. But do you know why we do like to be like Others? Is it easy? Is it hard? You know it’s too, too, too hard to be like others.

We like someone then became fan of his/her. We changed our lifestyle, we started reconstructing ourselves and still we aren’t 10% of them. You know why? Because it’s of Nature. Nature of people never changed. For your information Nature and Behaviour both aren’t similar though. Nature is what actually comes out from your inner self, while behaviour, we changed it like seasons without any reasons. Behaviour is self-made, while nature is Natural like it said.

Is copying others are really easy? Not at all. May be you look like them, may be you live like them, may be you earn like them, may be you spend like them, may be you smile like them, all these possible but to change your nature, you need to forget who you are, which is slightly Impossible. Everything isn’t that simple as one thought. The way others answered, maybe you aren’t succeeded in that. The way others gain Attraction, maybe you failed in doing so. But the Question is Why You be Like others?

Are you not happy with your life? Okay. Then find your problems in your own way. Do Audit of yourself on regular basis. You find the answer within yourself, improve yourself, made some changes accordingly. Had you thought ever though, Why God Made Us Different from each other? If he/she wishes then they made us all same, it’s possible for them then why we constantly tried to prove them wrong?

If you want to follow/admire someone then Go and looks into Mirror. You know the best thing about the Mirror, Even Each n Every pieces of Broken mirror showed your Real and Whole face. Just simply denied yourself to observe someone, follow someone and judge someone. Utters regularly, I can’t be You. I’ll like to fall into my Pond rather than yours Ocean. We all are unique, so there must be some creativity inside us. Finds it and make it happen what you want to see in the World. Don’t be like World, Don’t be like People of the World, Be You.

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Now, Let’s move towards the next part of the topic. i.e. You can’t be Me. It’s not the opposite of the first part like many of you thought. What we want isn’t always necessary, we achieve it or let me say we succeeded in each n every attempt of ours. If something or someone isn’t yours then it’ll never be yours. People will gonna stretched that out from your hand by slap even if that in your reach, even if that in your possession. If something or someone is yours then it’ll be yours even millions of efforts of others wouldn’t stop you to succeed in your endeavour. What it means though?

That means we have learnt to satisfies ourselves. If something wants to go then allow them to leave, if something bad happened then forget it, but never enforced yourself to stuck with past event. Everything isn’t performed as you thought, as you plan, that’s what Life mean to be. Give up, many compared this act to it but hello guys wait. If we take 2 steps back then who said we are done, maybe it’s the real starting. The Rise of new You!! If you can’t be me then I’ll try to make it happen and tries fully to be mine, the spirit works more than your act. Maybe I’m fail, Maybe I’m Tired, Maybe I’m lost but Still I am Alive!! That’s enough to make a comeback, don’t you think?

We people often finds the reason of our Failures, don’t we? Absolutely we are. We just can’t sit and regretting all the time. Rather than to stuck with failure, get up and find alternatives. For example, You had assumes to score in football match but you ended up making an assist, which is almost equivalent to get on the scoresheet and to win the match. You can’t get the ball back into the net but you contributed to get the ball back into the net. Maybe Goal isn’t count in yours but how that Assist go unnoticed? Had you forgot even King is also nothing without it’s Troops?

So, intension is just to find the ways to celebrate, not directly then indirectly, not actively then passively, not by you then some of your acts, not you then someone of you. Always remember life never ends by leaving of someone. Believe If something happens then happens for Good.

If something or someone not belongs to you then never be upset. May be something good and better is awaits you. Never cry in little matters, be mature enough to let go things which isn’t in your control. Always believe and appreciate your soul, Yes I’d get better today than what I Yesterday.


So that’s all for the day. Hope you enjoy it. Send your suggestions, thoughts, opinion on today’s post in comment section. Will soon replied you over there. See you all next Sunday till then Tataa, Bbbye, Shukran, Rab Rakha, Khuda Hafiz!!

The topic of Next Sunday: – 7 Things You Must Learn to Control!!

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80 thoughts on “I Can’t Be You, You Can’t Be Me!!

  1. This is amazing 😍
    Everybody is unique is there own way and is defined by no one. We must be grateful to everything that comes in our way. Either will teach us a lesson or will make us strong.
    Such a treat for this morning.
    Thank you divyang😊

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  2. Lovely post. I do follow a mantra sometimes , when I find someone else’s garden more greenier, I also remember what Dalai Lama says… that nothing exists as it appears. It helps in accepting our present situations and dealings.

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  3. Divyang, this is such and inspiration al article, I agree with coach Kanika saying ,that this would act as a vaccine for people in anxiety and depression . I too felt the same while reading through ur blog. U striked the right cord inside the mind of depressed person, whom no one can understand, the grief they go through on a deeper level, you elevated all those feelings, and made everyone feel worthy of their originality, however weird or abnormal they felt, through your magical mood popper words u highlighted in ur blog. The best line I loved ‘ may be I failed ,may be I am tired,may be I am lot ,but I am still alive …’. keep inspiring..👍

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  4. Yes, definitely.
    Everyone has to follow some mantra to live the life fullest!!
    If you have Mansion to live but couldn’t get peaceful sleep then what is the meaning of that?🤗🤗
    Thank you for sharing provoking thought here 🤗🤗

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  5. Thank you so much Gauri Ma’am!!
    These words are really full of appreciation…🤗🤗
    I’ll always try to motivate people, to encourage them in right way
    Hope this will reach to needy ones too.

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